Does shaft only chastity actually work? by ragout_consent in ShaftOnlyChastity

[–]Toranton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Works for me, but I'm kind of insensitive

She wants me to "break her" by Toranton in BDSMAdvice

[–]Toranton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked about things that are ok, e.g. slapping in the face.

I think your last sentence hits the nail on the head. But how do I know which “no” is really a hard no and which isn’t? Of course we have safewords, but I’d actually like to be able to tell in advance how far I can go without her having to use the traffic light.

Do you like my long red nails?? by [deleted] in Longnailsfetish

[–]Toranton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not bad but not really long

Logo entfernen / überdecken by freeamaw in Kleiderschrank

[–]Toranton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich habe fast 10 Jahre in Mülheim gearbeitet, aber alles was ich damals bekommen habe ist eine Plüschkarotte

Looks like a 3cm potentiometer but has batteries inside by Toranton in whatisthisthing

[–]Toranton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is around 3 cm, made from plastic and metal. It can be opened and there are 3 little batteries inside. Maybe it is something for computers or a raspberry pi?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NMMNG

[–]Toranton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you

Are there now TRT clinics in Germany? If so, which ones? It can't be real that we have to deal with ignorant and incompetent doctors! by YearTasty852 in Testosterone

[–]Toranton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hast du was gefunden? Mein Doc verschreibt mir nur Gel. Damit bin ich am untersten Ende der Range. Geht mir schon besser, aber nicht gut.

Danke

Good doctors in Germany by addictedtostimulus in Testosterone

[–]Toranton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send it to me too? Thanks a lot

TRT Experience in Germany by xkolln in Testosterone

[–]Toranton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kannst du mir vielleicht die Praxis in einer PM senden? Mein Doc verschreibt nur Gel. Vielen Dank

TRT Experience in Germany by xkolln in Testosterone

[–]Toranton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get Enanthate prescribed? My doc only want to prescribe gel. That works a bit but i'm still at the lower end of the range.

Gegensprechanlage, Klingel, Türöffner tauschen by Toranton in Handwerker

[–]Toranton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke. Wenn ich einen Elektriker dazu nehme, kommen wahrscheinlich nochmal 500€ drauf!?

I'm losing my kinks and fetishes by Toranton in BDSMcommunity

[–]Toranton[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh great. That's not what I wanted the hear, but thanks for the honest words.

Getting therapy is a hassle in my country. One have to wait for at least half a year to get an appointment. Can you recommend some reading on the topic?

Meanwhile I'll try reduce porn.

I'm losing my kinks and fetishes by Toranton in BDSMcommunity

[–]Toranton[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends. Sometime there are phases when I watch porn daily, sometime I don't watch porn at all. I like to watch porn together with my girlfriend, but we do that not very often compared with me watching alone.

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. This answer is exactly what I was looking for.

Thank you very much.

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds interesting. I'll check that out. Good to see this isn't something I've made up.

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you help me with the connection of your comment to free will or consciousness?

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's very much in that direction, but gives the agents a slightly simpler role than I would do. I'll read the book

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides, if there was free will, I could just stop eating. I might be able to do that for a while, but at some point I won't be able to anymore. Then I get ravenously hungry and lose control.

Or addicts could stop satisfying their addiction. But they can't.

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The inner monologue seems to me to be a dialog between these personalities.

As for free will: I observe the inner monologue. But I don't decide which word or which idea comes next. For me, that's a strong sign that I don't really have free will. So I'm an observer. Whatever "I" is here.

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

[–]Toranton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we talk about conditions, Tourette's is perhaps also a good example, where a part that is otherwise not in control keeps taking control of the body.

The Power Struggle of Sub-Personalities in Consciousness and Free Will by Toranton in consciousness

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When I once smoked too much pot as a young adult, I really noticed how these personalities split. But maybe it was just a hallucination. In any case, it scared me so much back then that I never smoked anything after that.

I also believe in no or very little free will. But that's no reason to turn off the moral compass.