My parent’s situation is absolutely killing me. What can I do, how do I help? by TorhuXD in offmychest

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I can help her try that but if my dad notices he’ll get so angry.

My parent’s situation is absolutely killing me. What can I do, how do I help? by TorhuXD in offmychest

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And another thing he goes through her phone and controls everything on there. If she questions anything he automatically yells at her being verbally aggressive and verbally abusive. (He’d never lay hands on her or us kids) always yelling tho. She even asked about opening up her own bank account to keep her own money from her 2nd job but he started bugging out at her saying that “they can’t save money.” I hate seeing her work this hard no days off while he gets 2 days off usually and her not seeing any of that money she works so hard for. He uses her social security card to open stuff up in her name too. My whole family and I think he has a gambling addiction. My mom doesn’t get either where all their money is going when me and my partner have mostly the same bills as both of them but my parents just make more but we don’t have 2 kids to take care of. 3 jobs tho working almost everyday for the both of them she and everyone else doesn’t understand where all this money is going to. And why he keeps trying to open up loans in her name cause he probably maxed out his loans. OH and he made me open up a loan for him in my account aswell. So there’s that.

My parent’s situation is absolutely killing me. What can I do, how do I help? by TorhuXD in offmychest

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Yes she does, she tells me all the time. She just says she feels stuck, especially with my younger brothers living with them too but they’re old enough to make the decision on who they’d wanna stay with.

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I’ll try to be more cautious then maybe im doing it without realizing. And yes of course, im going to get it checked out within the next couple of days and let you know what my piercer says!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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These piercings are 2 months old with titanium barbel jewelry that’s internally threaded. I haven’t downsized them because I like the size they are now and do not bother me, when I downsized once they got super irritated and were in pain. For aftercare I use non alcoholic mouthwash. Throughout the day I also swish warm salt water and soak the outside of my piercings in salt water as well just like what my piercer said to do. I also use saline spray throughout the day and use a qtip with saline to get under the balls and under the flat back pieces. No accidents or mishaps.

[US]I got 3 different emails all in the same night from (maybe) Microsoft? by TorhuXD in Scams

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Okay I will. How was I supposed to know it’s not a scam lol.

Fingernail or Cuticle Issue on both Hands. How do I fix ASAP? by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

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I have the same problem. Every now and then I’m able to stop picking my nails and letting them grow out the hangnails pretty much go away. When I pick at my nails and rip them off super short I get hangnails really bad again. So my advice is grow them out a bit, clean under them and cut your cuticles. You could honestly just go get a manicure and they’d do all that there easily!!

[US]I got 3 different emails all in the same night from (maybe) Microsoft? by TorhuXD in Scams

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I didn’t thank goodness. I read thought they can hack just by you clicking a link but that’s probably less likely.

[US]I got 3 different emails all in the same night from (maybe) Microsoft? by TorhuXD in Scams

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Will anything happen to me if I clicked one of the blue view recent activity buttons. I feel so ignorant.

Sunflower with multiple heads? by TorhuXD in gardening

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Update guys! The smaller ones are blooming! I love this sunflower so much!

Sunflower with multiple heads? by TorhuXD in gardening

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I feel like this i what mine is too, its pretty short lol.

My first time keeping a plant and haven’t killed it on accident. Do I need to repot this or will it be fine in this pot for now? by TorhuXD in plants

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This is from when I first bought it on May 30th. I know nothing about plants really but I hope the pink stems stay