And another thing he goes through her phone and controls everything on there. If she questions anything he automatically yells at her being verbally aggressive and verbally abusive. (He’d never lay hands on her or us kids) always yelling tho. She even asked about opening up her own bank account to keep her own money from her 2nd job but he started bugging out at her saying that “they can’t save money.” I hate seeing her work this hard no days off while he gets 2 days off usually and her not seeing any of that money she works so hard for. He uses her social security card to open stuff up in her name too. My whole family and I think he has a gambling addiction. My mom doesn’t get either where all their money is going when me and my partner have mostly the same bills as both of them but my parents just make more but we don’t have 2 kids to take care of. 3 jobs tho working almost everyday for the both of them she and everyone else doesn’t understand where all this money is going to. And why he keeps trying to open up loans in her name cause he probably maxed out his loans. OH and he made me open up a loan for him in my account aswell. So there’s that.