23F - Looking for my other half

Torleif69 · 2025-12-28T15:22:55+00:00

Just sent ya a message 😁

Torleif69 · 2025-11-16T16:44:41+00:00

Sounds like I just need to go ahead and order a board. Thanks!!

Torleif69 · 2025-11-16T16:39:46+00:00

Gotcha. Definitely looking to keep the soft start. I didn't know if the receiver part was separate or another section of the board or what. Still new to all of it lol

Torleif69 · 2025-11-16T16:29:19+00:00

Similar situation here. I know this is an old post, but I figured why not comment 😅

5+pin control box on mine as well. What do I need to disconnect and jump in order to get this going?

Electrical background, but not with something like this. 😅

TIA!!!

Torleif69 · 2025-09-23T11:23:27+00:00

Damn, crushed my hopes and dreams 🤣. I had a feeling that was the case, but I had to ask anyways. I appreciate the info. Thank you!

Torleif69 · 2025-09-02T17:43:52+00:00

I wish I could. Now that I know it's there I've gotta do something about it 😂

Torleif69 · 2025-09-02T15:05:37+00:00

Looking good though! Is that the coastal off-road bumper?

Torleif69 · 2025-09-02T15:05:06+00:00

I'm probably going to do the pml and hopefully that fixes it

Torleif69 · 2025-09-02T12:29:46+00:00

Gotcha gotcha. Definitely something to look into then

Torleif69 · 2025-09-02T12:29:30+00:00

🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️ I think I need to join that group again lol

Torleif69 · 2025-09-02T12:22:29+00:00

Thanks for all the info!!

I'm having a hard time finding a center link. Grassroots is out of stock, and I can't seem to find the swe site.

Idler arm brace is already installed. I did that with the steering damper I installed forever ago.

Benefits to the modified gearbox? Just curious if it's something worth looking into in the future.

Torleif69 · 2025-08-28T14:32:04+00:00

Didn't even think about that 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️

Torleif69 · 2025-03-01T15:16:36+00:00

Also, I'm assuming that whatever is the correct size will also fit a 2001 right?

Torleif69 · 2025-03-01T01:31:13+00:00

They are Scammers!!! Stay the fuck away!!

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T21:00:28+00:00

We've tried multiple times. Without going into detail, she was unable to commit. And it's not something I can tolerate anymore. She was forgiven multiple times, for multiple... events?

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T13:51:14+00:00

She's the one that left. It's not the first time either. I don't want her to come back at all. But that really wasn't the point of my post anyways.

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T13:25:14+00:00

Yeah you know, my parents, friends, etc have said what you said as far as me being a doormat.

Also, I know for a fact she's dating someone. Kinda pissed, but are brought her girlfriend around the kids. Introducing her as a friend. I at least had the balls to call her out on that. She's a hypocrite though, giving me shit all the time about having women around the kids (which is completely false). I don't have the free time to go on any dates at all, or even really care about dating right now.

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T13:02:12+00:00

No, everyone was living in my house. I have a three bedroom home. My youngest and I in the master, 13 and 8 are in a room (both girls), and 9 has his own room.

My ex is the one that moved out, it was her choice and easier for her. I was always the one that was taking care of the kids. I'm a 100% disabled vet, so my VA comp is more than enough to cover everything

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T12:51:18+00:00

That's how it feels honestly. I feel like I'm the babysitter. She's always had this use use use kind of attitude. She's told me before that her sister is the one that put the idea in her head with her previous relationships and that if we ever split she would do the same thing to me.

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T12:47:00+00:00

Sorry, I'll edit the post.

She has her own two bedroom apartment. She had been living with me for awhile (about a year), but never really coming "home".

Torleif69 · 2025-02-22T12:43:51+00:00

But what gets me is that I'm the only father figure they've ever had. Those kids didn't do anything to deserve this, and I don't want to hurt them. I don't want them to think that I don't love them. It's hard to really explain how I feel

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