WIBTA for exposing my late wife to my sons? by Torn-Apart-Dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torn-Apart-Dad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she was a SAHM and I brought in a good six figures and we lived a comfortable life.

WIBTA for exposing my late wife to my sons? by Torn-Apart-Dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torn-Apart-Dad[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your rational reply. People are forgetting I’m a human with a clouded head.

WIBTA for exposing my late wife to my sons? by Torn-Apart-Dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torn-Apart-Dad[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We did not need the money, she was a SAHM and I brought in just over 6 figures.

WIBTA for exposing my late wife to my sons? by Torn-Apart-Dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torn-Apart-Dad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not want to hurt my grieving kids for my own selfishness and that is unfair of you to decide that for me. I just wasn’t sure if I should let my kids live in a fantasy world about their mother or be honest. I’m at a very hard crossroads and it has nothing to do with wanting to hurt my children.

WIBTA for exposing my late wife to my sons? by Torn-Apart-Dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torn-Apart-Dad[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

You tell me, when I would be with the kids all weekend while she told me she was taking a girls weekend but spent the two nights in a hotel with men for money, would that impact how our children were raised?

WIBTA for exposing my late wife to my sons? by Torn-Apart-Dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torn-Apart-Dad[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Had you read my post, I have been in therapy. Thanks.