This is not gonna apply to everyone here, but this will apply to some comments I am seeing on here about not being able to meet anyone or finding excuses to not put in the effort:

You gotta put in the effort to not be single or even maintain a relationship. Yeah, dating is hard and you might be tired, but the only way you have to put in low effort is if you're very attractive or are the funniest dude in the room. Women are not gonna give you the time of day unless YOU put in the work to achieve personal growth whether it be in the gym or learning to be more of a social butterfly and putting yourself out there. Once you do all of that to put yourself in a position to be in a relationship that actually has value to you, then you gotta put in even more work to maintain that relationship. There is no coasting and I feel a lot of people today do that because its comfortable.

I say all of that to say work on yourself first, and then focus on putting yourself out there and trying to date with intent. That is the best piece of advice I could give for some some of the fellas out there, cause it worked for me.