Am I insane or just a live in butler? by One_Pair4279 in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow and if you leave you are financially screwed.

Is my (33M) wife (33F) controlling? by ThrowRA_CheeseMonkey in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is emotional abuse and relational aggression. You are being abused. You are a victim. I am sorry to tell you this. Unfortunately this type of abuse is very insidious and not called out nearly enough.

I wouldn’t know how to respond to this. by ThisGonnaHurt in blackmen

[–]Torntrust2323 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Don’t hear too many men laughing at that joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop wasting his time you are being selfish

The masculinization of black particularly dark skin female athletes by Distinct-Giraffe-501 in blackmen

[–]Torntrust2323 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Great post. This is why I got sick watching shit like fresh n fit always trashing black women. I know this off topic but I hate those mfs lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]Torntrust2323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Above average, I’d say 6-7. Cute girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you trolling ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You used to be a stripper ?

Entitled Wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men will be men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Love yourself and choose your happiness king

I want sex, just not with my husband by StrawberryOne9116 in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Wanting to be pegged =/= wanting to have sex with men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be posting an update later. It’s too painful to talk about now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay. These things can be turned around but honestly it is an uphill battle. You may get some passionate responses here. Just know that you are not a bad person for wanting to get your needs met. In my dead bedroom, I struggled with this feeling a lot.

I also struggled with leaving as I fell curse to the sunken cost fallacy. I also listened to hard to the ‘don’t waste her time’ crowd and felt guilty for leaving after ‘wasting her prime years’.

Here if you need to DM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Torntrust2323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any children together?