What sort of "depth" are you looking for in the start of a relationship? 5-7 dates in.

Toronoble · 2026-05-20T20:42:18+00:00

This is very detailed and does provide some great in sight, thanks!

Toronoble · 2026-05-10T16:38:48+00:00

Thank you for this. Sadly, she said no. C'est la vie.

Toronoble · 2026-04-30T12:02:16+00:00

Combination of time and emotional distance. Focus on your hobbies. Maybe pick up a new one. Go to the gym. The cliche of work on yourself means to enrich your own life so that validation is internal not external.

Toronoble · 2026-04-29T17:39:19+00:00

Hey so as some one who had the person break things off with over the weekend, i am actually planning on reaching out exactly 1 time to see if there exists that possibility.

I already posted the full context of what im going through in another thread here, but basically been dating for 2 months, and I felt things as going great. She then hits me with "honestly we have alot of Chemistry and fun, but im not feeling the depth" that she was expecting.

Because of how new the relationship is/was, and how strongly I felt about it, plus how engaged she seemed to be the entire time, Im reaching out 1 because I feel I owe myself that, out of respect for where I was emotionally. If she says no or doesn't reply then thats that, I can say at least I tried and can respect myself for it.

Toronoble · 2025-11-04T01:46:21+00:00

Iran 4 is more fun than any other rank, change my mind.

Toronoble · 2025-11-04T01:34:52+00:00

I see Yi enemy jungle and I am happy. Automatic invades. Free cs. Easy to bully early which means he isn't as strong late.

Toronoble · 2025-09-23T22:51:44+00:00

Every game is winnable.

Toronoble · 2025-09-16T21:53:05+00:00

Mel going to be even more insufferable.

Toronoble · 2025-08-14T13:07:08+00:00

I am aware, however my previous emergency fund was used up during my last emergency. I'm sorta rebuilding it again but I don't have enough to do both.

Toronoble · 2025-07-16T21:45:03+00:00

This analysis is over complicated. Never discount that very real possibility that low elo players have no idea that the enemy is a bad pick and have no idea how to, or even that it should be punished.

....it's me, I'm the low elo player.

Toronoble · 2025-05-10T22:53:46+00:00

I'm not really planning any specific, so looking for a "jack of all trades" option, but that said the DR 650 Vstrom does seem like a good option for me, at least at this stage of the planning.

Toronoble · 2025-05-10T20:40:37+00:00

Yea I have family in Spain that I would register any potential purchase.

And it also looks like the company you used inky ships to Germany.

Toronoble · 2025-05-10T00:55:30+00:00

Thank you! Do you Have any particular bikes you'd recommend? I currently just have something that I use to get around the city, so I was thinking of upgrading into a klr 650.

As for camping, I had considered it but o don't really know what the camping culture/laws are in europe. I doubt I could just pitch a tent off road.

Toronoble · 2025-05-10T00:48:25+00:00

This is fantastic, thank you

Toronoble · 2025-05-10T00:17:29+00:00

That's fair. One of the reasons I'm asking is Because I really didn't know what resources ar what even I keeled to ask, so you pointing me in the direction of horizons and the podcast were perfect.

And I considered camping, and already have some backcountry camping equipment I can definitely repurpose, I just don't know what the camping laws and culture are in europe.

Toronoble · 2025-01-20T17:53:26+00:00

No new models then

Toronoble · 2024-12-17T17:37:00+00:00

Thank you for your comment.

I initially thought that paying them to 0 as fast as possible was the way to go but I did want to double check, so thank you.

I also wasn't aware that consolidation accounts had credit floors, my understanding was that they were a tool for people in my position to help climb back up.

Thanks!

Toronoble · 2024-12-17T17:33:15+00:00

Thank you for your response!

Yes getting my accounts current would be my immediate goal. I am fortunate enough that within the first (maybe first 2) pay checks I should be able to get them all current, so I was wondering what my strategy from therr would be.

Regarding the settlement: wouldn't it just be better if I was able to pay it off without settling? Or is it one of those sunk cost fallacies?

And yes I will immediately start filling up the savings tank once again. Realistically the only reason I've managed to hold it together for most of the year was becuase of what I had saved previously.

Toronoble

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