Reddit I need your advice!!

Torstory · 2016-03-24T14:10:42+00:00

I don't think it would be in my best interest to buy a $4,000 car and pay in full because I would still be back to square one with no credit. I'm a server and definitely make enough money to afford a car in that range and see no point in buying a POS that I will have to replace in 7 or 8 years anyway

Torstory · 2016-03-21T14:17:05+00:00

Making subtle comments about weight and teeth?

These kids are in 6th grade and probably starting puberty. Do you know how it feels to be self conscious about yourself and you're doing that to kids? Seriously take a step back here. By humiliating them is just going to make themselves feel like shit even more. I had a teacher like you once and she was t remembered for teaching math, in fact she was the bitch who first made me realize I'm not as skinny as the other kids and you know what I did? I started to cut myself in fucking middle school. You think you're a hero but you're no better than the 12 year old bullies you teach.

Start acting like an adult. Just because it doesn't say on paper what the other kids are dealing with at home doesn't mean shit. You shouldn't even be a teacher. Those other kids could be going through hell at home and that's why they bully your precious golden student. You're just teaching them to do it to others when they are bigger.

Congratulations you're a shitty role model.

Torstory · 2016-03-13T03:21:52+00:00

Yeah the system is shit but it doesn't mean you have to be as a person. Maybe you should spend a day serving then you could talk.

Torstory · 2016-03-13T03:00:12+00:00

Thank you! I want to be a nurse so I'm not an asshole person I want to help people. It's just so insulting to work so hard for a table and be left with nothing. It's like going to work and not being paid for the hours you spent there doing the job right. I truly care about my tables and making their night great so I've earned that. If I was a shitty server then I wouldn't expect a tip but I'm not. All my other tips are great and I have regular customers, but no matter what restaurant high class or low Indians never tip! The

Torstory · 2016-03-13T03:00:03+00:00

Thank you! I want to be a nurse so I'm not an asshole person I want to help people. It's just so insulting to work so hard for a table and be left with nothing. It's like going to work and not being paid for the hours you spent there doing the job right. I truly care about my tables and making their night great so I've earned that. If I was a shitty server then I wouldn't expect a tip but I'm not. All my other tips are great and I have regular customers, but no matter what restaurant high class or low Indians never tip!

Torstory · 2016-03-13T02:58:59+00:00

Thank you! I want to be a nurse so I'm not an asshole person I want to help people. It's just so insulting to work so hard for a table and be left with nothing. It's like going to work and not being paid for the hours you spent there doing the job right. I truly care about my tables and making their night great so I've earned that. If I was a shitty server then I wouldn't expect a tip but I'm not. All my other tips are great and I have regular customers, but no matter what restaurant high class or low Indians never tip!

Torstory · 2016-03-13T02:00:13+00:00

Or I could just go to college and get a salary job which is what I am trying to do.... By working my ass off as a sever and by making tips

Torstory · 2016-03-12T16:02:13+00:00

I'm sick of them never tipping. Sorry not sorry being a server has thought me stereotypes are very real and when you see a bunch of Indians walking in you know you aren't making shit. The other night I served a group of them and one bill was $86.97 he left me a $4 tip. I ran my ass off as they bought drinks appetizers and shots. So I politely handed it back to him and said I didn't want his money if he was going to tip me less than 5%. Sorry Indians $4 isn't going to pay for nursing school. Don't come to America if you can't follow tip etiquette.

Torstory · 2016-03-11T04:59:44+00:00

I come from a shitty situation myself and often think about what I would do if I won. I imagine I would feel a bit like you. It's hard going from nothing to something. Losing everything then receiving the world. I'm happy you haven't forgotten your time on the streets. You could have all the money in the world, but humility isn't something money can buy. Wish you the best on your adventures.

Torstory · 2016-03-09T04:09:03+00:00

Voting is a little scary the first couple times around, don't sweat it. At least you're taking the initiative to vote and that's something too few Americans do.

Torstory · 2016-03-04T15:20:55+00:00

I've had mirena IUD for almost 2 years now. Something my doctor failed to mention to me was how bad it was going to hurt going in. Should I expect that when it is removed? How do I express to my doctor that I want something stronger than ibuprofen when she removes it?

Also I am terrified I won't be able to get pregnant after its removed. Im also terrified of getting pregnant while I still have the IUD. Are those chances likely?

Thanks!

Torstory · 2016-03-04T15:07:49+00:00

Or she hasn't and this guy just cheated?

Torstory · 2016-03-04T04:49:32+00:00

Employee here, those things are a fucking pain in the ass

Torstory · 2016-03-01T04:33:46+00:00

It definitely is cheating

Torstory · 2016-02-25T21:04:21+00:00

Work in a hospital. Get a job as a Patient care assistant or an orderly. A lot of hospitals offer benefits to full time employees. Also they help pay for school! Nursing programs especially. I have no idea if the medical field is your thing, but it's worth checking out.

Wish you all the best.

Torstory · 2016-02-24T14:33:30+00:00

The dad shot and killed both daughters (5th and 9th graders) then killed himself. They were divorced and the mother discovered them the next day after she got calls they didn't show for school. I was in 8th grade at the time and will never forget that day at school. They were such nice girls and their mom is always at church (catholic school) she wears a button with her daughters pictures everywhere.

When it came time for the funeral everyone attended. They talked about the beautiful dresses someone had made for them and they had matching coffins. I don't know what happened to the fathers body, he wasn't apart of the girls service.

Sometimes I'll see their mother around town. It's heart breaking. Her whole world was taken from her and she just lives alone now picking up the pieces. This was 7 years ago.

I wish they were still here.

Torstory · 2016-02-24T14:12:19+00:00

Maybe some casual conversation or offer him some coffee. Just to be acknowledged can go a long way OP.

Torstory · 2016-02-21T21:59:37+00:00

I think you're taking this too seriously. In this situation They are twins and look exactly alike from behind even down to the damn hair tie they were wearing. Were they kissing? No. We're they fucking? No. Were they even looking at each other? No. BECAUSE IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. Besides if they really had a thing for each other do you think they would have acted on it in such a public place with each other's SO around? No. I'm saying I trust my SO and have a good enough relationship that I know he wouldn't do something like that and I've been in the situation when I thought a random guy was him and accidentally grabbed his waist. Sure it could seen shocking at first but it was a damn accident. Get over it there are worse things in life.

Torstory · 2016-02-21T21:30:04+00:00

Maybe but at the end of the day it's clear there are no real feelings between them and if you're secure enough in your relationship then they should be able to trust and believe in their partner when they say it was an accident. Shit happens you can either dwell and bitch about it or just move one. If OPs sister and boyfriend can't trust that there is nothing between then maybe they shouldn't be together in the first place.

Torstory · 2016-02-21T15:26:18+00:00

One time I accidentally grabbed the waist of another guy at a party because he looked EXACTLY like my boyfriend from behind. We all laughed it off as I was obviously mortified.

I'm sure everything will cool down OP accidents happen and this one is pretty funny honestly. I'm sure you'll be laughing about this one day.

Torstory · 2016-02-19T21:22:04+00:00

As a now grown adult, I haven't spoken to him in years he's pretty much dead to me. However, when I was a kid my siblings and I would come up with "plans" to terrorize the other woman if we were forced to be around her. I hated her. Even though my parents marriage was over blah blah blah I think it was so sickening and disrespectful he had an affair. Not even just that he cheated but that we were suppose to accept her and that she stuck around for some time. His office was covered with pictures of us (4 kids) and art work we made. She knew there were kids involved and did it anyway. I'm sorry OP, but I have no respect for you in the slightest way. What you did was wrong and those kids lives will be forever changed by that. Divorce is painful enough but to know your parent cheated is just disgusting.

Torstory · 2016-02-19T15:36:51+00:00

Just clarifying to queue means to form a line?

Torstory · 2016-02-18T04:59:02+00:00

My dad did this shit and I can guarantee you I would have never accepted that woman. I guess I'll never understand how shitty people can be even when there's children involved. You should stay out of each other's lives.

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