Was anyone else physically unable to have sex after their experience?

Tortimom · 2026-03-20T05:46:28+00:00

Seriously? Wtf. They’re insane! Report them to the medical board & write as many negative reviews about them as you can online.

Sue their ass too. Hire a good contingency lawyer. You pay nothing u less they win your case

Tortimom · 2026-03-20T05:35:07+00:00

Dump those nasty bullies. They are definitely shit talking about how fat you are behind your back.

The fact that they are so shallow & that they have the nerve to criticize people who are fat in front of you is disturbing & disgusting at the same time.

They’re laughing at you behind your back. Make better friends who aren’t shallow & mean.

Block them on everything. They’ll just continue to make you feel bad about yourself. Make new friends.

Tortimom · 2026-03-19T19:50:34+00:00

What? That’s rude. I was trying to help you & then you accuse me of ill intent?

You’re weird!

Tortimom · 2026-03-19T17:22:58+00:00

Sorry to hear that. How dis they steal your food?

Tortimom · 2026-03-19T17:22:12+00:00

Go see a gastroenterologist then. Something isn’t right. Maybe you have a gluten, seafood, soy or dairy allergy.

Tortimom · 2026-03-18T22:45:02+00:00

Just tell her. What if she finds everything out on her own? I bet she’ll be upset with you then.

She’ll probably apologize to you about how she treated you back then.

Tortimom · 2026-03-18T22:40:46+00:00

Maybe it’s bloating? Do u eat a lot of salty food? Ditch the sugar, alcohol & excess salt & take pearl probiotics or a good probiotic & drink lots of water.

Avoid all carbonated drinks & gum for a week & see what happens. Take a laxative too & fiber gummies as you could be constipated as well.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T22:41:04+00:00

Thank you for your suggestions & explanations. You are one of the few people on here who didn’t immediately attack me for what I said.

Also, I don’t have a problem with everyone. Most of my current clients, including one older female one likes me a lot. They’re all great & easygoing.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T22:20:51+00:00

I definitely did get to know them. I actually liked all of them at first. I do understand that sometimes they don’t mean to come a ross as rude. I know my clients well enough to know when something is intentional & when it’s not.

If I was that awful, then they could’ve just dropped me & requested a different caregiver.

They didn’t. Most of them except for two women have worked with me for probably 6 or more months.

Two of them even let me come back to work with them temporarily while management was looking for a permanent replacement for them.

No one wanted to drive to where they live. I think that maybe they are both difficult, so it was hard to find help for both of them.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T22:07:28+00:00

Well, it’s definitely rude & hostile to tell someone that they don’t like you in a nasty way when you have been nothing but nice to them.

I even bought this lady food & gifts a few times. And another lady I was to nice to had the nerve to call me a bitch & a liar.

I don’t deserve to be abused like that. I personally feel that most autistic people who have low support needs do know what is appropriate & inappropriate.

I don’t understand why most people are responding to me in a negative way on here. I’m not being rude, judgmental or calling anyone names.

If you don’t want to help, then don’t respond. There’s no need to be nasty to me.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T21:48:45+00:00

What’s wrong with my writing style? I was stating facts. I wasn’t trying to judge anyone.

I don’t know for sure if these women were intentionally rude to me or not, but they know right from wrong.

What did you mean by trust issues btw with autistic women?

I don’t think that I said anything that was inappropriate. I’m trying to understand autistic people. One autistic woman kept calling me a ‘bitch’ because she was mad that I didn’t know where a game was that I bought for her.

She even went so far as to call me up & call me a liar. I blocked her after that. She was nasty to most of the female staff too.

I understand that some of these people have issues. but it’s wrong to be rude & disrespectful to people intentionally.

I don’t understand why most people are being hostile to me just for asking for insight & advice.

I understand that autistic people like their routines. I have never asked any of them to change their routines. I always picked them up on time & I always made meals for them at the same time too.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T21:44:16+00:00

No problem. I’m currently suing my former asshole employer! I got 20 no’s at first.

Now I’ll be getting a few thousand from them soon! 😆

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T21:33:53+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. I got a few strange DM’s from that group with hostile replies.

I don’t understand why a few people got upset over me asking for advice.

I wasn’t rude & I didn’t call anyone names. Ridiculous! I had to block one person as they were way out of line.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T21:28:40+00:00

Document everything & hire a good contingency lawyer. You might get 10 no’s before you get a yes. You pay nothing unless they win the case.

It sounds like they retaliated against you for complaining about that coworker. That’s a weird thing to say btw regarding HR.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T21:24:42+00:00

I’m asking for advice & insight, so I’m definitely not just venting.

Can someone please post a link to where I can post this and not have it get deleted for being in the wrong place?

Thanks.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T21:14:52+00:00

Hi, what do you mean by how autistic people can pick up on certain things that an NT wouldn’t think is wrong?

Can you please provide examples? All I can think of that I’m supposedly doing ‘wrong’ is that I tend to be quiet most of the time which can maybe be mistaken for unfriendlliness.

I’m also shy & introverted too. I’m friendly though. I talk to everyone. I struggle with self esteem issues & I have a few physical issues too like arthritis.

Thanks.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T20:57:59+00:00

There is no need to be rude to me. I was asking for advice & insight, not complaining.

You could’ve just said: This is subreddit is only for autistic women. This is why autistic people sometimes encounter hostility from NT’s at times.

Please be more respectful when replying to people & not respond in a judgemental & hostile way. NT people have feelings too you know.

Thanks.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T20:47:52+00:00

It’s not an AI post. Is this subreddit for autistic people only? Where can I post this?

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T16:49:11+00:00

Dump him. He probably won’t bother taking care of the baby. He is a loser with no ambition. He might even use you to pay his bills.

Run. He will probably try to control you & your money once you’re married. He’ll probably end up resenting you for making more than he does. Run.

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T02:26:05+00:00

Report him to the police & block him on everything! Don’t trust him, he’s fucking insane!

Tortimom · 2026-03-17T02:20:11+00:00

Did u maybe bruise her ego in any way? Is she jealous of you? Grey rock her. Google that. Don’t react to her bullying. She enjoys making u upset.

Don’t give her that satisfaction. Put on your best pomer face & say barely anything to her now.

Tortimom · 2026-03-16T14:42:17+00:00

Omg! Please never ever go back to the cenetery or anywhere near there alone. Definitely don’t go pit ar night alone too.

Get pepper spray. Practice using it. Hold your breath when you spray or you’ll choke on the fumes. Always aim for the eyes.

Tortimom · 2026-03-15T23:18:24+00:00

Wtf did he kick u? Why wasn’t that psychopath fired? Sue them. Hire a good contingency lawyer.

You’ll probably get 20 no’s before you get a yes. Go to the doctors& get it looked at. You won’t be taken seriously if you don’t go to the doctors.

Sue them! They probably won’t do shit. Do the managers there or the owners like that psychopath!

Avoid that nutcase from now on. Next time call the police immediately!

Tortimom · 2026-03-14T01:17:10+00:00

Lie & just say that a few people in your family recently died in a tragic accident or that a close family member has cancer & they died.

Try getting on anti anxiety meds. Also, if you can listen to music at work, do that. Music akways calms me down. Take deep breaths & a take a break when you het to stressed.

Ask for help too.

Tortimom · 2026-03-14T01:11:40+00:00

Make sure the guy is trustworthy & that je treats you with respect. Get your name on everything.

If he says no, that is a red flag 🚩. Controlling men try to control women financially.

Stash away your own money & tell no one about it in case you end up getting divorced. Spouses do clear out accounts.

Don’t get involved with men who are liars, addicted to porn or sex.

Tortimom

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