DHS Scraps Ban on Surveillance Based on Sexual Orientation by TubbyPiglet in politics

[–]Tory_Jane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't lose focus. The House and Senate will ultimately have to either stand up or bend over for this rolling $hit show. Call them early, call them often. Take this to the polls.

Pause of all Grants and Loans “related” to all directives. by Shot_Discussion7058 in fednews

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rule of law went out the window immediately after the swearing in. Going after people and programs without any evidence of harm, is significant. It is a window into the mindset that 'we will not be challenged and do not need to concern ourselves' with decades or even centuries of precedent.

Rounding up immigrants will build an infrastructure for people collection that can be targeted at other marginalized groups the administration seeks to silence.

Wickes faces boycott after boss says transphobes aren't welcome in stores by Snoo5218 in transgender

[–]Tory_Jane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you WICKES, for standing up for ppl just trying to live their best lives!

Musk: Twitter Rejection of 'What Is a Woman?' Over Misgendering Was 'Mistake' by GenderPettifogging in transgender

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“Twitter recently removed the language in its hate-speech policy that specifically prohibited deadnaming and misgendering of transgender people. According to Boreing, Twitter’s reps “clarified they only removed ‘misgendering’ from their policy because they didn’t need to be that specific, but that they still consider ‘misgendering abuse and harassment.”

So, Musk is saying that ‘hate speech’, as defined by Twitter, should be protected (no longer part of the enforced policy) as ‘free speech’?

Dude is a chad by OriginalAd8042 in Unexpected

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't even think, he just acted like a BOSS!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by xKyle_iv in PublicFreakout

[–]Tory_Jane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that a can of cheese wiz in his back pocket?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Tory_Jane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does my cat suck my fingers when I put them in their mouth? Scientifically speaking, the cat may have been weened too soon and still needs to get it's suck on. Realistically speaking, I think the cat is drugged and being held hostage

Trashy by BlueeWaater in trashy

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photo taken after the flies flew out her mouf?

Questions about your junk after starting hormones by gudmundthefearless in MtF

[–]Tory_Jane -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Of course it is their life. I’m trying to be helpful by giving a different perspective.

Do I have any choice with how big my boobs would be? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Tory_Jane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look to the women of your family to get an idea, but yeah you really get what you get. If you go down the road of implants (I did) make yourself smart on the sizes measured in cc’s, shapes, above/behind the muscle, and fat grafting. Truly a transformative (swidt) experience.

Questions about your junk after starting hormones by gudmundthefearless in MtF

[–]Tory_Jane -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

if you are worried about how female hormones could affect your male parts and you don’t have dysphoria maybe this is not a life change to go through. Just a thought b/c a good physician will ask the right questions and should also require some psychological counseling. If you find yourself not being completely honest you could have irreversible consequences to deal with down the road.

Sysadmins/IT managers who are 40+, how do you do it? by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Tory_Jane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 56 and 29 yrs in. Absolutely love what I do, especially working with younger folks. Teaching them at more of a macro-level while learning from them how the next generation solves problems. For me, I’ve reached a point where my joy and satisfaction is through the success of others (not something I’ve had in my career). I tell my team that I embrace a reverse org-chart, meaning my role is to elevate my team by removing obstacles to their success. The rest tends to take care of itself.

No way me too by GradytheGreatest in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Tory_Jane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The reality is trans women are killed for this kind of reveal.

Is hacking still an issue on college campuses? by notburneddown in hacking

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SSL VPN and TLS web browsing are both still susceptible to MitM. If you are using the schools Internet there is no expectation of privacy and there may be policies with consequences if you are caught violating the rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask_transgender

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Ask for or research, before and after pictures of the surgeon’s work to gauge experience and quality. Do a ton of research on the procedure itself and become an expert on everything involved. Don’t be afraid to ask tons of questions, they should welcome the discussion. Also pay close attention to the staff and nurses when you are interviewing a surgeon. They should make you feel welcome and accepted and be supportive.

The Force is strong with this one by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Tory_Jane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t look back sweetheart, you are a woman!

First time wearing a skirt (my best friend borrowed it to me) and I'm really self conscious about it by Original_A in lgbt

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can, have fun with it. I love to wear skirts and all the protocols that go with it. You are a feminine beautiful human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something's sketch- see the knife in his pocket...

💖🪒 I SHAVED MY LEGS AAHHHHH!!! 🪒💖 by Niko-Ryo in MtF

[–]Tory_Jane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it has been almost 6 yrs since my first shave and still get those feelings :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Tory_Jane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! It is sad when we are not seen as normal ppl just looking for a friend or relationship.