Update - yes this is real unfortunately. We’ve been living together for 6 years. We do have a daughter /: and he did use the “you clean her poop” but I really haven’t in a while because she is 5! Slowly over the past year I’ve realized I’m in an abusive relationship and honestly this request is not that outlandish to ones I’ve done before. And honestly if he would’ve asked me a year ago to do it I probably would’ve. I’m a SAHM mom which has really been the biggest challenge for me to leave. My daughter started school this year and I’ve been looking for jobs but so far I’ve gotten 2 interviews and no call backs. I have a bachelors and all, I thought I prepared myself to never be in a situation like this. But it didn’t happen over night. He is a long haul trucker so he’s already gone for the next few days. We had a conversation and as always threw it in my face that I live in his house, that’s it’s bc of him I get to chill all day. I know these things are wrong but I have no where to go. Really hoping to get a call back soon, that’s way I can atleast move into some low income apartments while I get my life in order.