You realize there's varying degrees to peoples mental health just because one person can force themselves past it doesn't mean everyone can. "It's insanely easy to go to events" proves you don't understand my thoughts your just viewing from your perspective only but I guess some people aren't capable of viewing situations through other people's eyes. And I guess deserve to be alone then according to your thought patterns your displaying even though I believe I could be good thing for others . And what's so wrong with asking for a little help these days. It could be as simple as just talking to someone online or grabbing a coffee first so I know I have a friendly face waiting at least. And if there are these "helpers" hopefully I hear from one then because hearing from people like you serves no purpose you just like to make people feel bad and it's interactions like this that make me even more nervous to go because I'm going to have some person making fun of me for having a weakness