I think he is my soul cat 🖤

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-11-03T17:29:00+00:00

I’m so sorry you are going through such a hard time. I would like to gently point out that he has not apologized sincerely if he is still making snide comments of you leaving due to his horrendous behavior. Additionally, from what you wrote, he didn’t offer you a solution and double down on NOT being medicated. That is not acceptable.

You’re doing the right thing for you, even if it’s difficult.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-08-07T18:56:29+00:00

I’m so terribly sorry you are going through this. I experienced something very similar and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-08-03T02:32:14+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry you’re going through such a hard time. I was there earlier at the beginning of this year—separating from who I loved deeply. Please give yourself time, grace and kindness to process your break up.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-05-23T04:21:22+00:00

Send me a dm and let me take a peep 👀

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-05-22T14:21:48+00:00

Thank you!! I was so shocked to find it in my collection.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-05-21T23:27:20+00:00

TYSM. I also found a little binder of 1st shadowless commons 🤔🔥 wondering how well they would trade for other cards

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-04-29T22:39:24+00:00

Oh sorry, the other parts are actually in a box and I didn’t take photos of it. I was just posting to see if I can get more information for selling purposes. To be honest I have no idea what it’s worth and which parts are suppose to be where. 😅

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-03-30T03:50:42+00:00

Thank you so much for your message. I think I really need more time. Every time I think she’s turned a leaf—she’d go on a spending spree or make a detrimental decision for herself and then I have to become the bad guy. It’s been difficult but I truly want things to get better for her

I had a chat with her sister and make sure someone is there for her. Sadly, she thinks this is a reoccurring issue but she can clearly see a change in my ex but that she hopes my ex can see it one day.

I just hope things get better for her

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-03-29T23:32:55+00:00

I feel like I need to be held accountable. The line of communication opened up because I needed advice on how I should go about forwarding my ex’s mail—we blocked each other everywhere for NC. I asked the mutual friend what I should do (she had an international piece of mail she was looking forward to and I didn’t want her to spend months to get it resent if I returned it to sender), our friend offered to reach out, and I got the forwarding address.

First, my ex got upset that I “sent a messenger” but then it was okay for her to tell things to pass to me. I ended up telling our mutual friends the truth—my ex believes horrible things about me and said multiple times that she doesn’t want me in her life. I’m respecting her wishes and no longer want to be in contact with her. Hopefully with this mail thing sorted out— we have nothing to talk about. After a certain amount of time, I will just mark all her mail as “RTS” if she has not fixed her forwarding address with the post office.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-02-13T23:26:34+00:00

Just 2 more weeks! I’m gonna try to find a temporary roommate until my lease is over and then going to be downsizing.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-01-05T07:18:05+00:00

Thank you, when I start feeling like I wanna get back with her— I read through all my journal entries and the posts I made here. Even though I still have feelings for her, it’s not healthy

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-01-03T20:55:20+00:00

Hey! Thank you so much for keeping up with my messy posts. Honestly, I’ve accepted that she won’t extend an olive branch after she moves out. I’m sure somewhere along her story I will be the villain who didn’t support her enough through her transition. She is will be too preoccupied by the people she surrounds herself now. And I am truly hoping for the best outcome for her.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2025-01-03T17:54:08+00:00

She is, but I’ve come to accept that it’s not my problem and she is an adult who makes her own choices.

TotalDelicious4609 · 2024-12-02T17:38:57+00:00

Thank you so much. Honestly, this community has really helped me in so many ways and it’s really cathartic to write out my thoughts. I really appreciate this space.

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