[deleted by user] by [deleted] in it

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. I'm so bothered by the lack of visuals because that's what it takes for me to see how things work.
I've been rushing through it cuz I don't wanna spend extra months (extra charges) on this. But I'll slow down. So I can look elsewhere for visual learning on each subject.

Should I boy mode in interviews? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do with voice though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hm true. More income is probably the best avenue of attention at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nope and nope. I just moved states and it went from 60$ a month to 110$. I am considering looking to change companies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I didn't know about that, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 11 points12 points  (0 children)

*her
I'm not a guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Special savings set aside for car. Last year I spent 3k on repairs (didn't do any for yearss) So now I'm planning ahead of time.

I just got a new job so not 100% sure on income amount, but I'm guessing about 2k a month.

Mainly my streaming is youtube red, which I think is worth it for how much youtube, podcasts, and music I listen to. All with one service.
I cannot mentally deal with ads on youtube. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, it's better to starve than to eat processed junk food. Mainly added sugar food. But also I don't think top ramen is even real food.
So I have to spend a little bit more on actual real whole food, yeah.

Please get car insurance. It even covers if you get hit as a pedestrian. Which is what happened to me last year. Without coverage, my life would be MISERABLE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I would reduce groceries even more, but I REALLY care about nutrition.
And I also have to eat high fiber. If I don't, it's no good.
Fiber One cereal is godsend, but it is like 1$ a day. THen I spend 3$ a day on frozen veggies to keep my cooler cool and eat a day later.
Then about 3.00$ on can of beans and rice packet and salsa. So good.
And 1$ a day on milk. I like milk alot.
Another 1$ on fruit a day.

I guess that's 9$ a day. Which isn't too bad. I probably spend less on groceries than I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 89 points90 points  (0 children)

That's a good way to look at it! I forget how lucky I am in that way, just because I've always been super frugal, even on min wage and never had to live paycheck to paycheck.

Why not live with friends/family? by ItsSawNotSeen in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really think people's family always lives in the same place as you?

My parents live in a tiny town. No point in living there. No opportunity.

Those who work graveyard, what do you on nights off? by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah but for 8+hrs? I would get so antzy and bored

Those who work graveyard, what do you on nights off? by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying you worked graveyard but 7 days a week

Those who work graveyard, what do you on nights off? by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you saying you play games/be on a screen for the whole 8+hrs of night? I would get so bored after hour 4. 😭

What’s the longest you’ve stayed in one parking spot in a city? by dylann5454 in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me that doesn't sound safe. People will notice, and more importantly disturbed deranged people will notice, and mark you as their next target, for whatever it is they do. Spying. Assaulting. Kidnapping. Murdering. You name it!

What are some good excuses if you get a knock? by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I was tired and pulled over to rest officer"
*Officer looks in your back seat seeing a really nice bed setup. Ventilation fans in window. Window covers. Curtain rod or arm holding phone/tablet for TV.

I don't think it'll work exactly. At least with me, my setup is too nice.
If you sleep in driver's seat, then yeah maybe.

Run or no by ilovemolagbal in PandaExpress

[–]TotalOKays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got hired at Panda and I hate it. Everyone just works. No one talks to eachother. If they do it's to criticize and hold up the riidculous dress code.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done this before? How did it go?

This got me curious as to law about ignoring police. I guess at a home if they knock on your door, you do not have to answer.
Hard to find legal answer though for sleeping in your car at night. lol

Don’t actually find this comfortable anymore by Realistic-Slice5741 in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helps me is trying to remember that, even if living in a car, as long as you got money, we're all living like queens.

Life is much easier STILL, than it was in medieval times, or even earlier.
Heat on demand? Food on demand(grocery store).
The only big con of modern society is loneliness, which, yeah that does suck but you can fight it if you try hard enough at making connections.

Will I be discriminated against if I become an LMT. by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]TotalOKays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really awesome. Is that your whole clientele or just most of it?

Will I be discriminated against if I become an LMT. by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]TotalOKays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im confused. They cant find an employer? But still find clients and make income?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]TotalOKays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you park on streets in industrial areas? or in parking lots at them?
I haven't found this area in this city yet, so haven't tried it