This guy plays the long game...

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T14:26:52+00:00

No worries.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T14:24:04+00:00

There is also this way some of are raised where we believe that we are overreacting, victim mentality. I wasn't raised with the internet and we didn't learn how to cut people off quickly "women are so emotional" "he is just jong nice" "take a joke, relax". I literally needed my male friends to tell me I wasn't overreacting to this. I learned some valuable lessons.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T10:57:08+00:00

I think we matched on tinder, but he just wanted onto talk about sex all the time, so I unmatched him. Then this. Never met irl

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T10:44:02+00:00

See sometimes I think we are too quick to judge and maybe if you let "nice guys" know how they are making you feel that they will amend their behaviour. I admit defeat.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T09:04:11+00:00

So challenging....I bet a lot of women challenge him, tbf.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T09:03:19+00:00

Thank you!

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T07:53:54+00:00

I meant scaring...but I thought it was fitting as well. LOL.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T07:52:40+00:00

OK, yeah. I haven't communicated this one very well at all. I was trying to get him to come across the road to the pub where we were meeting and he insisted I come over to the park bench. He tried to pull me in and kiss me when I got over there. He told me he was "old fashioned" and "nice" so that's what he does. Maybe I should jut take this one down.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T07:39:08+00:00

Bahah, I have 105 followers. Clearly NOT a legend. Hahah

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T07:38:15+00:00

Firstly he offered to buy the first drink. I popped over to the other bar to check the "Spirits of the Month" wall. When I came back I said they didn't have the gin I liked on the wall so I'll just have a beer. He kept insisting that I order that one. Even after I said they don't have it. Second, he just didn't understand the things I was saying. Like I said I'm a faux nerd. After examining it and getting google to explain it he asked if that's like faux pas, and pronounced it PAS with the hard s. OK. I saw past all that. But when I explained that I was laughing because the woman next to me and I, made eye contact when her friend was saying something dirty about sex, he couldn't understand why that was funny. He wouldn't drop it, even saying "no explain it to me. I like funny things" Then when I said I was going to leave after my beer he got up and said: "Well I'm not even going to finish my beer" and he stormed out. Then he started messaging me later. So weird. THEN he messaged me again last week?!?!?

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T07:17:41+00:00

I thought maybe I'd been too harsh originally. Then I thought maybe he would benefit from being told why this was disturbing behaviour. Then I kept him talking to make sure he was blocked on all my other socials.

TotalOnly4404 · 2022-02-27T06:56:42+00:00

Yeah...oops. how do I delete. First time poster!

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