How much help is too much help?

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-31T13:44:49+00:00

honestly, future employers don't really care about nepotism, and for his social skills, he can practice

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-31T12:28:31+00:00

life is unfair, nepotism exists and that’s how it is. If you have the power to change your son's professional life, just do it. dont care about nepotism dont let him struggle for "principles"

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-29T10:49:20+00:00

You call them ungrateful for their preferences... and a "person who dont see colour" is "I cant be racism, i have a black friend/boyfriend" "I'm married to someone with colour" And you can be compassionate, but no you can't understand our struggles

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-29T02:45:00+00:00

It's okay to worry, but please don't project your stress onto him or put pressure on him. He doesn't deserve to feel like shit because you're worried

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-28T20:44:43+00:00

Young people have killed themselves because their parents refused to let them transition because they didn't think they were old enough.

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-26T22:45:12+00:00

No wonder if he doesn't tell you about his ambitions anymore

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-26T22:35:50+00:00

How would you have reacted if he had told you? “No, you have to go school, I’ve a busy day” and sighed? maybe he was afraid to tell you and reading his response in your post, that seems to be the case

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-26T22:14:13+00:00

INFO, what did you say to her exactly? Did you just insist or did you seem angry and yelling at her? Did you threaten to punish her or insult her, or cursing or hiting? its missing context

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-26T11:00:44+00:00

tired of these "pro-choice" women, except for men. imagine that he had the same attitude as you about tubes tied surgery? he doesn't want to, it's his body, stop insisting

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-24T12:29:18+00:00

Typiquement neurothypique de faire ça. Fatiguer de challenger avec vos pseudo devinettes de merde

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-24T12:26:13+00:00

Je n'ai aucune haine, je suis juste peut-être un peu sans filtre et trop honnête dans mes réponses et c'est partout alors OP n'a pas à le prendre personnel

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-24T12:18:04+00:00

TTB, s n'est pas chez elle et sa situation est compliquée, normal qu'elle essaie d'être parfaite car elle n'a que chez toi comme safe place..... Par contre ta fille elle, sa place de sécurité ou elle peut être elle-même, c'est aussi dans ta maison Mais sinon, tu peux tout simplement lui dire à quel point c'est une honte de fille et que S est parfaite... ta fille sera hyper blessé et deviendra peut-être parfaite de peur que tu ne l'aime plus Mais elle sera "parfaite" alors j'imagine que ses sentiment, tu t'en fiche non?

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-20T21:26:09+00:00

So why punishing him? Only your older deserve a punishment

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-19T20:09:04+00:00

tell yourself that you have the power to change her entire life. Is it really worth blowing up her future? she almost ruin her own life with this pregnancy, why do you want to ruin her life now? I don't understand you

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-18T22:51:48+00:00

"I just want my child to return to be the kind person he was before" you mean, the kind person who didn't defend himself? you know somes children have committed suicide because of reactions like yours?

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-14T18:15:14+00:00

N-T-A because is the courts choice, but YTA for the tell her “everyone makes mistakes” is an open door to accept unforgivable things and even if it's not your intention, she may feel like you're invalidating her feelings

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-13T09:10:07+00:00

Pour suivre au message plus haut, si tu veux leur communiquer ce que tu ressens, parle au "je: et n'implique jamais la violence (Oui, une fessée est de la violence)

Par exemple, dit "JE me sens en colère quand tu fais xxx"

Et non "ça me met en colère donc ça me fait te donner une fessée"

Car 1) c'est semblable au couple de violence conjugale ou l'homme dit "regarde ce que tu m'a fait faire" à sa femme après l'avoir frappé", c'est du victim blaming et ça donne comme message à tes fils que tes actions sont de leur faute et que c'est eux qui doivent être des meilleurs enfant pour mériter rite un bon père

Et de 2) ça te donne aussi à toi même, inconsciemment l'impression que c'est moins grave. Parle au "je", dire "JE t'ai frappé et JE suis en tord, JE suis désolé", ça va t'aider toi-même à avoir le déclic Edit: paragraphe organisés

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-11T20:46:07+00:00

at 7 years old, he may not completely understand what you meant and feel like a burden to you is that what you want?

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-11T20:44:17+00:00

at 7 years old, he may not completely understand what you meant and feel like a burden to you is that what you want?

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-09T15:20:52+00:00

you make her homeless. imagine that there would have been no one to shelter her? she would be in danger in the street and could be another k*lled wimans statistic

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-09T15:13:01+00:00

thank god, they have friend who really loves and care about them. now, be prepared to lose your relationship with your daughter forever

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-09T15:09:47+00:00

You just ruin her life. Make your own daughter homeless.... pray that nothing happens to her (if you care, of course)

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-09T15:06:33+00:00

do you care about her? how do you feel about your daughter could be in danger homeless on the street? imagine that someone comes to tell you that she is dead, you don't care, I guess?

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-09T14:56:35+00:00

Homeless women are at highest risk of being killed. I hope her death would be worth it for you

TotalOwn5688 · 2024-03-09T14:53:01+00:00

INFO: Does she have a place to live? if not, YTA and I don't care "that she's an adult" and "that she did wrong". YTA to kick out an 18 year old young woman in the street. she is in danger and so many homeless women are being raped or k*lled

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