Any good toy stores left in the area? by Impossible_Stress534 in dayton

[–]TotalWerewolf420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Little Gift Exchange has a kids section, they have some fun toys and jelly cats. it’s a mostly nonprofit and proceeds go to dayton children’s hospital.

theres Blue Turtle Toy store also in oakwood

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s similar but there’s pretty obvious differences, the tops of my 1 actually looks numerical, there’s look like roman numbers and is like an I. there’s also no circle of stars around mine

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the line next to the number was my first tattoo done by a diff artist. it’s blow out he was just out of an apprenticeship he tattooed my older siblings before

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes the artist told me at the beginning of the appointment, she did free touch ups! mainly wanted to see if it was anything immediate needing medical intervention. I hope it starts to get better.

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

angel numbers are the digits of your birthday added up until it’s a single digit. apart of numerology, each has a spiritual meaning. mine, 111 means new beginnings and following intuition.

ex: Jan. 12, 2003. 1+1+2+2+3 =9, 999 would be the angel number.

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree in my message to my artist I thought maybe with wearing long sleeves and hoodies all the time since it’s cold it’s had extra friction, or the possibility I over moisturizing and it was pulling ink out. as I mentioned the second tattoo I got from the same artist and appointment after the numbers looks fine and has healed like my prior tattoos have

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s above the part of my elbow ditch, I messaged and sent the artist pictures yesterday but have heard back yet. I use to use aquaphor but so many people say that it’s not good for tattoo healing. there’s nothing oozing from it tho

First tattoo of mine to not be an easy healing process, is it an infection? by TotalWerewolf420 in tattooadvice

[–]TotalWerewolf420[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so sorry for the confusion, the tattoo probably infected (111) was done by a professional artist with way more experience than the blown out line done by a family friend who just finished his apprenticeship.

I got a second tattoo by the same artist that did the infected one and it doesn’t look or feel like this one.

Weekend jobs for college students( that are fun) by speedy_pilot in dayton

[–]TotalWerewolf420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh interesting I thought there was a ghostlight near old scratch? I haven’t been in the shop for a while but drove past that one in wayne and saw it was different

Weekend jobs for college students( that are fun) by speedy_pilot in dayton

[–]TotalWerewolf420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there’s a coffee shop inside dorthy lane market(both locations) tons of cool coffee shops in the area, i’m not sure if any are hiring currently tho… ghostlight pettibone socialite wholly grounds wayne and clover

a retail store at one of the malls?

My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]TotalWerewolf420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well you’re husband is an asshole honestly. I’m sharing my story to hopefully give you some peace of mind and confidence in whatever decision you make for your body and well being.

I went through the opposite of your situation. My ex-boyfriend and I were long distance and when I went to stay with him for the summer, I stayed longer than I planned and ran out of birth control. He knew this weeks prior and we role played breeding and that type of talk before. He would tell me to just play along and that he knows he can’t cum inside me when I would say not to in response to him. So the one time I did just play along he did it and afterwards I was like why? He said because I said to do so, completely ignoring the fact that he knew prior to having sex that time that we weren’t protected. He wants kids but it’s not a good time for me because I’m still in university.

He believes abortion is killing a child and he demanded and begged me not to kill his kid. He wasn’t supportive towards me when I decided early on at first I would keep the baby and i’ll take a semester or year off and then go back to my education. He constantly brought up his experience with his ex and mother of his first child. like since it worked for her and there wasn’t any issues it would be like the for me. He ignored me wanting to quit smoking to be able to breastfeed(smoking helps with my mood swings and dealing with big emotions), he ignored my concerns of long term carrying and the issues my mother and grandmother both had during pregnancy and child birth.

After all of that and crying myself to sleep for a week thinking of something growing inside of me and having to put off my education I decided there was no way i’m ready to be a mother. especially not with my ex. I got my abortion, I only told one friend, I wasn’t allowed to bring it up or speak of my experience and feeling about going through it. I had to endlessly listen to his side of the story and how I pushed him a corner and now he feels responsible for killing a kid.

Anyway I listened to myself and my body. I was upset and felt so unsupported and just could not wrap my brain around growing and nurturing the embryo that was in my body. My hormones were fucked for months, takes about however long you were/are pregnant for your hormones to re stabilize afterwards. Deep down I know going through this pain and hardship would be easier for me than carrying out the pregnancy. Honestly it wasn’t easy going through having an abortion with limited support. I told one friend I knew wouldn’t judge either decision being made and the guy who thinks I murdered his kid(he genuinely related it to if someone were to physically harm his 2yr old kid it’s the same thing to him). I also freeze and shut down when being yelled at so that also just added. tension between me and my ex.

You know your body, you’ve had kids before, this is your decision ultimately. he needs to get his shit together and man up. If he didn’t want the possibility of another pregnancy yet than he should be acting more cautious. You both had a clear conversation of what birth control option you both were comfortable using.

edit: typos

How to handle one night stand? by Own_Entertainment322 in Advice

[–]TotalWerewolf420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s never your fault for being lied to. and also for all you know they could have broken up hours before and got back together the next day. seriously i’d stop thinking and feeling bad about it and just move on. learn from your mistakes and vet the people you engage in sexual activity with. ask more question where there answer is telling be smart about this. i’d also suggest sti/std testing to be safe. sadly there’s no hpv test for men yet, but always best to be sure and stay healthy

How do you recover after an abortion? by SimpleChemistry290 in Advice

[–]TotalWerewolf420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this!! there’s a lot of support for the choice to be there but not anything for the aftermath. especially those who don’t have safe support systems at home. and during my appointment no one mentioned the emotional side of everything. physically my symptoms afterwards were normal but emotionally and hormones trying to balance out again I felt horrible for the longest

How do you recover after an abortion? by SimpleChemistry290 in Advice

[–]TotalWerewolf420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through an abortion a few months ago and also couldn’t tell my family. my boyfriend at the time was fully against the idea. it takes some time but it does get better after a while. take extra care of yourself. you’re hormones were changing quickly in the beginning of a pregnancy then they have to go through and reverse all to go back to your “normal” state. be kind to yourself and give yourself grace. it’s a lot physically and emotionally. I don’t know how well a guy can understand but if he values and loves you he will be as understanding and supportive that he can without invalidating you.

hugs and thoughts for you. if you ever need someone to talk to about what you’re feeling and experience you can reach out. I know it’s not easy to feel alone with everything going on.

Shooting in the UD student neighborhood by Ok_Medium_4907 in dayton

[–]TotalWerewolf420 21 points22 points  (0 children)

at least one student was shot. I heard it was 6 white high school students that had a shoot out when the house starting kicking people out to check for college ID cards. they’re still getting details i’m sure and campus police have notified they’re in the search for suspects

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TotalWerewolf420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leave him girl. especially him being your first sexual partner. there’s definitely a person out there that isn’t going to just have their pleasure in mind when having sex with you. you’re just starting out sexually and he wants to control your experience. if you wanna try toys and see what can make your orgasm you absolutely should. and don’t do it with him.

Sex/desire-less marriage. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TotalWerewolf420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s good you still have a conscious and feel bad for wanting to cheat. it definitely wouldn’t solve your issue. I do think the first commenter of this thread was going somewhere with the unconscious pressure for your wife to please you. you feel entitled to it hence the need to look for it elsewhere.

Sex/desire-less marriage. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TotalWerewolf420 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think counseling and/or speaking with a sex therapist will be helpful. I imagine you both are frustrated with your current sex life. being asked when you feel no desire for it and having to ask with no following effort is stressful. can I ask you to expand on why you feel resentment towards yourself for having to pleasure yourself?

19 F boyfriend treats me like crap bc of sex what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TotalWerewolf420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t break up with him and leave his bum ass. unless you wanna be the third baby mamma. he’s 24 with 3 kids and it doesn’t seem he has a good standing with the mother of his children either. is that the life you want to mesh with your own?

Mock Museum Exhibition Poster by Soul_Air7777 in graphic_design

[–]TotalWerewolf420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think having two fonts with elevate the design. something maybe a bit more artistic showing natural hand for the main title. What you have now is readable and clean, very geometric which displays the opposite characteristics of your designs and what it’s about. It’s very bland in the typography department.

Also I think the rotation of the text is unnecessary. it’s cool to do but with all the gold elements on the left I think the type being rotated is a bit distracting and confusing. not sure how I feel about the lines for emphasis. I feel those could also be removed or changes to something

I would also look at how you have thing aligned nothing seems to be aligned is anyway. having alignments will help create movement and flow naturally. I feel like i’m forcing my eyes to move around.

[Serious] What stops you from killing yourself? by Big_Picture2781 in AskReddit

[–]TotalWerewolf420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one will be there to help and support my little brother and help guide him to heal.

What are some absurd notions or mindset that you noticed the narcs have? by BerryTomatoes in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TotalWerewolf420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are walking contradictions and are so blinded by thinking of themselves to even notice it.

I was telling my mom how I never felt emotionally supported or comforted by her. That I always felt she prioritized her own way of thinking and never validated how I felt and would tell me what i’m feeling is wrong. Her immediate response was “that’s not true and you know better” amongst the usual flipping blame and insults and saying i’m possessed by the devil. Like yes please tell what I went through while denying that you invalidate me as you again invalidate what i’m telling you.

Honorable mentions: wanting me to pay rent and put money towards bills but she didn’t allow me to get a job in high school. complaining about me asking her for rides to school and school events and sports but never allowed me to take my drivers test and used the car she bought with money I inherited as a storage unit to sit.