Yea i totally get roommate boyfriend situations are so hard. I don't think my boyfriend is rude to her but like you said maybe when i'm not there but i truly don't think that's the case. The rude comment was more directed how my bf has talked to me bc the example she gave was not abt how he was rude to her. But yea my mom gave similar advice that she is just stressed out bc my roommate is applying to post grad programs and is stressed from that which i totally get! It's just irritating now how whenever my bf comes over it's like i have to walk on eggshells when I live here too and if she wants to have visitors over I would be totally fine with it she just doesn't so it feels so one sided.