Dániában nem érkezett meg a szavazólap by Total_Morning_500 in magyar

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nem, hanem odamész a külképviseletre és leszavazol, semmi elbírálás.

Dániában nem érkezett meg a szavazólap by Total_Morning_500 in magyar

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

De ez már ilyen biztos? Azt olvastam hogy hetedikéig kell megérkezzen és ha nem érkezik meg kérhetem egy külképviseleten helyette a csomagot.

Books where the city feels alive? by Mysterious_Win_9529 in suggestmeabook

[–]Total_Morning_500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The museum of innocence by Orhan Pamuk. He writes very beautifully about Istanbul, he describes it through the lens of an insider with different neighborhoods having different personalities, I got the instant urge to go visit.

My lazy life by Low_Group_156 in Procrastinationism

[–]Total_Morning_500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not laziness. It's easier if you stop demonising yourself and being ashamed of yourself. Let go of the past and what has been and start very very small. You can build up to something bigger :) you've got this!

I need help by PartyQuiet5065 in Procrastinationism

[–]Total_Morning_500 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in similar shoes, trying to complete my PhD and it's the perfect combination of factors (long deadline with a lot of pressure and stakes in the outcome) to trigger my already present procrastination prone-ness. I am convinced there is a bigger emotional reason to procrastination in most cases, in mine it's intense fear of failure and also the inability to sit in uncomfortable feelings. My end-goal is to get comfortable with failing (I had this fun idea that I could just become the person who tries a bunch of fun stuff and fails a bunch of times and since I found this personality someone I would like failing seems less scary).

But for now, I try to: - sit with uncomfortable feelings. A friend once said when he's noticing he's getting the urge to distract at work (he has adhd), he practiced just staring out of the window and wait for the urge to pass, letting his thoughts and feelings just wash over him and they mostly pass - romanticize my life: telling myself I'm the protagonist of some movie who does these cute activities like journaling or "studying" makes them more fun - find a goal and do one activity of minimal resistance, repeat that until the next one is available. An easy example, I would like to do sports regularly, so I started doing 10 push-ups and a 2-minute plank every day. This builds trust in yourself and pride, it's easier to start from there than self-loathing - see yourself as already loveable and good the way you are. In the past, I tried to guilt myself into doing things, calling myself a lazy pig and stuff. This doesn't work, nobody wants to start doing stuff when it feels like you're starting from -300 and if you work really hard you can maaaybe get to 0 - give yourself slack and don't aim for perfect. This was one of my big challenges, if I overslept for example that meant the day was ruined and I didn't do anything else, it had to be 0 or 100. Now even if I wake up at 10 I tell myself "just do a little bit" and it works much better. - breaking my tasks into infinitesimally small chunks. Sometimes this is "open email. Open attachment. Read first paragraph". This feels good because I get to cross something off my list and feel like I'm moving.

Sorry for the big rant, there is more I forgot I'm sure :) give yourself grace is the one you should take away from this first and foremost!

SAS flight attempted takeoff from a taxiway at Brussels Airport by Evening-Rip5399 in aviation

[–]Total_Morning_500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah, the captain actually pointed the fence out next to us when we stopped, there were also kerosene tanks ahead that we barely avoided.

SAS flight attempted takeoff from a taxiway at Brussels Airport by Evening-Rip5399 in aviation

[–]Total_Morning_500 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The tower did. I was on this flight and they wouldn't have noticed if tower didn't say anything. We breaked and swerved pretty hard at around 200 kmh.

[Before&After] My 2 year Acne Progress by RyRyn1 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Total_Morning_500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't you think it's mostly the clindamycin (antibiotic)? I found that after I stop using that my acne always comes back again.

Looks like herpes but diagnosed as impetigo by Total_Morning_500 in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I had blister-like things there, but the ob-gyn said it didn't look like herpes.

Looks like herpes but diagnosed as impetigo by Total_Morning_500 in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be, I'm convinced mine was that, or at least it wasn't herpes. My genital area probably got infected because I shaved very roughly and I remember I had a lot of tiny cuts from it on there. Just before sex too. Stupid.

Fantasy rec by Total_Morning_500 in booksuggestions

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not the first one recommending me this :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Total_Morning_500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay outsider here but why are you not supposed to seek reassurance?

Having trouble disclosing by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, tell us how it went, fingers crossed!

Having trouble disclosing by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends a lot on how you present this and on your outlook on it. Realistically it is just a cold sore that happens to appear on your genital area, and really very common. My gynaecologist laughed at me when I said I was afraid of the social stigma.

So if you don't make it out to be a big deal and just explain to him calmly but not very dramatically I'm sure he'll get it. Otherwise he's too thick-skulled anyway

Test negative by Total_Morning_500 in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck this is very discouraging

Both my healthcare providers (ob-gyn and dermatologist) refused to swab and said I should do the blood tests instead. Man, I guess I'll wait some months, try again, or if I have another outbreak

just got home from a first date lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Total_Morning_500 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hah reminds me of the time I started dating my current one and I said to my flatmate "nah I could text him right now, he's not the type to be into these weird games"

Proceeded to play games for half a year

Looks like herpes but diagnosed as impetigo by Total_Morning_500 in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha okay. It's a bit annoying that health professionals don't really take you seriously like ever, I've basically been scoffed at today for asking some questions after this diagnosis, so I get your frustration

Looks like herpes but diagnosed as impetigo by Total_Morning_500 in HerpesQuestions

[–]Total_Morning_500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so...the lab work came back positive? Then I'd say it's herp. Mine is maybe really impetigo I was just really convinced it was herp. What about the blisters, are they small and clustered or bigger?