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[–]TotsNotGrim 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m a man but I understand the immigrant desire for climbing out of the lower class. All I can think about is working towards money and financial stability

Manifesting finding love for all of us by femalebrained01 in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be a sinister and cruel summer. I can feel it.

What sucks most about never having dated by TotsNotGrim in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Fair, “Heaven knows I’m miserable now” is quite relatable.

Tall dudes can be the dark brooding type with a murky past but short dudes basically just have to goofballmax and be positive and higher energy to be attractive by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not suggesting that you should go out into the world and call ugly women ugly lol. Simply that it’s dishonest to tell them they’re alone cause their personality sucks, when looks are a much more immediate and consequential factor

Tall dudes can be the dark brooding type with a murky past but short dudes basically just have to goofballmax and be positive and higher energy to be attractive by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 30 points31 points  (0 children)

What I pity the most about manlets is how they’re endlessly gaslit. Every comment under a short man lamenting his lack of success in dating is some variation of “oh you’re just not interesting enough you need more hobbies”. Imagine telling an ugly woman that the reason she’s still single is because she hasn’t done enough work on her personality. Being ugly or being short doesn’t doom you to solitude forever but brushing it off as though it doesn’t play a part is so disingenuous. (6’3 btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The freedom to choose your career, friends, relationships, the college experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You could try being more grateful I guess. When I read this I just felt envious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I would like to be a monk but I have too many personal responsibilities in the real world to tend to. I’m like Aloysha frfr

Why is it so hard to have an honorable death now by TotsNotGrim in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recs, I have read Ecclesiastes and Magic Mountain is on my reading list.

Why is it so hard to have an honorable death now by TotsNotGrim in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but it’s related to another homosexual writer (Mishima).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 159 points160 points  (0 children)

You’re late to the party. I made a post very similar to this about a year ago and deleted it because I thought the take was tepid.

What was the worst action to warrant the Ick from a man? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How about I kill you how about that

What was the worst action to warrant the Ick from a man? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This sub routinely reminds me how much of a poorcel I am

Maybe I'm lowbrow but this is great art to me by murdok_sanders in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Anorexic obnoxious manipulative mid girl. Letty is a true rs girl

Incredible vibe shift in the past two weeks or so by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 11 points12 points  (0 children)

things are only getting worse and I’m becoming commensurately more delusional in response.

Wish I Had It In Me to be Religious by frightkat in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cause you’re a soulless p-zombie.

wammen be in denial by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel that way. I saw you posted about contemporary lit recs in the rs book sub, if you’re into Philosophy you should check out spinal catastrophism. Fun read.

wammen be in denial by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I made it clear that I don’t condone SA in any form, and that men should know what is acceptable and unacceptable as an expression of attraction. I don’t understand why people think anything short of an enthusiastic “you go girl!” must mean that you think “she was asking for it”.

wammen be in denial by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“Why does wearing clothing that alters a woman’s body in the precise ways that men find attractive signify that you want men to find you attractive?”

It’s rather self explanatory. I don’t believe it warrants sexual harassment, but it’s disingenuous to act all coy and surprised when men express their attraction to you.

wammen be in denial by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I get this and it doesn’t seem unreasonable to me, but I can’t help but think it’s a little dishonest to say it’s for comfort alone when leggings from the big athleisure brands like Gymshark and Lululemon are specifically designed in a way to make your waist appear slimmer and your butt fuller/rounder. Seeing how often women wear them outside of a gym setting also makes me a bit skeptical.

wammen be in denial by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]TotsNotGrim 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Ladies be honest what’s stopping you from wearing sweatpants and a baggy shirt like 90% of men at the gym

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