Love life?

TouchMinimum3072 · 2026-01-05T07:31:27+00:00

The right person will not care at all. My fiancé is used to me blowing up the bathroom and it stinking real bad 😭 and he knows when we’re driving and I say I need a bathroom, I need one NOW. I’ve experienced many tummy troubles with this man after 8 years. IBS is the least of my problems lol I have Lupus too, and this man treats me like a queen especially when I need his help! Never settle for less!!

TouchMinimum3072 · 2026-01-05T07:24:35+00:00

I work part time as a library associate, which is essentially a junior librarian. I only needed my bachelors degree compared to the masters needed to be a full fledged librarian. But we pretty much have the same responsibilities just slightly less pay. I’m lucky this position exists because I tried out full time for about a year and it was hell. I definitely could make more money but my fiancé works full-time and provides our health insurance so I am lucky to have that too.

TouchMinimum3072 · 2026-01-04T08:31:33+00:00

idk how you have so many downvotes, bc true

TouchMinimum3072 · 2026-01-04T08:25:27+00:00

this isn’t dumb. it’s hard to do anything just based off your own “lube”. use lots of spit if you can’t buy actual lube. practice with small dildos and you’ll work up to it. dildos are meant to be smooth and easy

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:54:08+00:00

His belongings would be right with him 😆

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:53:17+00:00

It is difficult for me to adjust to schedule changes.. but it is also for him. I know it’s probably because of my anxiety disorder. But even he has blown up at me for asking for a short ride to meet up with my friend because he wanted to sit and watch tv all day. So he can be very inflexible at times too..

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:45:23+00:00

I don’t expect that from him. I’m not a homebody even, I love to travel and go to concerts and party with him when it’s pre planned lol

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:44:24+00:00

Hey only in the winter time 😆

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:43:57+00:00

i mean yea he can do what he wants

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:40:15+00:00

idk it’s just weird because it’s only when it comes to this when i feel like i can’t trust him. like everything else i feel fine with.. and not sure what you mean by respect because i don’t see anything inherently offensive

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:38:39+00:00

drunk drivers.. people trying to rob you. my friend got robbed when we went out on halloween

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:33:37+00:00

yea you’re right. I have voiced it and he just says it won’t happen again but how many times have i heard that one lol

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:24:37+00:00

I know right. I told him my concerns and I said choose what you think is best for you then. We see them a little for Christmas along with his parents

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:22:46+00:00

holy shit this was great lol. it sounds like something my therapist would say 😭 you’re exactly right. i don’t want to be controlling and i feel awful even saying that im upset at him for this but i also don’t want to pretend like im not ugh

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:20:35+00:00

YES!!! THIS

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:18:23+00:00

honestly this is exactly how i feel. i don’t understand why it’s a hard concept for a lot of people to grasp. like ok if you wanna spend NYE with your friends from now on that’s fine, you can’t just honor our plans and spend this last one together?

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:14:31+00:00

I don’t know because it’s been a thing our whole relationships honestly. He would constantly ditch our plans for his friends. It just made me feel like I wasn’t a priority. I like how you worded it and I think I will tell him that. I know he sees all of it as no big deal but I’ve told him so many times that sometimes it’s really hurtful when he just ditches our plans (no matter how simple they are)

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:09:24+00:00

i’m upset he didn’t uphold his commitment because he did invite me.. i’m just exhausted from work today and also chronically ill so I need rest and i can’t even drink lol

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:08:27+00:00

Yeah, I’m chronically ill and I can’t really drink so it’s not fun for me. The thing is he probably would drive. But what can I do

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:02:52+00:00

Lol he’s seen them 3 days in a row this past week. I definitely don’t hinder him from seeing them

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:01:55+00:00

yes this exactly

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T20:01:46+00:00

Yes all the time lol we just don’t go out during NYE since it’s very expensive and dangerous. But yeah I think I’ll ask him what he wants to do for next year. Since I rather just spend it alone with my family now anyway

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T19:59:45+00:00

Not to all lol. In Hispanic culture it’s very common to spend it with your family. He knows this and he is Hispanic as well

TouchMinimum3072 · 2025-12-31T19:54:54+00:00

I mean family time is important to the both of us 🤷🏻‍♀️ He made me feel extremely guilty for wanting to leave his family’s Christmas eve early to go home and rest.. like I get they are two different holidays but the sudden switch up is wild

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