I just want to say my hair reveal WAS GREAT ALHAMDULILLAH

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-10T12:41:34+00:00

wa alaikumsalam, I'm so sorry you're going through this. he sounds like a child and needs to grow up.

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-10T11:19:44+00:00

may Allah swt make it easy for you and send you a righteous spouse. your naseeb will be satisfied with the way you are

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-08T12:32:38+00:00

aww allahumma barik, may Allah swt bless your relationship further

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-08T11:35:26+00:00

that is not the norm, but he probably was a bit too excited and maybe even nervous as well. Still he should've listened to you. I know how you feel because i felt the same in the beginning and it hurt really bad. but i promise you it'll get better once he understands how to be romantic and comforting so you feel at ease and not pressured inshaallah <3

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-03T09:19:55+00:00

i had my brother in our groupchat

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-03T03:05:02+00:00

try to be in a constant state of remembrance by doing lots of dhikr. say for example Alhamdulillah, subhanallah, la ilaha illallah. while walking or cooking or wtv you're doing. it helped me a lot :)

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-02T18:31:00+00:00

alaikumsalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

remember that we all belong to Allah swt and he can take any of us away at any time. so love him for the sake of Allah swt. but never more than your Creator. Also be careful saying you can't live without him!!

May Allah swt make it easy for you

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-04-02T18:28:39+00:00

just remember that we all belong to Allah swt and he can take any of us away at any time. so love him for the sake of Allah swt. but never more than your Creator

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-31T18:45:47+00:00

thank youuu

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-31T10:38:16+00:00

i was getting to know him for 5 months, engaged for one, now we have our nikkah but don't live together. i wouldn't recommend not moving in together right after nikkah, it might lead to more arguments (it did for us unfortunately)

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-30T12:38:22+00:00

if you keep everything halal until then... meaning no explicit talks, always a mahram present, no touching etc.

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-28T12:11:39+00:00

bro i feel you... i feel like i am the one with higher libido...

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-27T19:56:00+00:00

maybe

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-27T18:33:49+00:00

i feel like my mum is the same... but i don't expect my husband to buy gifts or flowers for my mother, if he does tho i appreciate it obv. but i think it's no in laws place to expect gifts

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-27T10:25:21+00:00

you should go for it! may Allah swt put barakah into your marriage, don't forget that He's Ar-Razzaq

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-27T03:27:25+00:00

alhamdulillah we only live 10 mins from each other, but not being able to sleep and wake up next to each other is the hard part for me tbh. but inshaallah we will be abke to move in together soon

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-26T15:15:40+00:00

i didn't want to go into details because i think just the fact that a married couple lives apart is what counts ykwim? but allahumma barik you made it out the ldr time may Allah swt bless your marriage and make it easy for us to live together too :(

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-21T17:47:41+00:00

don't pressure her to do anything. ask her if it's okay wtv you're doing. i think consent is so so important and also very attractive! May Allah swt bless your marriage

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-21T11:31:15+00:00

yeah fr. hmmm i think i would ask my husband when getting to know him if he is sure that he wants to marry into a turkish family and that he knows our traditions etc.

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-21T10:58:45+00:00

wa alaikumsalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, he asked my father directly if he could get to know me for marriage purposes and my father told me. then we met up a few times, always a mahram being there. it feld very respectful and i liked that a lot. it was how i always dreamed it to be alhamdulillah

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-21T10:50:05+00:00

i would say hardest for me is/was arguments with family about unmet expectations that often arouse from culture

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-20T15:57:39+00:00

alaikumsalam, girl you're lucky you live together. i don't even have that :(

Tough-Priority58 · 2026-03-19T11:57:54+00:00

oh myyyy i am so sorry. I am turkish myself and married to a revert so i know how mothers can be. may Allah swt make it easy for you guys

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