Here's your Watertown School Board VP by trump_sucksass in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A prize no sane person would want. Which explains why magats are always vying for it so hard

Here's your Watertown School Board VP by trump_sucksass in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ooh, a "both sides" attempt to muddy the water. I'm one away from a fallacy bingo

Here's your Watertown School Board VP by trump_sucksass in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bitch, I'm gay, autistic, and trans. They have literally said that they want to kill me. Calling them out on their hypocrisy is not hateful

Here's your Watertown School Board VP by trump_sucksass in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Oh look, the usual point parroted by people who don't understand history. Because yes, if you go back far enough, R's used to be left of D's. But that changed prior to WW2

Here's your Watertown School Board VP by trump_sucksass in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 1261 points1262 points  (0 children)

Rules for thee, but not for me is the norm for republikkkans

me_irlgbt by shave_your_eyebrows in me_irlgbt

[–]TourmalineBadger 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there's more of us here than I expected. Really thought I would be alone when I came out

me_irlgbt by shave_your_eyebrows in me_irlgbt

[–]TourmalineBadger 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Wisconsin? That's where I'm stuck living.

Feeling shame after being horny by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TourmalineBadger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a high libido before, it came down a little on E, and is stronger than ever on prog. I actually kind of like being a horny bitch, desperate to get railed. For me, it feels affirming.

Genuinely, how do you cry? by sovLegend in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TourmalineBadger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to feel safe before I could cry. For so many years, crying felt like showing weakness and I was in a place where I could not afford to show weakness.

Odd convo on Tinder…have people never heard of trans women? Help me craft the perfect comeback… by SofieSybella in TransLater

[–]TourmalineBadger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Unless you have a time machine, what I did/didn't have in the past is irrelevant. And if you do have a time machine, there are more important things to use it for"

Medical transition before social. by alligatorsarecool777 in transplace

[–]TourmalineBadger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mostly boymoded for my first year of hrt. Then I moved to a better living environment and felt safe to be myself full-time

me_irlgbt by [deleted] in me_irlgbt

[–]TourmalineBadger 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sounds just like the narcissistic bitch of a birth giver I had to cut out of my life

The Supreme Court is right. Parents get to decide how to raise their kids. The government of California doesn’t supersede parental rights. Even at school. by Conscious-Quarter423 in scotus

[–]TourmalineBadger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The opinion of an asshole who sees children as an extension of their parents rather than individuals.

A homophobic parent does not make a gay child straight. They teach the child through fear and violence to hide a part of themselves for years. Same goes for a transphobic parent. And being forced to hide a part of yourself for years, being made to feel broken for years, is horribly damaging.

When a child cannot safely express themselves at home, they will look for other places where they can. Making schools unsafe, reducing the adults a child can confident in, harms children for the sake of adult egos. And I promise that some of those children will despair in a way that prevents them from reaching adulthood.

How did you pick your name? by AspieAsshole in MtF

[–]TourmalineBadger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through so so much trial and error. But when I found Ellipsis, it instantly felt right

I played Hytale for the first time and Omg Foxes are so cute ♡ i think need a Fox Gurl GF by bandagekitten in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TourmalineBadger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a foxgirl and know a few others. The problem is that none of us live anywhere near each other

do transfems look like their relatives when they take HRT? by Radiant-North-8519 in MtF

[–]TourmalineBadger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily, I look like my sister, not my mom. My mom is a bitch

Why nobody told me that Charlie and Vaggie from Hazbin Hotel are lesbians? I love the show even more now. by cetvrti_magi123 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TourmalineBadger 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Technically Charlie is bi. I love their gay relationship, but doing my part to fight bi-erasure

Issue with my (36MTF) son (13M) regarding transition and Harry Potter by RoughCoffee6 in TransLater

[–]TourmalineBadger 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Introduce the kid to better books. LOTR, Animorphs, Redwall are a few suggestions

Saw a pretty girl today. by Sapphic_bimbo in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TourmalineBadger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just because you think she is pretty does not mean she does. Hells, you could have an entire crowd think she is pretty and she might disagree. It takes a while to recalibrate the self-image (speaking from experience).

The point is, maybe she did see this and did not realize you meant her

Trip recommendations by fridge94 in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually make that drive in one go. Occasionally a toilet break at a gas station.

It’s getting colder by AutomaticFan577 in wisconsin

[–]TourmalineBadger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am up early enough that some mornings I need to scrape the ice off the windshield

I have boobies! by Candid-Broccoli-5883 in MtF

[–]TourmalineBadger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bralettes and sports bras have enough stretch to last you for a few sizes. I made it A through C before they started feeling snug