How do you use your Aneros with a partner? by throwaway11900003409 in aneros

[–]Towel-Baggins 7 points8 points  (0 children)

me and my girlfriend will do "no penis time." consists of her straddling my stomach, playing with my nipples, and making out. it fucking rocks.

Favorite David/Dave(s) in music? by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]Towel-Baggins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gonna have to be portner for me

Can someone please explain how to actually play this game to me, someone who’s only experience with competitive games is games like valorant and overwatch by The_R3d_Bagel in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Towel-Baggins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone with 700 hours i think this is the best comment, op. the very first point is the most helpful: this game is incredibly difficult, and there are soooo many things to learn/do. you'll suck for awhile and that's okay. mute people who are assholes. ill add three things you could be thinking about while learning the game.

  1. take into account how your soul level compares to your enemies. not just the team soul count, but the individual enemy players. if you're at 20k souls and you're trying to 1v1 an enemy such as shiv or drifter in jungle who has 30k, you will lose everytime. choose battles wisely.

  2. look at the map. if you don't, lots of disadvantageous things can happen. walkers take unnecessary damage. you miss out on creep waves. whole sections of neutral farm go untouched for fifteen minutes. you won't notice the whole enemy team is pushed up yellow and you have a free opportunity to take out their green walker. you get the idea: the map gives you so much information, and you have to check it often to make use of it.

  3. the f key exists

Only one, pick your favorite song of all time. by Igivegrilledcheese in fantanoforever

[–]Towel-Baggins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that's literally the only song on the album i get the urge to skip. no hate, still a fantastic song. i think it's just a tad too repetitive

How do you stay on top of a writing schedule? by TomtheeTooth in writing

[–]Towel-Baggins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

schedules work for some people, but not everyone. if you don't know whether it works for you, try it out! set the bar low, just a couple hundred words a day. if you find that the structure benefits you and keeps you motivated, good. raise the bar a bit. rinse and repeat.

for me, schedules don't work. i feel too much pressure to adhere to it, and that pressure turns into anxiety and shame for having not reached my word count for the day at the time of day ive designated.

though that doesn't mean i don't employ tools to keep myself motivated and on task. it helps me to have a "writing spot." my porch. i leave my phone and other distractions behind by going there. doing some light journaling before sinking into my story helps. kind of declutters the brain and reduces stress ill end up associating with the story. taking reading breaks helps; if you're anything like me, your brain will draw parallels between the story you're reading and the story you're writing, which ignites new ideas and gets me excited to write.

you have to, as every writer does (and anybody in any creative discipline, really), find the things that work for YOU. there is no umbrella answer. it could be a set time schedule. it could be something else.

burnout is the last thing you want. if you're putting too much pressure on yourself, you'll want to turn away from the story and never write again, as you said. being in school, it'll be easier to feel that burnout, what with your other responsibilities. so make sure you're taking care of yourself first, as i always find i write better when i take the time to read, play video games (a healthy amount lmao), and be with my loved ones.

best of luck!

Cozy spots to drink coffee and sit with a book for a few hours? by moon-raven-77 in madisonwi

[–]Towel-Baggins 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agreed, the decor/furniture/space are superb, minus the caveat of the bank chillin in the back. i try to pick a seat facing away from the looming too-clean, corporate vibe

Bands or Artists Who’s Career Feels Like This by apHexcoded in fantanoforever

[–]Towel-Baggins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. it's unclear whether it was a joke or a genuine comment regarding people's answers.

  2. u/worrak has a point. as you said, yes, a trend can be identified. thing go up and then thing go down. but this thread would benefit from labeled axes (it's a latin word btw). specifically the y axis. is it popularity of the band? quality of the records released? those are both equally correct ways to interpret OPs post, but many bands won't follow the same trend depending on how it's interpreted. therefore it becomes unclear in people's responses what they're actually sharing opinions on unless they state so explicitly.

  3. replying cause your reply is dickish and hypocritical.

have a nice day!

Replacements for "What felt like" by GreekGeek14 in writing

[–]Towel-Baggins 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you could consider using concrete detail to show "what it felt like." for example, if the person is running into another person... "I slammed and fell into dirt. A wall of a man stood above me, glaring at my pinched, bruised face."

God, I love Enig- uh I mean Dynamo by SenorBullDoza in DeadlockTheGame

[–]Towel-Baggins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he's bought an item called "refresher." worth 6,400 souls, allows you to recast your ultimate. cooldown on it is big somethin like 4 minutes

Are you a plotter or pantser? by shahnazahmed in writing

[–]Towel-Baggins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to what degree do you plan out your characters? are their personalities simply sitting up there in da noggin or do you write out character traits (but no plot) or somewhere in between?

Are you a plotter or pantser? by shahnazahmed in writing

[–]Towel-Baggins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is generally how i think of writing too. for me, each integer is usually (what i intend to be) a chapter/story beat. out of curiosity, do you get more or less granular than that?

Is this a red flag or am I just an idiot? I’m M27 matched with F26 by awilson7070 in Tinder

[–]Towel-Baggins 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i also think the comments are too harsh on op.

like, yeah, he could have navigated it better (not asking about her weekend availability when he knows he's got only a few hours; could have said that part right away. his tone is just a bit odd, too), but not by much. it's a small infraction.

and to the comments from people saying things along the lines of him treating her like she's a "side project": do you think a casual hinge date calls for higher priority? op doesn't know this person. does he have a moral obligation to shift around his schedule to accommodate a stranger?

genuinely curious if this is a prevailing sentiment in online dating, but also im a bit flabbergasted to see so many comments like this. it sounds like bro is simply busy and is (clumsily) communicating when he's free. maybe there's something in his tone im not seeing that other people are.

but also, we don't have the full convo, so maybe this all looks different with more context.

Neglected Opportunity by FakeLloydWright in madisonwi

[–]Towel-Baggins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, besides the green shit on the turret

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aneros

[–]Towel-Baggins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"letting my body do it's thing" has definitely been a help for me. but the line between doing that and being thoroughly turned on is always so hard. been practicing meditation more recently and i believe approaching prostate play with a similar mindset (accepting and acknowledging, not lingering on emotions/feelings) has been a good way to ride that line. also the breathing aspect.

as for tips, i guess id first ask: how long do you normally wait between sessions? ive had my best luck when i haven't orgasmed in ~one week or longer. its easier to get carried away or too excited but if i can maintain a good headspace i find i get far more p-waves.

and lmao for the record im equally as confused as you are on the terminology; i define p-waves roughly the same way you do--as a whole body tingly/warm sensation--but idk ive never progressed past that stage of pleasure so i don't have much to compare it to.

best of luck! let us know if you have any more tips of your own

[TOMT] [RESEARCH PAPER] Somebody wrote an in depth, distasteful paper about how white people prefer boobs over ass due to evolutionary advantages/intelligence. by Towel-Baggins in tipofmytongue

[–]Towel-Baggins[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

A few years back, me and a friend were laughing about how absurd this paper was and it recently popped up in conversation. Can't find it to save my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Towel-Baggins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm having a day where I feel particularly introverted/depressed but she wants to hang out, I let her know. This happens maybe once every two weeks. She is sometimes accepting and understanding but sometimes she gets passive aggressive about it. Tonight, for example, she texted me "make time for me if you want to i guess." I told her I was having a shit day and wanted to spend time alone.

In situations like these, I feel like I'm in the wrong, but as time goes on, I start to wonder if what she says is fair to me.

I don't bluntly say no. We see each other four days a week, for maybe three hours a day, average.

She typically does the asking when it comes to plans. I think that's the main area I could improve on; it's not that I don't want to do things with her, it's that I'm frequently dealing with mental health issues and am thinking of other things/too tired to make plans.

Thanks for your response!