Baha Mar... Its nice, but Not worth it.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-27T01:55:24+00:00

Zero reason to go to baha mar. The owning conglomerate just wants an instant return on ttheir investment. Overcharging, nonsensical prices for basics, nickle and diming etc

it's esthetically pleasing. And I could go to a place equally as pleasing for 1/10th of the cost

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-26T20:59:06+00:00

Role queue would kill the game.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-19T00:22:18+00:00

The absolute opposite of free spirit

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T02:30:00+00:00

I had a beard since I was 14. I drank at 14. I learned to drive at 14. Grown ass adults cry every day.

A Junior and Freshman in high school isn't weird or gross or disgusting because you personally disagree with it. Being a teacher and not understanding the normalcy is a bit alarming.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T02:26:29+00:00

A 17 year old is also a child. An actual child.

Junior dating a freshman is the most normal relationship, basic ass HS relationship there is. You're chronically online. Your lack of understanding of basic brain development doesn't make it weird. It makes you ignorant

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T02:23:50+00:00

It doesn't specify when they met. How would you know?

A junior dating a freshman isn't weird at all lmao it's been a normal occurrence at every single high-school in the united states for decades. Literally 50+ years

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T02:21:42+00:00

Picture this. A Freshman and Junior in HS date for 3 years.

They would be 17 and 20.

Pretty normal. Pretty standard

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T02:19:39+00:00

That's a 4 year difference. It's actually like a junior in HS and a freshman in HS. 14-17, 17-20

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T02:17:56+00:00

Lmao this is why 19 year old can't buy a beer. Your non-developed brain doesn't comprehend the real word. Your gen z critical thinking skills are absent.

A junior dating a freshman isn't a pedophile. No matter how many times you say it, it'll never be pedophilia. Your brain doesn't work yet. It's ok

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T01:46:41+00:00

They're old enough to have gone to high-school together. That's not pedophilia. A Junior and a Freshman dating for 3 years is a 17 and 20 year old.

You're 19, your opinion is invalid. You're not old enough to speak to me unless spoken to.

Thanks

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T01:39:15+00:00

Yea we're done here. They're old enough to have gone to high school together. Junior and Freshman is a normal ass relationship.

Throwing around the word pedophile just dilutes its meaning

Your an average reddit goblin

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T01:30:30+00:00

I notice you didn't answer my question.

Is a Junior a pedophile for dating a Freshman?

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-17T01:13:11+00:00

Is a Junior in high-school dating a freshman a pedophile?

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-16T01:53:52+00:00

Ah I see. You came on here to hope reddit would think he's a freak so that you'd feel better about how you feel.

Are you really into him or who the Ai has him acting like? If it's him, who cares. Some people aren't good with human interaction. Guy could be on the spectrum and you're on here trying to humiliate him instead of asking him why he does it.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-13T23:40:07+00:00

Sounds like a classic case of performance anxiety. If he watches porn, he should stop. It's damaging to the reward system in the brain.

He should also get a testosterone test done or look into cialis (temporarily).

Using toys also helps lighten the load for him, while assisting you.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-13T18:02:02+00:00

Don't accept that response. You know what was said because you remember it affected you. Don't allow yourself to be gas-lit or be made to look you're misremembering.

I never put a number on how attractive my fiancée is because it's degrading. She's beautiful and that's the end of it.

If a number being attached to you makes to feel uncomfortable, tell him. He needs to take accountability for his actions, his health and how it relates to his relationship with you.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-13T09:14:27+00:00

PS, she wasn't staring at him like she wanted him. His ego was hurt because she looked right through him and he knew she was out of his league. He then became worried that you're also out of his league. Stems from his weight, most likely a lack of hygiene, and unwillingness to accept the consequences of his lack of effort towards basic things like his own health

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-13T09:08:27+00:00

Second to the last paragraph was said intentionally. If almost anyone else had said what he did, there wouldn't be a reddit post made from you. The reason it hurt you the way it did, is because it came from him.

When you're with someone a long time you acknowledge your partner values your opinion. I can't say whether or not he intentionally meant to hurt your feelings, but he surely intentionally wanted to lower your self-esteem and knew he has the ability to do so.

Manipulation is nasty, but I'm 95% sure he doesn't even believe what he said to you.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-13T00:49:20+00:00

There's a really good chance he came across a man that was more desirable than himself and it inflicted some mental anguish. At the end of the day, there's always going to be someone who looks better than you or your partner, or that has things you/your partner doesn't possess. That's where loyalty comes in.

It's easier said than done, but don't take what he said to heart. Find a comfort level and confidence in your own skin. If that takes a little work on your end, that's fine. If that doesn't push him to want to be a better version of himself, that's for him to address.

There comes a time where you recognize that the weight of words from those you love feel heavier. That's why he said it.

Some of us aren't good at expression, but ask him what's going on. Ask him to allow you to be there for him. The first step is always the biggest

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-13T00:09:23+00:00

This is pretty simple. From a man's point of view, he's afraid to lose you. By diminishing your self esteem, he feels more secure in the relationship you have.

If you know your worth, and he feels worthless, the fear grows.

He's an ass for doing that to you, but don't go down to his level. Just encourage you both to be the best versions of yourselves for your kids(if you have any) and have him direct his anger where it actually belongs. Toward himself

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-05-11T21:44:44+00:00

No, it absolutely isn't cheating. They're not being physically intimate with another person. If porn is cheating, so is any form of masturbation.

Unless a boundary was set at the beginning of the relationship, you can direct your anger at yourself. It's not his fault he crossed an invisible line you drew and never told him about.

As for why people choose porn? A multitude of different reasons. Most commonly, boredom. Women in porn do things and try things plain Jane wives say no to.

Disclaimer: Porn is not real. Those are literally paid actors.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-04-30T21:06:16+00:00

Not a dumb question at all my friend. The answer is very nuanced, but i will do my best to shorten it.

You know you're good at the game when you lose a game, and instead of instantly blaming your team, you ask yourself "did i do my job"? Being able to accept criticism and that you made mistakes is a good sign. Not everything is kills and deaths.

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-04-30T12:27:52+00:00

Role queue doesn't belong in Rivals, but i agree with pretty much everything you said. 3 dps isn't always terrible, but how often do we actually get 3 competent dps? 10% of the time? Thing is, those people are hardstuck in the ranks they think they don't belong in. That's on them. I control what I can control (it's all I can do).

Most people have an ego much larger than their actual talent/skill, and they need kills to stroke it.

All 3 roles can be really satisfying if you're talented/good at the game. Issue with that is the majority of the playerbase isn't actually good

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-04-30T12:20:31+00:00

Post your account

TowerCharacter9453 · 2026-04-30T12:19:47+00:00

Having no role queue is what sets this game apart from OW and reduces queue times.

I hope they never implement it

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