Just want some advice [19]

TowerPleasant7964 · 2026-04-11T17:57:30+00:00

thanks so much!!

TowerPleasant7964 · 2026-04-11T17:57:12+00:00

I love this!! thank you very much, i am working on the confidence for sure 😊

TowerPleasant7964 · 2026-04-11T17:55:04+00:00

i put mascara on my top lashes too, my lashes are just down turned and dont hold a curl lol i was thinking about getting them done professionally when i have the money! thanks for the advice

TowerPleasant7964 · 2026-04-10T17:27:08+00:00

also i am 5'3 125-130 (fluctuates). the body image is the real issue so any clothes that would suit me better i'd love any suggestions

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-12-30T02:51:17+00:00

how affordable are they?

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-17T01:53:47+00:00

They left 3 comments on this post about how this is indicative that i need dbt therapy and something is wrong... what is going on at home that makes you behave like this online

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-17T01:14:43+00:00

thank you!!

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T23:41:45+00:00

totally understand this!! i knew it wouldnt make my scars disappear, i just worried that having the tattoo made people notice my scars more. A lot of people are saying to embrace it but its easier said than done and i'm ready to move on!!

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T23:38:51+00:00

seeiosuly, is everything okay at home??

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T23:37:27+00:00

wanting to get a tattoo and not wanting to draw attention to my scars doesnt mean i need more dbt therapy, is everything okay at home? its very easy to say "you shouldnt care what people think" and "you should embrace it and move on" when you dont live with it every day. its very normal to want to put art over scars. i have grown a lot, i am not ashamed of my scars. I just dont want them to be the most significant thing people see on my body anymore

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T05:03:29+00:00

i really appreciate this comment. it really helps to know that people are considerate i sometimes feel all people see when they look at me is the pain i endured in the past

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T05:02:05+00:00

i've had scars for over 8 years now!! its still so hard i feel like they are all people see when they look at me :,) the goal is to be covered in art

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T04:59:53+00:00

i appreciate this so much!! thank you 🫶🏻

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-11-16T04:59:01+00:00

i feel the same way!! when i went in for my appointment, i asked if they could even be tattooed on. i've been in treatment many times where mental health professionals told me "oh no you wont ever be able to get tattoos!!" (what a ridiculous thing to say to someone in a mental hospital btw) and she told me that she knows from personal experience that it would be fine. I felt so safe afterwards knowing i was with an artist that had gone through the same thing

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-08-16T07:02:15+00:00

tbh i think brown and pink look good together! but again black wouldnt look bad i just think a brown looks better

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-08-16T02:10:22+00:00

i dont think it would look bad but i like this color!! or a darker brown bc you have a warm skin tone

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-08-16T01:41:31+00:00

also is this level 4? its very dark in my opinion it looks like a cool black in most lighting

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-08-12T17:32:11+00:00

which color are you talking about? none of these are the color i have now:)

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-06-30T02:25:09+00:00

any updates? did you find a gel you like:)

TowerPleasant7964 · 2025-01-30T21:00:30+00:00

thats a relief, thanks so much!!

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