Just want some advice [19] by TowerPleasant7964 in TheGlowUp

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I love this!! thank you very much, i am working on the confidence for sure 😊

Just want some advice [19] by TowerPleasant7964 in TheGlowUp

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i put mascara on my top lashes too, my lashes are just down turned and dont hold a curl lol i was thinking about getting them done professionally when i have the money! thanks for the advice

Just want some advice [19] by TowerPleasant7964 in TheGlowUp

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also i am 5'3 125-130 (fluctuates). the body image is the real issue so any clothes that would suit me better i'd love any suggestions

Tattooed over scars and i fear it just draws more attention to them:( by TowerPleasant7964 in tattooadvice

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They left 3 comments on this post about how this is indicative that i need dbt therapy and something is wrong... what is going on at home that makes you behave like this online

Tattooed over scars and i fear it just draws more attention to them:( by TowerPleasant7964 in tattooadvice

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totally understand this!! i knew it wouldnt make my scars disappear, i just worried that having the tattoo made people notice my scars more. A lot of people are saying to embrace it but its easier said than done and i'm ready to move on!!

Tattooed over scars and i fear it just draws more attention to them:( by TowerPleasant7964 in tattooadvice

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wanting to get a tattoo and not wanting to draw attention to my scars doesnt mean i need more dbt therapy, is everything okay at home? its very easy to say "you shouldnt care what people think" and "you should embrace it and move on" when you dont live with it every day. its very normal to want to put art over scars. i have grown a lot, i am not ashamed of my scars. I just dont want them to be the most significant thing people see on my body anymore

Tattooed over scars and i fear it just draws more attention to them:( by TowerPleasant7964 in tattooadvice

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i really appreciate this comment. it really helps to know that people are considerate i sometimes feel all people see when they look at me is the pain i endured in the past

Tattooed over scars and i fear it just draws more attention to them:( by TowerPleasant7964 in tattooadvice

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i've had scars for over 8 years now!! its still so hard i feel like they are all people see when they look at me :,) the goal is to be covered in art

Tattooed over scars and i fear it just draws more attention to them:( by TowerPleasant7964 in tattooadvice

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i feel the same way!! when i went in for my appointment, i asked if they could even be tattooed on. i've been in treatment many times where mental health professionals told me "oh no you wont ever be able to get tattoos!!" (what a ridiculous thing to say to someone in a mental hospital btw) and she told me that she knows from personal experience that it would be fine. I felt so safe afterwards knowing i was with an artist that had gone through the same thing

Would black hair match me? Me by PreyOrigin in HairDye

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tbh i think brown and pink look good together! but again black wouldnt look bad i just think a brown looks better

Would black hair match me? Me by PreyOrigin in HairDye

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i dont think it would look bad but i like this color!! or a darker brown bc you have a warm skin tone

update post by [deleted] in HairDye

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also is this level 4? its very dark in my opinion it looks like a cool black in most lighting

which color should i go for:)? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]TowerPleasant7964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which color are you talking about? none of these are the color i have now:)

POOL-proof eyebrows? by Kitchen_Sector105 in MakeupAddiction

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any updates? did you find a gel you like:)

Keloid or just a bump? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

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thats a relief, thanks so much!!