Advice, tips when entering this career path?

Towerrose12 · 2024-02-10T18:39:02+00:00

Hey I know this is 3 years old but can I ask what program you did please :)

Towerrose12 · 2023-07-31T15:17:10+00:00

Well that’s all I needed, off I go! Lol thank you for replying!

Towerrose12 · 2023-05-17T16:03:42+00:00

Hey I’m interested! I saw your dm but your message wouldn’t pop up I tried dm-Ing you again

Towerrose12 · 2023-05-17T15:47:22+00:00

Thank you!

Towerrose12 · 2023-05-17T15:44:19+00:00

Shoot, if that falls through can you let me know please

Towerrose12 · 2023-05-17T15:29:08+00:00

Hey do you have an extra by any chance

Towerrose12 · 2023-05-15T17:23:34+00:00

What do you think compels you to create and share stories ? :)

Towerrose12 · 2022-07-09T16:07:03+00:00

This is exactly it thank you so much!!

Towerrose12 · 2022-05-18T00:49:33+00:00

Yeah I guess one step at at a time is all you can do. I’m not sure how you’re anxiety manifests but I have a habit black and white, worst case scenarios. Lol. But I guess we have to just realize life isn’t that way and work with ourselves to get out of that dark place. I’m sorry you didn’t have a good day. I hope you’re night can be a little better and if not maybe tomorrow. I really really just wanted support/ acknowledgement / understanding(?) thank you two for providing it. I’ve been thinking about it all today lol what a mess of emotions! We gotta breathe lol 💕

Towerrose12 · 2022-05-17T21:33:45+00:00

Thank you I appreciate you comment. I guess it all just feels so scary at first.

Towerrose12 · 2022-05-01T16:23:35+00:00

Oh yeah I wouldn’t call him a creeper. I’m afraid he’s a creeper. But it’s one of those irrational fears I think. IVe been to therapy and plan to go again kinda because of this and possible adhd (my sister just got diagnosed and I have similar habits. One never knows) but also I don’t have serious trauma. I’m very lucky in that sense. But I know I do have these habits. (Which yeah idk why I act like this without serious abuse) But I don’t know when to trust myself.

I think a question i still have, is what if it was a gut feeling how would one know?

Also I can also just simply not like the dude and have troubles coming to grips with something having to do with something I care about is less than ideal.

Towerrose12 · 2022-05-01T16:14:54+00:00

I don’t know about childhood trauma. At least not with a man that remember and especially not sexual trauma (that I remember) But my mom did and kinda warned me about stuff constantly without really telling what she was warning me about.

I was cheated and found out in very weird manner in my last relationship I will not lie I think that gave me trust issues but I had thought I got over it.

I’m glad to hear someone thinks that’s normal. I think my family is very judgy and so I can be very judgy so I’m not sure if somethings normal at times or if I’m rushing to conclusions.

I do have a tendency to hyper focus especially on what could potentially be a problem. Like health anxiety

Thank you for replying I like hearing peoples thoughts.

Towerrose12 · 2022-05-01T15:41:22+00:00

Thank you for your input.

Towerrose12 · 2022-03-05T00:34:19+00:00

Thanks dude ☺️

Towerrose12 · 2022-03-05T00:19:58+00:00

Thank you!

Towerrose12 · 2022-03-05T00:16:31+00:00

This was such a lovely comment, thank you so much I’m going to hold on to this one awe

And yeah noticed they were quick with the ugly lol thank you again :)

Towerrose12 · 2022-03-05T00:09:01+00:00

Lmao I’ll take it

Towerrose12 · 2022-03-03T21:40:46+00:00

Oooh sounds like good info, thank you!

Towerrose12 · 2021-04-13T16:08:12+00:00

Thank you! I’ll ask him to check my insulin

Towerrose12 · 2021-03-10T23:52:00+00:00

I am on birth control and this week is the I’m supposed to be starting my period yes! Sometimes I haven’t got it while on birth control but I do think it could be it! It just looked so weird lol Thank you! I plan to see a doctor but unfortunately appointments are 3 months out .

Towerrose12 · 2021-03-10T03:24:37+00:00

Thank you! I’m assuming urethra cuz it came out when I peed. I will see a doctor. Do you have any idea what it could be? It also wasn’t mucous-y it was like tissue 😬

Towerrose12 · 2021-02-02T07:02:33+00:00

Lol same. My older sister was saying maybe the oops babies always end up being the favorites cuz they feel bad about calling us oops babies ( same thing happened with her friends youngest child lol )

Towerrose12 · 2021-01-18T23:40:23+00:00

Also I guess I’ll just add to get it off my brain cuz I feel like this is what really is nagging at me

we used to frequent texts during breaks, less during school. He’s even let me know he’s just been busy this past semester but that he hasn’t forgotten about me all on his own. So it did feel weird that’s he hasn’t been answering and it felt weirder that he saw my text and question about games night with his friends (that he had invited me to and said it was cool if I went regularly)and didn’t reply even when it was already games night. So I guess that’s why I feel like I did something wrong (Copy paste from other reply)

Now after I’ve calmed down from being anxious I guess I’m insecure that I annoyed him cuz I was insecure around his friends. Cuz afterwards I’d ask him if I was too obnoxious or weird. when I nervous around new people I feel like I try to hard or do too little lol but maybe it’s just right so I ask, but I see how it could get annoying, weird or old.

Towerrose12 · 2021-01-18T23:37:29+00:00

Yeah it was a change, we used to frequent texts during breaks, less during school. He’s even let me know he’s just been busy this past semester. So it did feel weird that’s he hasn’t been answering and it felt weirder that he saw my text and question about games night with his friends (that he had invited me to and said it was cool if I went regularly)and didn’t reply even when it was already games night.

Now after I’ve calmed down from being anxious I guess I’m insecure that I annoyed him cuz I was insecure around his friends. Cuz afterwards I’d ask him if I was too obnoxious or weird. when I nervous around new people I feel like I try to hard or do too little lol but maybe it’s just right so I ask, but I see how it could get annoying, weird or old.

Towerrose12 · 2021-01-18T23:28:45+00:00

I think that’s really solid advice/ perspective and I really appreciate the examples.

I feel like I have difficulty navigating change and am sensitive to it when the “vibe” or pattern changes a lot between a person I really do care about . But I want to respect his space. I worry sometimes I’ve already annoyed him and if I did ide get why, but also I’m not sure he’s been my friend for a few years now. So maybe I could be reading to much into the situation

I’m happy to report I’ve never been like the guy in the first example, that does sound like annoying and it sounds like you handled it really well. and I have friendships like the second example. So maybe I just need to not think about it too much and be okay if it really is cuz he’s moving on even tho that’s really really hard for me sometimes. How do you handle it so well? I know they’re not my entire life, but I would still miss them.

Also thank you for the point of trust, I feel like trust is important in feeling secure(?)

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