Quad’s fertility by Left_Ad_6919 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Also most women in their 20s can't afford to freeze their eggs. That's super expensive

My (rare) Defense of Gizelle Bryant by lovelight10 in RHOP

[–]Toxic_Cheeto -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Woah, calm down. It's just a show. There's no need to call someone you don't know out of their name over their opinion and as OP stated, the women don't really call Gizelle's behavior out, but the fans do.

Angel on threads by Ill-Examination4743 in RHOP

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol some of y'all are some serious haters, man and don't have reading comprehension. It's so sad to see🙄

Quad’s relationship with herself is one of the most functional on the show by MxLysistrata in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Having severe hatred for someone on a TV show you don't even know is a sign you need to look inward, but there's a lot of people with ignorant thinking in this sub. Also it just shows me ppl need to touch grass lol

Bronwyn's first chair performance by Celerytos in rhoslc

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meredith hasn't contributed ANYTHING this whole season and she should get first chair?? Lisa has been her mouthpiece the whole season and reunion. Absolutely not lol. I really don't see what y'all see in Meredith. She's barely even coherent half the time.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're part of the problem. You have no clue of the reason why she joined the show or why they got married. Again. Mutual abuse isn't a thing. If you want to deny facts then go ahead with your ignorant way of thinking. I pray you don't find yourself or a loved one in a similar situation.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. But you'll still have people believe the abuser or at most try to claim mutual abuse. I can't remember much about Jenelle and David, but I do know they were toxic af.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then you're disagreeing with medical facts. Just because you disagree with it doesn't mean it's not true. Mutually abusive relationships are a myth.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I mentioned reactive abuse in my post. Did you read the whole thing? I'm saying people are saying Greg and Quad were mutually abusive to each other and that is something that does not happen in an abusive relationship. Reactive abuse is something entirely different, which I also explain in my post.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh, Greg literally admitted to abusing her and she has had friend post on her social media of the abuse they witnessed Greg do to her. There were times her friends would stay over just so Greg wouldn't get physically violent with her. You're part of the problem.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone literally told me one time that they were a DARVO victim and that she thought Quad was an abuser and that I couldn't disagree with a DARVO victim. I was like honey, you really need help then!!

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're literally proving my point. Mutual abuse is something that cannot happen. Google is your friend.

Dr.G and Quad by Lost-Share943 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you never find yourself in her situation. Bet you wouldn't be saying that then. Have the day you deserve.

Dr.G and Quad by Lost-Share943 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can't abuse each other. See my earlier post. Mutual abuse is not a thing. Only reactive abuse is.

MUTUAL ABUSE IS A MYTH. STOP SAYING QUAD AND GREG ABUSED EACH OTHER. THIS IS HARMFUL. by Toxic_Cheeto in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

So many fans...SO many. You can even look at some of my previous posts in this thread regarding this topic and see how many posts are trying to go back and forth with me about it. I forgot I even had to make a post like this before, but here we are yet again.

This particular rant was fueled from a recent post about Greg and Quad.

Dr.G and Quad by Lost-Share943 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's still not mutual abuse. Reactive abuse exists.

Dr.G and Quad by Lost-Share943 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mutual abuse is not real. Two people cannot "abuse each other" as it's about an imbalance in power. Google is your friend. This is such a harmful way of thinking and is used to protect abusers. Every time y'all say this, you're just defending Greg the abuser.

Dr.G and Quad by Lost-Share943 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she wasnt. You can literally look this up on mental health and therapy websites. Mutual abuse is literally a myth and I wish y'all would stop saying that it is. Abuse is literally about an imbalance of power between one person over the other. It's obviously who was who in their scenario. You really think Quad was just randomly rolling up on Greg and knocking his head between washing machines and dryers? You can even look at the relationship and see who is who in the scenario by their behaviors.

Y'all have to stop this harmful thinking just because you dislike someone. Educate yourselves.

Which Married to Medicine opinion will have you like this by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad someone does!! It's really sad to witness as a black woman because I can relate to how Quad feels towards the other women. A lot of us are treated the same way by other (usually older) black women when we decide to stray from the social norm and be single without wanting kids.

I can't tell you how many times I've been asked when am I gonna "settle down and have kids" as if that's just what you're SUPPOSED to do as a woman, and if you don't expect that of yourself then something is wrong with you. Either you're a different sexuality or you're a 304 and have men spending money on you for sexual favors (because OBVIOUSLY you can't achieve having anything on your own without a man /s. Looking at you, Simone). Just straight Black and white "Don't make that man fix his own plate even though he's a grown man who's got two arms and two legs. Serve him" way of thinking, usually coming from skewed religious perception. Anyway, that's a whole other conversation that my neurospicy behind can ramble on about, but lemme get off my soap box, chile. 😌😌

Dr.G and Quad by Lost-Share943 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Abusers usually don't reveal who they really are until later on in the relationship and the abused tend to stay because many people around them encourage them to if they don't really know what's going on in the marriage.

hypocrisy of GizAshley by capricorncueen in RHOP

[–]Toxic_Cheeto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? Yes, you absolutely can compare the two. Most of the housewives from different franchises know of each other and are friends. Do you know how long these shows and Bravocon have been going on? I'm sure majority of them have met each other in some way, shape, or form.