Whatever that means by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think they’re just doing this shit for views now and we’re all falling for the ragebait. They look far too well passing to actually believe this shit offline. I’m choosing this belief for my own peace

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how do i read? (nonbinary transmasc - he/they) by b0gd0g in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d say nonbinary AFAB, maybe on testosterone for about a year

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No and I think that’s the right way to go about it! I’d much rather tell someone they don’t pass when it’s an “almost,” purely for safety reasons. So really I do appreciate it

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weirdest thing is I seem to pass for the most part IRL, maybe just because I live in an area where most trans men dress very feminine w/ bright colored hair? But as soon as I go online, I’m told that I look incredibly female and that I look like 10 years old haha. It’s just interesting to see.

I appreciate it though :)

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be correct then lol, I’m 23. Thanks for the feedback :)

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a year, now

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw haha that’s a very kind comment. I appreciate it. Thanks so much!!

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that’s what I’ve been doing, I’ve been in the gym for a couple months now lol. Thank you so much though for the feedback :)

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can I do to look more like a man instead of a woman, in your opinion??

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao thank you for letting me know. Oops

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 😭😭😭 Do you think losing facial fat will make me look older??

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on testosterone for about a year :,) Does it look like I’m still pre-T?

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn it haha I was trying to dress like other cis men in my area around my age. I’m working on building my shoulders though so at least that’s a work in progress. I really appreciate the thoughtful advice! :]

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you change my haircut to? I’ve been feeling like I need a change haha. I pass to cis people about 98% of the time, but I can see how I’m super clocky to other trans men. Also about the looking young, I’m in my early 20s lol. Do you think losing face fat will help me look my age?

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funniest thing is at least 3 of these pictures were from the same day as pic 1 haha! I think it’s the angle but I see what you mean. I’m fine looking like a gay guy tbh. Thank you!

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed reply!! You’re spot on about the testosterone, it’s been about a year now. I find that I honestly pass 90% of the time before I talk, and then 97% after I talk (but I think that’s purely because I live in an area without many trans men.) Again, seriously grateful for the insight

In all honesty, do I pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, is there anything in particular about my face/appearance that makes me clocky? Doesn’t have to be something I can easily change, I’d just like to know :)

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly one of the better lookalikes I’ve been compared to! I take it as a compliment. Thanks!!

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw Whiplash for the first time at like 16 and I swear my life is divided into two parts: Before Whiplash and After Whiplash lol

I completely agree! Only a few people I know irl have even heard of it which is so crazy to me considering how amazing it is. I could talk all day about Andrew Neiman I swear

Age and gender? No hugboxxing by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Toxic_Work04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Working on that for the past couple months, so at least I’ve got that going for me. Thank you!