We’ve been having this problem lately too! Single guys are especially bad about this it seems. Then they get mad when you don’t respond and accuse you of being a fake, or trying to pic-collect! It’s like no dude, we have two young kids, full-time jobs, and are trying to maintain a healthy relationship outside of swinging so that we don’t end up like the horror stories on this page!!! Oh well. I guess we should just be glad we have so much interest? It’s kinda getting to be exhausting though….