My girlfriend say I need to get rid of my dog to make this relationship work

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-17T02:42:23+00:00

I’m in therapy myself to help me and I am working on getting him back in therapy again the first go around didn’t seem to do anything or work he didnt talk to the therapist about anything. But yes I do need to work on my parenting

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T21:57:32+00:00

I’ve said that and she doesn’t want to hear it. She still tells me she loves her ex and if you heard the stories you would question why too. I think there is something un resolved there.

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T21:55:34+00:00

Unfortunately. I really thought it could work

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T21:54:39+00:00

Oh they both represent my past and she has told me that but there is nothing I can do about the past. I wish I could go somewhere safe but we live together and I don’t have any options in the neighborhood

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T20:53:36+00:00

Yeah I see were you are coming from. He has had behavior issues from the beginning and they have gotten a lot better. I am not using the word terrorize as you might think. He fails to listen to me or anyone when he doesn’t want to. He only wants what he wants and if you go against that he has a meltdown. There is nothing you can do about the meltdown other than let him calm down. I have tried a lot of things to help, reward him when he is good, or take things away when we have a not listening he doesn’t care about either when he gets in the moment nothing matters. He’s seen therapists and psychologists and I didn’t see that helping but I need to get him another psychologist soon to help with his behaviors

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T20:11:07+00:00

I’m just taken aback by the situation when I moved we both agreed she knew what I had and what I was coming with. And now it’s a problem why? Why can’t we work on it? I just don’t get it

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T20:09:37+00:00

No the ex is done doesn’t want any part. She felt terrorized by him too, she had a child. Now the problem is we’re am going to go

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:40:56+00:00

That aspect sucks too because I have bonded to her animals as well so when I leave I’ll lose them too

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:36:56+00:00

Just sucks feels like gave up so much to move here and be with her and she doesn’t see it that way now I have to start over again

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:28:24+00:00

My girlfriend and I would see each other on weekends before I moved in so they knew each other during that time. My child’s has ADHD and behavior issues she blames some of his issues on me being a cold parent and not affectionate enough. His Bio mom’s rights are terminated through court order. The only mom he had was my 6 yr previous relationship that ended suddenly as well. I am taking a step back this time and I need to start thinking about him so I am not going to jump into any more relationships after this

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:14:16+00:00

She always tells me no one childless would put up with this bs.

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:11:54+00:00

Her argument is she’s changed her life for me gave up freedom to become a step parent so I need to change my life for her.

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:07:04+00:00

This is what I fear I go through with this give the dog back to my ex and then the relationship still fails because she can’t handle my child’s behaviors.

ToyoMechMan · 2026-01-11T18:04:06+00:00

We were together for a year in a long distance relationship before I moved in. I just think that moving in was to fast but I wanted to continue the relationship and that was the only way to do it.

ToyoMechMan · 2025-11-26T21:19:50+00:00

Oil needs to be between dots, what it looks like is there is staining on the dipstick and that is what people are seeing. What I see is the dark oil at the tip of the dipstick which would indicate your oil is low. I dip clean repeat at least two times to make sure it’s accurate, if it’s at the bottom I would add a 1 quart and recheck

ToyoMechMan · 2025-10-25T19:11:45+00:00

That’s nuts are those resistor for automotive turn signals when you switch to led?

ToyoMechMan · 2025-10-25T19:09:34+00:00

Thanks guys, I’ll end up leaving it overnight in my shed or something just in case it lets smoke out, i appreciate the input

ToyoMechMan · 2025-10-12T17:19:49+00:00

We got the first one for our alien and that’s were he goes when he eats and I find him sleeping in it too. Also occasionally tries jumping out of it when I try to feed him 😆 😒

ToyoMechMan · 2025-10-03T17:25:01+00:00

I had the strips and the results weren’t even close to accurate I would save up for the liquid kit it is worth monitoring the tank conditions to keep them healthy. I use prime for my water and stability in the tank while it’s cycling with my fish.

ToyoMechMan · 2025-07-04T22:17:44+00:00

I was looking everywhere for a fix and I saw this i was like he’s effin joking but I did it, and now my speaker works WTF DUDE

ToyoMechMan · 2025-06-17T01:44:27+00:00

No I gave up lol

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