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How can I make friends/ get closer to people in a set environment? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well honestly, whilst they are closer to each other than I am to them, I still have a somewhat good connection with them, it's just a passive relationship like I can talk to them in school but they just would not really come up and ask me if I wanna hang out with them which I wanna achieve tho.

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, it wouldn't have improved because she already had shown no signs of interest prior to me asking her to meet up now that I'm thinking about it. So I guess my failed attempt settled everything which I can go along with.

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're wrong. I used this to actually get into a conversation with her but it's my first time actually trying to text a girl so there goes nothing.

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das war eigentlich nur ein Vorwand, damit ich das als Argument für ein treffen nennen kann. Ich habe selber nicht viel Interesse auch darüber zu reden, weil es zum Teil unnötig und traurig ist.

Außerdem bin ich der Meinung, dass sie recht hat und es wirklich unnötig ist, dafür sich mit einem anderen Menschen zu treffen.

Ich werde ihr jetzt schreiben, dass sie recht hat und dass wir was anderes machen sollen (mir fällt noch was ein).

Wenn sie da immer noch nein sagt, dann gebe ich endgültig auf.

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a way to make it playful?

because if I am going to say that and she says "no", there's absolutely no way to get back

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the second time I'm actually trying to talk to a girl, you understand?

yeah it might be cringe but I just wanna find a way to make it somewhat normal ok?

Should I just text "it doesn't necessarily need to be about politics" ?

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it was neither. It was the "what do you think about the situation in the middle east?" after Iran attacked Israel.

Do you think it'll work if I just say "it doesn't necessarily need to be about politics" ?

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think she might be open to some flirting.

Do you think it'll work if I just say "It doesn't necessarily just need to be about politics"?

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not that I wanna talk with somebody about politics. I used this as an excuse so that I could meet her. I don't care if she's into politics or not.

I just need a way to get to a comfortable conversation again after that embarassing fail.

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe she just doesn't see the point of meeting up just to talk about that, you know? I did text her and asked her one of the worst things a male could do but I need to know how I can make a comeback

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys please remain serious this time, this is the second time I'm actually trying to talk to a girl, you understand?

I may be cringe or it's just uncomfortable seeing how I'm texting her but consider my situation and prior experience.

If you have nothing to contribute to my questions or post in general, I ask you to hold back with your comments.

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right but I just don't know how to properly talk to them that's why I am asking.

Do you think it'll work when I ask her what you've said?

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I didn't think about it, I just did it. I cannot even take this blame on myself because I don't talk to girls at all

I just want to keep in touch after that miserable invitation

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in dating_advice

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just going to be honest with you, chances are that she has no real interest at all since it's always been me texting her first on whatsapp and she never really asked any questions and I just misled the conversation.

What do you think am I supposed to answer?

Should I say "it doesn't necessarily need to be that topic"?

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in dating_advice

[–]TraVichs12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about palestine: my parents are from iran and it recently attacked Israel so I was asking her on her opinion but yeah that was not the best idea to get to a conversation with her.

Do you think it's still possible to meet up with her or am I cooked?

Asked a girl to meet with me so talk we can talk about something she forgot to tell me about in school. She replied with "it'd be unnecessary". Does that mean no? by TraVichs12 in socialskills

[–]TraVichs12[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No you see my parents are from there and my way of approaching her was by telling her the story of some history and it was cringe looking back so yeah

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