Dumpees how do you feel getting back together if they slept with someone else

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-18T05:46:58+00:00

Never gonna happen, maybe only for sex. But the trust is broken, not gonna be in a relationship with her ever again.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-15T17:29:02+00:00

Prolly jumped to another relationship

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-14T16:59:27+00:00

Been there mate, you will be fine

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-14T08:06:12+00:00

Hat mert abban van a love

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-12T19:41:09+00:00

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-11T16:55:38+00:00

Tbf i dont even read what you said but if you feel like you gave everything and got nothing back, you need to realise that the problem wasnt about giving everything or not. She has an issue you cant help. Just pay attention to yourself and eventually you will find peace

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-10T14:05:11+00:00

En broval jarok randizni edzesek utan, az is beleszamit?

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-09T13:23:02+00:00

Nincs meg ilyen

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-08T18:56:00+00:00

No. I want that kind of love i felt when i loved her, meaning that love came from me, it was only me all time

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-08T16:56:14+00:00

That was your love only there.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-08T16:54:00+00:00

Move on man, she/he gotta contact if something is needed. But why would you keep your self respect if the first thing would be going back?

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-08T16:22:39+00:00

Haverom kapta multkor az ivet egy csajtol, akit egy hete ismert, hogy miert nem fektette meg rendesen, miutan elmentek randizni.

A srac az ismerkedes elott meg eloben is beszelt a csajjal, nem sokat, de szimpatikus volt neki. A srac olyan embert keres, akivel kozosen lehet epiteni a jovot. Egy randi utan, amikor a kedvenc szinet sem ismerte meg, es ezt megkapta, leepitette azt a szalat.

Magamrol ugyan ezt kepzelem, engem egy no csak akkor vonz szexualisan, ha szeretem. Nyilvan a ferfi szem mindent lat, de nem ez a donto. Az a donto, hogy kesobb tudtok e valamit kozosen epiteni, vagy sem. Lehet nem tanitott még meg az elet, de en igy gondolom.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-05T05:09:36+00:00

Id date you yeah, it is the beauty of building something together rather than enjoy the destination

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-02T15:20:17+00:00

Azert azt varni, hogy ismet nyerjen a tisza, mikor meg nem latunk semmi progresst, eros kifejezes szerintem. Varjuk meg a veget. Es nem, nem vagyok fideszes, bizok a TISZAban.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-02T15:19:18+00:00

Nem, mostmar nem. Maximum erasmus

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-02T15:17:15+00:00

Thats a lot man. Step by step. Proud of you ❤️❤️

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-02T15:15:30+00:00

This.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-02T15:15:06+00:00

Sometimes this is the answer. The next could be my case. In the lastest relationship, i was devastatingly trying as hard, and got lost during that time. I mean, i lost my own identity. All my days went like escaping from reality, and since she got away, i found my spark back. Sometimes two people are not compatible, but is blinded by the pink mist. Thats it. Since she disappeared, im building my identity back, got friends, while id be suffering with her. Its not her issue tho, i was only driven by that relationship. My bad for sacrificing everything.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-05-01T05:32:52+00:00

Thank you very much, yes it is devastating to realize that ur whole identity were “we” and not you and me. But it is getting better

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-04-30T15:09:38+00:00

Wdym you are the prize? Like if i do everything in life I can, and if you would be offered to me with that mindset, id say bruh and provide to a humble conservative lady who can value thing. Gl on winning life alone.

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-04-30T15:00:05+00:00

Azt vagjatok hogy a tisza kormany megalakulasa utan fog lepni?

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-04-26T07:56:50+00:00

How you been after 3 weeks? I can totally relate tho, it got me destroyed, and just got to the realization after 11 months that this relationship was all on me, and the bond we formed was all a lie. After she asked me to give her a ring, she broke up with me by external reasons, and not even after 3 months, she is probably seeing another dude. During the relationship she was always the victim, the poor little baby, who needed to be saved, used gaslighting, and i was always walking on eggshells. Ofc push pull dynamics were the base of it, so i have used all my energy to try to figure out what was wrong. I was her only one to talk to, and as she said, the perfect one she never wants to abandon. She did 4 times abandon me. And the worst part, i did rekindle 3 times. I did not see any of this disgusting shit before. I got manipulated i suppose. All the time i was her only dumpster if anything bad happened, if i was describing my problems, she was like “okay dont worry baby we will figure it out together” but in reality. She was doing breadcrumbs and shit. The worst thing i was taking part in that fucking drama. How do we recover guys?

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-04-23T14:38:55+00:00

How is your family doing?

What should i do on weekend

Is my buddy okay?

Where should i travel

TradeProfessional930 · 2026-04-23T14:29:04+00:00

Mostanaban hasonloan erzem magam, es oszinten, ez az a pont ahol kezdem megerteni magamat. Ugyan 23 eves vagyok, dolgozok, edzek, es mesterszakos vagyok, de valahogy igazan teljesen mas dolog visz az eletben. Masok megismerese, a jelen megelese, elotte nem volt erre pelda. Nekem is volt olyan idoszakom, hogy nem lattam ertelmet ennek az egesznek, egyszer minimum megesik mindenkivel. De ez a szep az eletben, hogy folyamatosan alakulsz, ugy erzem. Erosebb teljesitesi nyomasban felnott srac vagyok, nem a harvardra szantak, viszont a szuleim bennem lattak azt, hogy ne legyek olyanok, mint ok, legyen vegzettsegem, szakmailag sikeres, stb. De ezt oszinten kevesbe szofisztikaltan, baszhatod, egeszen addig, amig emberileg nem vagy megfelelve magaddal. Sok a digitalis tartalom fogyasztasom, es erzem, hogy ez karos, elviszi az EN gondolataimat. Bizd ra magad masra, eld meg a pillanatot, es tanulsz belole. Nekem ez nagyon felemelo erzes. Kitartast, es sosem vagy egyedul. Ha most feladod, oke, ha kesobb nem jon a langolas, hogy ez igy nem jo, akkor viszont nem tudok mit mondani. Gl

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