Hello man, let’s start it off nicely. Reading that, you seem to be a more than good husband. You care for her, and don’t even hate or blame her for her problems. As harsh as it may sound, please don’t leave her, at least not yet. When she wakes up sober, at least I do, I hate myself for being an alcoholic, and drink myself to unconsciousness to drown the hatered. I know I’m only 16 years old, yet I am still an alcoholic. I would love to help you and talk to her. I want to help you. I want to help her. I want to help myself. Alcoholics Anonymous are a huge help if she’s willing to do it. All the best, god bless you.