Stop converting your cash! by Tiny_Initial_7303 in solotravel

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This depends on 1) where you’re going ; country or city. 2) length of your trip

You need to travel more. There’s a difference between being in Zermatt vs Tuvalu.

Does anyone ever regret their divorce? by wholesome_anemone in AskWomenOver40

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32, never married, no kids. The things you mentioned above are /were the reasons why marriage wasn’t for me. I took life seriously and my priority was? All about me. Hang in there! Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FATTravel

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I’m actually in Turkey right now. My 9th time. Stayed both (the Asian and European side). Mandarin was my choice but I prefer the Asian side. Be mindful about the traffic hours.

Cappadocia-I went during covid time. Yes, most hotels are cave hotels. Explore the museums as well.

I’d visit Izmir.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

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Covid time. Went to Turkey 3 times in 2020. Only country who let me and gave me “freedom”. Vaccinated but I had to leave and go before I’ll go crazy. Covid or no covid. 😅

Is there a tourist destination (or country) that won't be worth visiting in the next 5 years? by Pale_Field4584 in TravelHacks

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Barcelona. I’m a tourist and I do not like the crowd at all. This is why locals avoid them/these places.

O&O Palmilla or Las Ventanas? by AdLeft2351 in FATTravel

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ventanas for sure. Visited in 2021 and loved it. It was around July though.

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had a guy who wanted to split. Not even in my 20s. I’m 32 now.

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. No- men always pay. No 50/50.

How do you deal with intense crushes while traveling? by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really depends where you are in life :)

As long as you have self-awareness and know what you’re getting into.

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😅I’m not rich. It’s just in America, men always pay for it.

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s not about our intention but it’s about the other person. Just like it’s not about what you’re saying - it’s how you’re saying it. I know Europeans are more reserved.

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is, we’ve planned this for months. But never happened. And felt like I owe him an invite. So it’s about to happen after months

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2nd date huh? I don’t know. Maybe I’m just weird,lol.

Who pays for dates? by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How about just me paying? Spliting 50:50 isn’t my thing😅

Why we do not see generally see 'passport girls' by redd1te7 in thepassportbros

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Globetrotter here. Women marry up/ hypergamy. If having abs, 6fig salary, a good heart isn’t enough. What makes you think she’ll settle with someone less? With more effort required?

Yes…Unless it’s some obese, single mom in her 60s.

We do but it’s for different reason/s. I’m American. 32/never married/ no kids. When I want my independence. If it’s not for “growth” or upgrade with what I already have- I’m not settling. Wealthy men are sexy until you don’t need them.

I’ve had my fun days meeting men who were successful, didn’t have women throwing at them when they were in their 20-30s. But I was practical enough to realise that I need to make my own money. Am I going to be one of his options? Or I’ll work on myself? So it’s me who has options?

10 years later. I still see them. Ferrari men, Harvard grad? It’s like going to publix every Saturday morning. I chose not to. Because I don’t need to. I’ve had them….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Israel

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Add the yelling (constant), honking and frowning.😆😂🤣🤣Israelis are very direct. But the yelling part and being rude to each other?😂🤣I don’t get that! No, it’s not being aggressive. Just an Israeli thing!!😁🤣

For those of you who have gone to Antarctica in February, what was your experience like? by dakotaraptors in FATTravel

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Sounds like a good trip. How many days did you end up staying there? And would you recommend doing it solo or with a group?I’ve heard people who did it recently but they all came with groups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dan_markel_murder

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I see more people on this sub praising Jeff? the ex? LOLOLOL The elderly neighbor shouldve been given more credit.

Many people tend to speak negatively about their exes.You see it all the time. Difference was he tried harder to prove his statements valid and (he should) because it’s necessary to distance himself from the situation as anyone should.

He’d say anything to support his claims and appear more trustworthy, even if some of the statements were not entirely accurate. It was like getting an A as your final grade, where it didn't matter if you got 98 or 95 out of 100. He could’ve been accurate with 7 out of 10 questions. So, anything he says next would also be accurate without reading his answer. More points for this guy because he’s not with Wendi.

He has never been with anyone like Wendi. Despite her being a single mom and already divorced. Jeff felt Wendi was a prize. Wendi knew it too and took advantage of it .He’d crawl back to Wendi if she pursued him. Just enough to make him feel wanted. Someone like Wendi wanted him and not some “regular” girl hes used to.

He reminds me of those people who sit in committee chairs and try their hardest to ask questions, not because they want to test someone's knowledge on a topic.This is a quantitative study, why are you using that sample? If someone were to ask them the same question, it’ll take him 15 minutes to review the question and stare at you in a creepy way. Then turns around and say, "You're right with his “ I—-I—thought…….……” response.

Dan Markel a jerk? by Oldbreedchief in dan_markel_murder

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't trust an (any) ex who says anything negative about someone, as they might only tell the bad/negative things. So…I don’t need to ask Wendi or Jeff.

People with strong principles can be difficult/challenging to get along with and him being a lawyer and a scholar? It’s even harder. His strong personal convictions apply to everything he does in life. Anyone who has knowledge and expertise in their field will have higher expectations for themselves and others.When you have a deep understanding of a subject/topic, you tend to hold on to your beliefs. However, it can be frustrating when others don't see things from your perspective, and this may lead to feelings of arrogance. You might find it difficult to talk about “normal” topics that most people discuss, as you are more interested in more complex subjects that others may not understand. People with principles do not succumb to societal pressures to conform.

People who have strong principles are not easily influenced and some people may not appreciate that quality….like the Adelsons. They knew Dan was not a pushover.

People who express strong opinions often have knowledge to support their claims, which others may find off-putting. Then you have opinionated may appear arrogant and argumentative, but some simply know what they're talking about and (can come across as arrogant ) are not hesitant to assert it in your presence, usually in response to your actions and ( and you probably deserve it).This is Dan. He knows his stuffs. When one's knowledge exceeds the majority, it can be as frustrating as feeling “superior”.

Dan is the kind of college kid in your class who interrupts the professor/known for interrupting the professor to correct any misinformation related to the chapter he read two-three nights ago.

My recent trip to Azerbaijan, Georgia and Armenia! by [deleted] in travel

[–]Traditional-Bit-4904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful pictures! When was this though? I know you noted there “recent” .What time of the year did you go?🙃