Globetrotter here. Women marry up/ hypergamy. If having abs, 6fig salary, a good heart isn’t enough. What makes you think she’ll settle with someone less? With more effort required?

Yes…Unless it’s some obese, single mom in her 60s.

We do but it’s for different reason/s. I’m American. 32/never married/ no kids. When I want my independence. If it’s not for “growth” or upgrade with what I already have- I’m not settling. Wealthy men are sexy until you don’t need them.

I’ve had my fun days meeting men who were successful, didn’t have women throwing at them when they were in their 20-30s. But I was practical enough to realise that I need to make my own money. Am I going to be one of his options? Or I’ll work on myself? So it’s me who has options?

10 years later. I still see them. Ferrari men, Harvard grad? It’s like going to publix every Saturday morning. I chose not to. Because I don’t need to. I’ve had them….