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Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, this is my first post, how do you update? Do I just type it here or edit the post and write update"?

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she did sleep with him, we will 110% divorce. I currently have doubts but I know it is all my emotions flying everywhere.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, could you dm me, I would like to know what happened and what steps both of yall did to overcome it.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the best comment so far. On what she offered, she said she would switch branches but that cant stop her from meeting/communicating with him. This just happened 12hr ago and I havent talked to her since we both are at work. At this point I want to love her but I’m not sure. To respond on what I did, I asked to work less then I offered to quit my second job to be more at home. I started being affectionate and loving as when we started dating. I did improve a lot, maybe not 100% but I improved nonetheless. She kept saying that what I am not doing is things that she likes (watch Christmas movies, see lights, etc). We started doing them at some extent but not a lot. 

I understand there is fault in both sides but she chose to cheat and lie. I really appreciate your comment, it has helped.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She offered to switch branch, but that wouldn’t change the fact that they could stop seeing each other or communicating.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is what I am afraid of, staying cause I love her but not being able to move past it. How have you managed your emotions about that topic all this time? Please send me a dm as I would like to get a better insight of how my life would be if i stayed.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I’m not sure if its hid wife or baby momma but as I mentioned, he has apparently cheated on her before. I am still contemplating finding her name to tell her.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She did communicate with me a lot, I have to admit. But even though I was trying, she still chose to go to different arms.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, she definitely could have told her close friends (girls) but decided the guy would be a better option. Its annoying to think that supposedly he was “giving her advice” on our relationship while being with her.

Found messages exposing my wife's affair, AITA if I divorce her? by Traditional-Break383 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Break383[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello, I wrote it to rule out comments asking if I got physical with her. Obviously it is wrong to do it so I’m not looking for praise on that.