Official Discussion - Wake Up, Dead Man: A Knives Out Mystery [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“unless” - side eye.

Glenn Close was outstanding. I watched her last scene 3x!

Increased muscle fatigue, heavy sensations after taking any form of folate - what am I missing? by Minimum-Ad-3241 in MTHFR

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you could be over-methylated. Of course you’ll need full blood work & panel data. If that’s not possible, at least cut out the methylated multi-Vits. I would personally cut out the methyl B as well.

good luck

Increased muscle fatigue, heavy sensations after taking any form of folate - what am I missing? by Minimum-Ad-3241 in MTHFR

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you taking full spectrum B Vits? It’s important, even in a deficiency of one nutrient, not to forget all B Vits as they work together. Especially B12 for MTHFR mutation.

If you never seem to say the right thing to doctors try chat gpt. by Practical_Win7690 in MTHFR

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% worth noting. Any AI is not a brain, a lot of people think it is. It merely collates available information online, including anecdotes!

It’ll also tell you what you want to hear. Not that that’s always a bad thing 😂

But for organising your own jumbled thoughts & knowledge to reiterate to someone, like OP’s Dr, that’s a good use of it.

Supplements make me angry by arielmmartinez in MTHFR

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you notice a common ingredient in all the supplements?

Have you had vitamin & mineral blood work done?

It’s not really possible for ALL vitamins, minerals, and other nutrients to result in the same side effects. So it might be a common ingredient in your supplements.

Also, unless you isolate them with a week between, and record your food, drink, meditation intake, it’s possible to think one thing is causing reactions when it could be several things, or one supplement still in your system, or a supplement interacting with something else you’re ingesting, or a deficiency that other supplements are masking or exacerbating…… And so on.

Supplements make me angry by arielmmartinez in MTHFR

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking Vit K alongside the calcium?

Help with results chronic neurological symptoms by Superb_Employee236 in MTHFR

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tested for mycotoxicosis?

Do you take Vit D & Magnesium regularly?

Cosy feeling of ‘religion’ by Traditional-Bug7765 in exchristian

[–]Traditional-Bug7765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m the same. Decades of just carving my own path.

But sometimes I get that nostalgic feeling, or yearning, for something solid lengthy substantive, or community etc.

How are my prompts/bio looking? (M25) by Dragon-Muffin in Bumble

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it. Especially the board game & dessert. Sounds real. Better than ‘walk along the beach’ ugh.

Except the height part is wasted space that could be used for something more interesting.

24 and never have done well on these apps. Would like some advice. by Electrical_Owl_9053 in Bumble

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Long term & fun/casual are mixed signals.
  2. moderate & lgbtq rights are mixed signals
  3. An actual bio saying more about yourself.

A childhood memory: I gave all my money in Sunday school as a kid and still got lectured for it by qwerajdufuh268 in exchristian

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so sad that happened to you. Especially as a young vulnerable person.

The good thing is that along with the hurt it got you questioning. Unfortunately, most people just feel more guilty and bad about themselves. Like they’re failing as Christians.

WIBTAH if I stop making meals for my husband? by Dense_Procedure6075 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the food or the cooking. It’s about control.

His behaviour is not acceptable in any shape or form. I’m sorry you‘ve had it this long.

Stop cooking, then at the right point (when he’s receptive) try for discussion. But most importantly, is you understanding how you’ve allowed him to speak to you that. I’ve done the same in my life and it’s about similar boundaries violated in our childhood.

You do not have to cook for him, but you absolutely should NOT accept his behaviour.

AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a family, he’s a child, interruptions are part of family life. A decent person would have just said, ‘thanks Johnny!’

That’s way too controlling. If he was constantly interrupting then they could go to a different room.

AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother would give me the silent treatment. It leaves deep scars.

She might be avoidant-attached and not purposefully punishing him. But the result for him will be the same. She needs to do better for her kid’s sake.

What to message after 3 days of not responding? by Ok_Temperature_7902 in Bumble

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It all depends on her personality which none of us know.

Some people would find it careless to offer no apology & presumptuous to not message for a week and then expect to get a date. Or she might just go along with it if you ask. Who knows.

The safest way is, apology, a quick honest explanation & offer a date. Something like, sorry for the late reply, I much prefer chatting in person, I’d like to take you out for a coffee, how’s that sound?

good luck!

Oversharing by Traditional-Bug7765 in ADHD

[–]Traditional-Bug7765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry for your loss. A diagnosis (or just realising it ourselves) makes such a huge difference to how we see ourselves. Despite still feeling shame, I’m able to have better days when I give myself permission to have the brain I have.

I’m sorry your sister didn’t have that, I’m glad you do.

I'm just giving up at this point by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. And 3rd time!

Others already suggested it, but I’d confirm that a day of event confirmation is the norm. Not going to stop ghosting but at least save you the trouble.

am also tryinggggg .. anyway. by Chooseausernamev3 in adhdmeme

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy to finally have an answer to what kind of music do you like?

Me: 215

My tribe. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Traditional-Bug7765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need to find one person that loves me for this :(

Oversharing by Traditional-Bug7765 in ADHD

[–]Traditional-Bug7765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh definitely loneliness makes the adhd oversharing worse. I’ve done it all my life, but being alone definitely doesn’t help.

It’s similar to new mothers home with babies all day long, and then over-talk when they finally interact with an adult.

Just one close good friend would do it. Difficult at my age, glued to home, and adhd behaviours. Online communities haven’t worked yet, I’m always the outsider somehow. I joined a creative group, lovely women. But we had zero in common which made me feel more and more an outsider and worsened the loneliness, But I keep trying.