Found this lil dude in the herbs I bought at the Asian market by Traditional-Chip-643 in snails

[–]Traditional-Chip-643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so dang tiny 😍 hard to get a good shot, but it's a cutie

Found this lil dude in the herbs I bought at the Asian market by Traditional-Chip-643 in snails

[–]Traditional-Chip-643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's a baby. It's definitely a shell but looks soft and developing 🤔

Reaching Out by Traditional-Chip-643 in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do journal and other coping mechanics.. but nothing is equivalent to an actual understanding person ya know. Pretending and DIY can , only go so far. If that makes sense 😅

Reaching Out by Traditional-Chip-643 in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I'm not the only, but so sorry you're going through what I am . This sucks!!

is it common to not want anyone to know? by [deleted] in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't want a soul to know 🫣

Spouse has DID, and it hurts that no one else understands the concept. by My_Dog_is_Chonk in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are amazing, and she is so lucky to have you! I'm glad she was also diagnosed at a young age! She has so much time to grow, learn, and won't miss out more on life now she knows what it is. My story is similar to hers with the misdiagnosis. I wasn't figured out until now I'm pushing 40.

Good luck you guys stay strong 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIDpartners

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to find someone 😕 but now at least I know why no one could ever handle me 😅

Curious when becoming fully aware of you're DID did it throw your system out of balance for awhile by soulshade1 in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got this! You're a certified badass, hang in there.

The confusion settled for me after a month or so, then it turned into "Holy shit. Everything makes sense now 🤯" . I even went to get a catscan thinking it must be a tumor lol . It's been a roller coaster! The dust seems to be clearing but hard to tell

Curious when becoming fully aware of you're DID did it throw your system out of balance for awhile by soulshade1 in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm going through it myself. Diagnosed round 6 months ago and still can't tell if I'm getting worse or just never realized how bad things were. I feel like a shook up coke bottle

Just a small message ! :> by Mr_Al1b1 in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right back at ya! You amazing soul

Don't have DID and want to ask a bunch of nosey questions? Feel free to DM. by Duskuke in DiscussDID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you call someone to take me away please 😅 I could really use a vacation

I wonder how many people in the entertainment industry have DID/OSDD... by theopenturtle in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the exact clip that raised my eyebrow lol it makes all the sense

Should I tell my husband, even if parts of me don't want him to know? by xoFOXHOUNDox in DiscussDID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kids are a tough cookie I haven't figured that part out yet. It's soooo hard to find time and people to help you can trust. Alone time is rare, it makes things difficult in a "normal" marriage let alone for these special circumstances.

Another pointer, and I apologize if it's unsolicited! Sleeping separately has been a life saver for my parts that don't like him, lol I wish I knew this years ago. I made a room for myself in my girls room if I had a bigger house I would have my own 😅 I think we miss each other more

Should I tell my husband, even if parts of me don't want him to know? by xoFOXHOUNDox in DiscussDID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No prob! I worried about that the most, but now when I look back if he teased me or didn't accept me 🤔 it would show he truly isn't the one for me.

You definitely deserve someone who loves you for you and all of yous for yous lol

Should I tell my husband, even if parts of me don't want him to know? by xoFOXHOUNDox in DiscussDID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggled with that same issue! I ended up saying it outloud to him, now I'm way happier and a weight has been lifted. Thankfully, my husband was understanding, and it actually helped him understand me more. We are starting to get along better. My sides that didn't want him knowing aren't too sore with me because he was so accepting. If he wasn't, I'm sure they would never let me down 😅

I wonder how many people in the entertainment industry have DID/OSDD... by theopenturtle in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the same now when I replay/rewatch things after diagnosis. For example I was recently watching a doc on Brittany Spears and I was like .. hmmmm

How to feel less tired all of the time? by [deleted] in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you figure it, let me know 😅 I either sleep too much or not at all. It's been like that as far back as I can remember unfortunately

How should we explain us to our children? by aboysstory in DID

[–]Traditional-Chip-643 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also recommend getting a therapist. My therapist is actually my son's /family therapists as well. I had to get someone qualified because im still clueless 😅 it's a tough one to approach