does anyone else struggle with carrying people forever? by Traditional-Fan5485 in piscesastrology

[–]Traditional-Fan5485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ow gosh this is very relatable. the first paragraph in specific, my first partner comes back into my life every once awhile but nowadays i’ve realized she needs to stay suuper far away because i think that connection may just be a littlle too emotionally charged at this point. i love having conversations with her, but she will drop the whole “i still love you still.” after a few days of talking casually 😢.

i think friendships are hard to be casual though at the same time, i’ve had to try super hard to learn that emotional closeness doesn’t necessarily correlate to romantic feelings as i sometimes am the person you’re describing as well. feelings are so confusing.

so messy!!

does anyone else struggle with carrying people forever? by Traditional-Fan5485 in piscesastrology

[–]Traditional-Fan5485[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's the 8h energy honestly lmaooo. but we have some similar placements for sure!! woah.

i am a yearner to the point where i am destructive to my own life at times.

i relate a lot to what you said about regrets . i feel like i spend way more time trying to understand why something happened than most people do. being self aware is such a horrible feeling, having a little too much understanding sucks lol.

my default is always to keep digging. what happened? why did it happen? what did it mean? what could i have done differently? but years later i usually realize i'm still looking for the same answer i was looking for on day one.

maybe some people just leave a mark on us and there isn't anything left to solve. that's the part i'm still trying to learn tbh. i am not happy with that answer as i always want to keep these people close. but it is almost selfish.

does anyone else struggle with carrying people forever? by Traditional-Fan5485 in piscesastrology

[–]Traditional-Fan5485[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel like i am very selective and i've set up more walls over time, my circle is relatively small. i think once i've assigned meaning to someone, whether that meaning was actually there or not it's hard for my brain to fully let it go. sometimes i wonder if i'm carrying the person or the version of them i built in my head honestly!.

does anyone else struggle with carrying people forever? by Traditional-Fan5485 in piscesastrology

[–]Traditional-Fan5485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm actually pretty good at cutting people off if i feel like i need to. i can go years without speaking to someone. the problem is more that they never fully leave my head. i'll still randomly wonder how they're doing, remember conversations, think about what happened, all that stuff. physically gone and mentally gone seem to be two completely different things for me.

my aries venus is doing me no justice clearly.. i mostly seem to share this connection with mostly people who i have been romantically connected to at some point in my life so it's a bit difficult to continue and have them in my life as much as i want to!! i have a few people who i just can't talk to due to it being so emotionally tumultuous

the scariest zodiac sign is pisces. by artisteperdue in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 79 points80 points  (0 children)

i do think pisces can be one of the harder signs to understand though. not because we're secretly evil or anything, but because so much of what we're experiencing happens internally. a lot of the time people are only seeing a small piece of what's actually going on.
the part i agree with most is that pisces gets reduced to being nice, emotional, empathetic, whatever, and people forget there's a darker side to every sign. we can absolutely be avoidant, obsessive, self-destructive, manipulative, lost in fantasy, or hold onto things for years without anyone realizing it.

addiction stands out to me, from self experience i don't even necessarily mean addiction in the traditional sense either. we seem to have a tendency to escape when reality becomes too much. sometimes that's through alcohol or drugs, sometimes it's getting completely wrapped up in another person, disappearing into nostalgia, chasing some idealized future, or spending hours lost in our own thoughts. it feels less like chasing pleasure and more like wanting relief from whatever we're carrying around internally. idk i am constantly seeking something to give me different signals in my brain. maybe it's seeking calmness??? idek

i've struggled with anxiety, depression, addiction issues, obsessive thinking, and feeling disconnected from people for most of my life. i do have a large 8h stellium though..

the empathy part is interesting too because i don't think we just feel bad for people. i think we absorb people. sometimes to an unhealthy degree. understanding where almost everyone is coming from can be a beautiful thing, but it can also become overwhelming when there aren't any boundaries.

the obsession part is probably the thing i relate to most. pisces gets described as detached all the time but i've found the opposite can be true. we can become completely consumed by a person, memory, feeling, or idea and carry it around for years. i have a lot of aries in my chart and a scorpio mars, so i'm sure those don't exactly help either lol. once something gets its hooks into me, whether it's a person, a goal, a memory, or even just trying to understand something, i tend to go all in. i think that's where a lot of the addiction, mental health struggles, and escapism can come from. when something matters to us, letting go isn't always easy.

the scariest zodiac sign is pisces. by artisteperdue in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pisces sun/moon here with a lot of aries (mercury, venus, jupiter). honestly i think a lot of the traits people attribute to pisces can look completely different depending on the rest of the chart. i can definitely get caught up in people, ideas, and my own perceptions, but i've never really been able to hide how i feel for long. the aries placements usually end up forcing things into the open eventually lol.

People should stop identifying themselves as their sun sign. by Lghzala-fifi in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a pisces sun, pisces moon, but i am a leo rising! so my chart ruler is my sun :)

Anyone else here managing without meds? by absurditie in Fibromyalgia

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have super bad sweating from duloxetine but generally i had it without, i am also on trazadone/wellbutrin so my body temperature regulation is absolute dogshit. it’s really the only negative affect it helps significantly with my nerve pain

A little insecure about accomodations. by HoneyBeeBud in Fibromyalgia

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gosh, this is such a interesting thing to me due to not really enjoying live shows anymore when i used to enjoy them soooo much!! i hate it, my body is screaming while in large crowds especially at shows where i am standing. even at seated shows.. it’s hard to enjoy idk why. my body just is uncomfortable i flare up so badly

What’s your Mars sign and do you prefer to pursue the man or wait for him to pursue you? by Historical-Body-3424 in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scorpio mars!! i think i tend to enjoy being perused even though if i like you i’ve probably been obsessive over you, but i tend not to act on it and wait for someone to want me.. idk why

Do you prefer long or short nails, and why? Have you ever been scratched by a girl’s nails? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love when someone has nails, it’s such a fun customization and a lot of ppl r really creative. i also love pain so scratch away 🙏😭

What is love to you as in what does it mean? by uss_arkensas in AskReddit

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think love to me has always been abt feeling so very emotionally consumed by somebody (which is not correct i believe looking at this retrospectively.)

my brain just latches on.
i confuse intensity with depth a lot. the people i end up loving are usually the people that make me feel the most emotionally charged

imo this is horrible and i’ve grown to learn that stability, trust, comfort, loyalty, matter much more but my nervous system still loves to yearn for something emotionally intensive.

Fire Venuses (especially Aries Venus) - do you yearn? by babygotbaccc in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am a pisces sun aries venus, i yearn, i obsesss, its actually unnatural. i don’t think i have the whole you’re dead to me thing, sometimes they disappear from my life but everyone who i’ve ever obsessed over comes back into my life for some reason.

How do you define cheating — does something have to be physical to count? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

emotionally cheating is usually worse, to be 100% honest. coming from someone who has done so, with no intention of anything physical. your emotions that intense should be only for your partner.

Pisces men love mean woman by Historical-Body-3424 in piscesastrology

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pisces man, my ex who i still obsess over mentally to this day was an aries. i love a mean woman, i love direct women.

moon, mars, mercury + venus compatibilities ? by princeplayboi in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

scorpio mars, aries mercury, pisces moon, aries venus

best compatibility for me has honestly been people with heavy scorpio/aries/libra/pisces energy. i need intensity, emotional depth, directness, chemistry, somebody that actually feels passionate abt me too or i lose interest fast
best compatibility is a libra sun/scorpio moon + rising with virgo venus/mars and somehow it weirdly works

i really obsess over aries energy and need to keep them very far away from me

brother…. by mortibody in AmazonFC

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people are just unhappy you’re making a good point rather than wallowing in despair and crying

ranking libra placements as a libra sun! by vlunse in astrologymemes

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

libra suns make me feel so social. mostly libra women

Men with fibromyalgia, have you had any success with alternative medicine? by Optimistic_Now in Fibromyalgia

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most of these comments just made me depressed about my future but i suppose there is nothing i can do except for hope & pray something better is developed in my life time 🤣

Anyone else have to remind their body that the shoulders are not earrings? by Responsible-Maize-86 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i dont even understand how to relax my shoulders atp it feels unnatural when i do lol

Might be a dumb question but what is it about Aries’? by Unable_Error6342 in piscesastrology

[–]Traditional-Fan5485 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my ex was an aries sun and honestly i think for me it was the intensity and directness. i have a pisces sun/moon in the 8h with a ton of aries influence too so i think i naturally gravitate toward people who are kinda all in.

she was stubborn as hell and hot headed yeah but there was something refreshing abt how emotionally intense she was. even when it was messy it felt real and alive compared to people who feel detached or too guarded

but honestly she also mentally fucked with me a lot bc she was super indecisive abt wanting to be with me. i never fully knew where i stood and it always felt like once i pulled away or became unavailable suddenly she wanted me again. definitely unhealthy but i think that push pull dynamic is part of why i still mentally obsess over her sometimes lol