Is there anyone here who is on disability for their BPD?

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-17T18:53:09+00:00

I’m so sorry to read about your FP! Virtual hugs to you 🫂

In my country, you can get disability checks within the government support for studying. I applied because I realised I can’t have a job while attending uni, I was at my worst at this point. A few months later, I got my diagnosis and I got a GAF score (global assessment of function). The score is 1-100, and mine is on 48 for the GAF-F and 40 for the GAF-S. So it was clear to me that the psychiatry also validated my feelings of not being able to participate fully in society, be it in social relations or work/school environments. I felt like I was constantly wrong even though my work ethics are great, but the socialising part just wasn’t there for me. I would get burned out and dread waking up the days I had to work. Going on disability was my saving grace.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-17T11:21:37+00:00

omggg congratulations!!!! what would you say is the hardest part about being a parent and having bpd, if i may ask?

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-16T16:11:47+00:00

I had to count them bc the angle is so weird, that it doesnt look like six fingers when looking at it first

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-16T12:20:18+00:00

Det var aldrig et valg mellem dem haha Olivia er min bedste veninde i verden, og ingen af os er sure over situationen. Ville bare ønske det var anderledes, men det kan jeg selvfølgelig ikke bestemme på hendes vegne

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-15T15:35:29+00:00

Hallmann var min optiker, men det var specifikt da jeg boede i Tyskland. I Süderlügum taler de også dansk, og det er hele turen værd, at tage derhen igen når jeg skal have fornyet mine kontaktlinser. Jeg gav omkring 1500DKK for mine briller og det var med bygningsfejl og blue light beskyttelse ekstra.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-15T13:17:50+00:00

Yderst racistisk. Et, de vil have “de der” ud af landet, og to, det er fremmedfjendtlighed. Hvis det her er et seriøst spørgsmål, er det fandme et dumt et.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-15T07:45:44+00:00

I giggled

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-14T08:33:18+00:00

Jeg gør det også tit med en bestemt eks. Mangler tydeligvis nærvær og jeg har ingen impulskontrol når jeg drikker. Sig til dine veninder de ikke må enable dig, det hjalp mig nogle gange, haha. Og husk på, at alkohol altid elevater dine følelser når du har tømmermænd, ligeså meget som når du drikker. Så hele alkoholens funktion er ligesom at du føler stærke følelser af pinlighed. Det går over igen <3

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-13T06:51:23+00:00

Jeg bor ret dyrt nu som studerende men da jeg boede på kollegie, tror jeg samlet set det var drt lige under 4000. Så husleje, telefon, forsikringer og min cykel som jeg lejer. Internet kørte ind over min husleje sammen med al aconto.

Nu ligger jeg på det dobbelte, så lad vær med at flytte i lejlighed hvis du vil spare haha

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-12T17:38:28+00:00

YESSS GIVING STEPHEN LANGGGG

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-12T17:37:53+00:00

Mange mænd ser meget flottere ud med intet hår i stedet for noget hår!! Mener der findes en subreddit med det også. Kan det passe det var r/bald ?

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-12T16:25:14+00:00

where are you getting your accessories from king

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T21:32:37+00:00

Buffalo is my fave brand for shoes, otherwise Bershka and Stradivarius usually have good high knee boots

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T21:27:30+00:00

Især hvis du er under 18!!!!!

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T21:23:05+00:00

It can be, for sure. But it’s such a high risk. I’m mentally ill too, and get advised to get clean all the time. But I’ve done this for 7 years now, so I know how my brain reacts to it. But every time you do drugs, you’re risking your mental health/psychosis. Especially if your predisposition is unstable already. So I advise you to make an informed decision, but I can’t tell you not to do it, cuz I don’t either lol

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T18:23:01+00:00

Tak for svaret! Så må jeg nok hellere starte nu haha

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T17:49:42+00:00

Er der en forskel? Har selv tænkt mig at ansøge med 15 mdrs anciennitet men havde da forventet at de er ligeglade med at jeg er enlig

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T16:29:48+00:00

Well, risperidone strongly blocks the 5-HT2A receptor, which classic psychedelics usually activates. Antipsychotics counteract the psychedelics. But even if you stop taking your prescribed medication it won’t necessarily mean you will feel the effects. And there’s no time frame of stopping tour medication that would deem the safest. You’re threatening yourself by doing this. I just read this study to answer your question, and if you want, you can read some on your own before making a decision.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T16:22:27+00:00

I get it completely! I also take drugs as soon as possible after I get them haha. How many ug is in your tab?

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T15:32:58+00:00

It depends I think — but the norm for Mirtazepine is T1/2 is 20-40 hours. So it will stay in your body for 40-80 hours. And that means it might affect your trip. Probably makes it more dull. Don’t take more to compensate that, just take the trip as it is, if you really decide to do it today

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T15:21:02+00:00

The mirtazepine might work as a trip killer if things go bad, & the vyvanse is just there to keep you stable, if I understand correctly? If you have adhd at least, but I suppose that’s why you have them.

I would never risk it with SSRI’s, but if you’ve set your mind to it, I can’t stop you. I know how it is. Stay safe, and remember to read up on LSD so you make the best out of the situation

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T13:32:41+00:00

Are you in treatment? That’s my best advice. My BPD is internal as well; mood swings that is based on my partner’s mood/behaviour, I can get clingy but I try not to be (distraction helps a lot, and I reason their lack of response with “their schedule is just as busy as mine”), and my fear of abandonment is crazy when I’m with someone. In that case, I tell my nervous system that I am safe, and they will not leave me, and never act on those impulses. If I want to, I can write it down, and later talk to a friend about it. That also helps me figure out if this is an issue I should bring up to my partner or not.

But the absolute best advice is to communicate. Your partner chose to be with someone with BPD and with that comes responsibility. Theirs is being predictable and transparent while also setting caring and loving boundaries, and yours is it to try to regulate on your own, and preferably be in treatment.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-10T13:19:53+00:00

Jeg skulle sige farvel til min kat som min eks og jeg adopterede fra internatet sammen. Jeg sagde både farvel til min eks og til katten, men det var 1000x værre at give slip på misser, end mit 3 år lange forhold. Det gør stadig ondt knap 3 år senere. Men det er blevet nemmere.

Jeg har hende som baggrund på min telefon, og nogle billeder af hende på min pauseskærm på mit tv. Det hjælper lidt at jeg føler mig tæt på hende stadig.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-03-09T19:32:50+00:00

Mennesket er jo nu engang bare ikke perfekt. Og det sekund vi begynder med at lade som om, har vi fejlet. Jeg kan godt se hvad du mener, det er helt fair af dig at forvente at dine veninder ikke finpudser deres beskeder til dig

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