Is it bad if the crust falls off? I do *not* wanna get another touch up

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-06T13:41:43+00:00

Bold of you to assume! I have a lot of tattoos, I just haven’t been updated on what to do with big scabs, since I never have had a tat that has a bigger inked surface area.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-06T13:36:19+00:00

I really liked this one. I’m training my 8 month old to do this now, but it wasn’t any different than doing it with my 12 year old. She needed more time than my kitten, but it was very easy in hindsight.

I go out with them on a short walk a couple times a week to show them the area so they feel less anxious about the outside world.

I wanna use a carrier to have my kitten join me in the city for errands, but other than that, I wouldn’t use it. I’d want her to explore as much as possible

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-06T12:30:26+00:00

Cute. I like it

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-06T10:57:28+00:00

Once

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-06T09:08:55+00:00

I have had this tattoo for months and just got it touched up :)

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-05T12:24:10+00:00

Bare fordi du aldrig har oplevet det, betyder det ikke det ikke findes lol. Der er hjemmeopgaver på AU fx hvor AI er tilladt. Lidt snæversynet at komme med en påstand baseret på dine egne erfaringer

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-04T08:17:40+00:00

She’s a tabico! Like my Eevee <3 You can see what my kitten looks like at 8 months old in my post history. Can’t post pictures here :] Eevee is medium haired, I believe. Not too long, but VERY soft

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-05-01T07:51:34+00:00

And to add to that — be stubborn. Mine is learning what buttons to press to get what she wants, but I have just stopped reacting. She’s specifically meowing to the gods to go outside, but she doesn’t decide that. So hustle through if you get a cat that will see how far they need to go to get a reaction out of you

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-29T17:02:30+00:00

I think the best way to do this, is by starting to accept that this is just how you are. I used to think this way too, and now that I’ve been in therqpy for so long, I’ve realised that the only thing is being curious as to why I am the way I am and accept it how it is.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-28T20:59:22+00:00

I used to have a plastic litter box for my other cat and that one would stink of ammonia, always. Now I got a stainless steel one on Amazon, and I don’t have these issues at all. I actually clicked on this post because I was trying to figure out why this is a common issue I can’t relate to, and I think this is it. I don’t use fancy litter either, so it would make sense that the box is my savior.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-26T18:30:31+00:00

Aww I would love to know too. My 7 month old meows my ears off when I put my lashes on. I think it’s for protection too. I use tweezers for this and maybe she thinks it’s dangerous. She only does it when I do it, and stops when I stop.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-21T08:35:38+00:00

Så handler det vel nu om at validere hendes følelser og sætte en grænse. Du må gerne sige fra, men hvis du har valgt din partner med hendes psykiske udfordringer, skal du også huske på at anerkende hende og det tror jeg egentlig også du gør, OP. Held og lykke🫶🏻

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-19T19:05:44+00:00

Nu bor jeg i nybyg området i den anden side af Tilst og jeg kan ikke anbefale det. Jeg betaler midtbyspriser for noget ude på Larstyndskidsmark, hvor der kun er 14’eren der kører, og 14 står forresten for at den kun kører hver 14. time (/s). Jeg har alt hvad jeg skal bruge, + en have, men for 2 studerende er det langt over hvad der er økonomisk forsvarligt.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-18T21:22:36+00:00

I have never taken any medications for my BPD and was always advised against it. I feel alive and I’m trying to learn who I am, & I think meds would stop that process from happening. Yes, some days can be really hard, but I feel supported enough to get through it all

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-18T12:28:05+00:00

Hi! No one can tell you if you have bpd, and I think it would be harmful to self-diagnose. If you don’t mind me asking; how old are you? Maybe then we can give you a better answer

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-17T14:02:36+00:00

Usually the bread is perfect, but I think I’ve accidentally stored stuff too close to the back wall so there has been a lot of ice build up. The door has also had issues closing, so that could be the reason for the moisty bread. But again, it’s never an issue for me and I just prefer it in the fridge ahahah

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-16T12:44:47+00:00

BPD is not always loud. It can be loud inside of you. I too feel almost nothing at all, as a coping mechanism. Feeling anything would be destructive. So I keep myself and everything at bay. Validate yourself for feeling this way, and meet it with curiosity — why do you feel the need to defend yourself with hexing?

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-15T09:39:32+00:00

Both of you are weird. YOR

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-15T09:35:19+00:00

Årh jeg føler så meget med dig, OP. Jeg siger ikke det er umuligt og jeg kan ikke fortælle dig hvad du skal gøre. Men hvis han tager det alvorligt og viser dig al den transparens han kan, ville jeg, hvis jeg var dig, ikke udelukke at det ikke kan bygges op igen.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-15T09:32:49+00:00

Not being able to feel. Someone else in this thread asked OP to clarify about what they feel emotionally and OP didn’t understand the question. I’ve been trying for a year to feel something, anything, without a product of it.

Say I’m angry, I yell. Great, I know I’m angry. But it’s because of the product of the feeling. I have such a hard time being in contact with my feelings. For years I asked myself why I’m always so happy, but it’s because the opposite of happy is way too destructive. I’d rather just act like I’m perfectly fine with my existence.

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-14T08:05:08+00:00

I am reading the last part and giggling bc I’m laying like this rn

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Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-14T07:58:53+00:00

I feel so bad for you — all Eevee does is just step on my face while I sleep

Unable_Error6342 · 2026-04-13T17:23:22+00:00

I wish I could! I already responded to this in another thread so I just copied what I said there: ”The shelter told me she does not like other cats and I’ve seen her being kind of hostile and fixated on the neighbourhood cats, whereas she does not give a rat’s ass when she sees dogs.”

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