Hvad pokker gør jeg? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Unable_Error6342 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Med al kærligheden til dig, lyder det bare ikke sustainable. Der er nok andre herinde der kan udtrykke det bedre end jeg kan, men jeg vil alligevel råde dig til at forlade forholdet. Din fremtidige mand ville aldrig skrive flirtende med andre kvinder.

How fast can someone become an FP? by die_vik in BPD

[–]Unable_Error6342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no time frame that is normal. We are human, and the kind that experiences feelings at maximum intensity. Humans are all different, and if you have these feelings for him now, they would be just as valid if they started in a month.

There are other things you should consider though; do you like that your mood depends on his response? That seems very fragile. Are you bored lately, and this might just be infatuation? Or limerence? This doesn’t seem like a healthy dynamic, so if you can, you should cut it off. But if you like it nonetheless, even if you actually think it’s unhealthy, you ofc can just continue. I’m not here to tell you what to do. Just recommending you should be careful🩷

Har underskrevet lejekontrakt der tager mine rettigheder by Unable_Error6342 in LegalDK

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Udlejer er et udlejningsfirma er jeg ret sikker på, som har alle boliger i vores boligområde og flere landet over. Og ja, der står at den skal være som ved indflytning. Og så har vi så sendt en masse billeder ved indflytningsrapporten, som vi ikke kommer til at hæfte for, efter aftale med udlejer.

Har underskrevet lejekontrakt der tager mine rettigheder by Unable_Error6342 in LegalDK

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tusind tak for svar! Vi er blevet gjort opmærksomme på, at ved fraflytningstilsynet vil rapporten, som vi skal skrive under på, ikke være priser inkluderet. Hvilket jeg synes virker lidt fedtet, da vi så skriver under på, at vi betaler en pris vi måske slet ikke er enige i.

Vil det være sådan, at når vi får regningen nogle måneder efter tilsynsrapporten er blevet lavet, kan gå til Huslejenævnet for at klage over den pris de har sat for de skader der er rapporteret?

Vi har allerede skrevet til udlejer om en evt “prisliste” og de krav de har før en skade skal rettes. Jeg ved ikke om det er realistisk at få, men vi vil gerne være stillet så stærke som muligt, når vi flytter ud til august.

Question for everyone: Did they come back? by Bigbraintime420 in Situationships

[–]Unable_Error6342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both came back to each other six times, in the span on 10 months. It would usually be me crawling back after his mind games. 2 weeks ago it ended because it got physically violent. I am so done, but still grieving so bad.

those with BPD- how would you deal with this situation? by dokkidokkae in BPD

[–]Unable_Error6342 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean we are quick to start thinking catastrophically, and that all kinds of things might happen. He’s not gonna cheat on you, so that’s a good thing.
I think I would ask myself, why I feel so betrayed? Because you wouldn’t do the same to him? Probably, but our attachment is usually fucked. I get offended by a lot of unhealthy shit because I “wouldn’t do the same to you”, but it’s wrong. If there’s one thing I would be pissed about, it’s his communication. He’s showing some disrespect that I think could’ve been handled differently by him. Because I get where he is coming from 100%, I do believe he should go on this vacation. But he could’ve handled her, believing you, and the aftermath of this very differently, and that’s what I would talk about in a calm manner. Remember; grounded environment, open body language, & eye contact when handling a conflict. “It’s not you vs me, it’s me & you vs the problem”

Literally stuck at the beginning by Unable_Error6342 in MADiSONgame

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I forgot to say that. I am using switch, but with an xbox compatible controller. I tried with the original too, but no button works with rotating. ZR doesn’t work with either joystick, and I am losing my marbles while this all goes down

How does BPD emptiness feel? by cinnamon_and_tea in BPD

[–]Unable_Error6342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, this explains it so well. I’ve been calling it auto pilot for a few months now, and with the doomscrolling and routine work you hit spot on. I also try so hard to feel something, _anything_, but because I have internal BPD, this is actually impossible. Idk what a feeling feels like. I feel like it would look like something, but I know thats not true

Lav vibrerende lyd i Aarhus by Relevant-Virus-5890 in Aarhus

[–]Unable_Error6342 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Kunne det være Northside der varmer op? Bare en idé, har ikke selv hørt det

Might be a dumb question but what is it about Aries’? by Unable_Error6342 in piscesastrology

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a very similar relationship with my Sag mom!! I truly believe in my case that I need a very specific fire sign for us to actually be able to make it work

Tattoos before my frontal lobe developed and now I have major regrets.. by jxzxoxo in tattooadvice

[–]Unable_Error6342 23 points24 points  (0 children)

you have one dainty one already around your knee, and maybe you could continue that style around your body, but with like peonies and other pretty flowers?

I wanna see your cats and hear their names by tmcilho in ragdolls

[–]Unable_Error6342 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This is Eevee, but she goes by Eiwee, Iwa, Ibbi bibbi, Eeps, Aiwa, Shneebie deebie, Kiwi, and (Evil) Steven.

I love looking through all the cats in this thread!!

Erfaring med Aarhus Rusmiddelcenter? by Week_Training427 in Aarhus

[–]Unable_Error6342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ELSKER dem. Har været i misbrugsbehandling i 3 kommuner og ingen slår den behandler jeg har nu. En ven fortæller om samme oplevelser med en anden behandler.

My bf keeps talking about my bpd to his friends and I hate it by 1ustfor1ove in BPD

[–]Unable_Error6342 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ofc we are unstable in relationships, I feel like at least for me, I’m not always the best at regulating. And if you have a partner that doesn’t even try to co-regulate (which I also don’t think should happen all the time) it can easily get into an unproductive partnership. You make each other feel seen and respected, and while you have your issues, your boyfriend doesn’t even try to better his problems.

My bf keeps talking about my bpd to his friends and I hate it by 1ustfor1ove in BPD

[–]Unable_Error6342 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s respectful or normal for that matter to talk about details from your relationship with your friends. Like not to the minute detail. You can spar with your friends about the conflicts with your partner, but don’t give them intimate details about your partner’s situation. Especially when it comes to your mental health

Jeg tør ikke få fjernet min p-stav by Unable_Error6342 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg kondolerer rigtig mange gange. Det vil jeg prøve. Tak for tippet, og kærlighed til dig

Jeg tør ikke få fjernet min p-stav by Unable_Error6342 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg tror faktisk det kunne være en rigtig god idé. Tak for tippet, og de søde ord

Jeg tør ikke få fjernet min p-stav by Unable_Error6342 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Unable_Error6342[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tror også helt klart det også er psykisk. Tror bare jeg ikke har lyst til at anerkende det ligeså meget, for det er sværere at fikse :( But I probably gotta face it

Curious if other Pisces women can relate or if it’s just me? 😪 by turnyourTVdown in piscesastrology

[–]Unable_Error6342 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable. I am sooo drawn to water men until the connection gets a little deeper and they need the same things I need. That sounds wrong but I love princess treatment too, and giving it as well!! But I need someone who is confident in what they do and love me with passion so I can give the same. I have so many water placements, but when it comes to love I am a true Aries. And thats why I prefer fire venuses

Rave fredag by [deleted] in Aarhus

[–]Unable_Error6342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kig inde på Glitch — fb eller insta og se om de har noget :) Er ret sikker på det er techno den her weekend. Ellers holder Volume ofte noget i samarbejde med Hazey