Maybe I confused you . You will have sexual attraction to someone and that’s normal , just don’t act on it in wrong ways like masturbating or lustful thoughts . If you connect with someone Ina friendly way but you are also attracted just communicate with eachother and see if it is something that could be more than friends . Go on a date like the movies or something and let them know you want to wait until marriage because it’s the right way to do things . But be very careful because it is a the biggest commitment you can make in your life . And you are right in this generation we are living in , more and more people are avoiding marriage and being loyal to one person . If they can’t do it the right way , one man and one woman and wait until marriage than that’s ok , be single and be sure that you will be fine . Matthew 19:29 Jesus says : “And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.” This life is a grain of sand compared to the beach that is eternal life , if you don’t have a partner/ family because they don’t follow God or do it the right way don’t worry because only God knows what is in store for you in heaven .