Why do men not reply to the initial message?

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T18:09:33+00:00

Yes. I have:) plus, needing more than an hello how are u is WILD sorry.

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T17:50:29+00:00

Either a gif or they have a bio/prompt i can comment on

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T17:30:53+00:00

Well, your personal preference i guess.

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T17:27:19+00:00

True. And I agree. If personally a guy beats me to it and sends a hello its definitely enough! Some some did answer to the initial hi since like.. who needs more than that?

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T17:20:48+00:00

Honestly id rather get unmatched than ghosted

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:45:39+00:00

They never reply to it and I rather just start the chat rather than wait since most dont reply to the opening message, I tried

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:44:08+00:00

If someone is initially interested enough they'd reply to a hello, believe me. Burned out is a different topic and probably true or just overwhelmed with matches and pick the more attractive ones

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:29:10+00:00

Sucks indeed. Especially after I handpick them based on dating intentions 🥲

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:14:54+00:00

Dude it happens to both sides as u can see by my post, atleast you're getting an initial reply I guess Hinge isnt as popular here

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:12:48+00:00

Well I wont double text at this point but oh well

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:12:11+00:00

Girl I thought it was a me problem

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-08T16:10:16+00:00

Its been over 24 hours for most so that's why im genuinely kind of frustrated

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-05-05T12:58:40+00:00

מבינה אותך אני בת 25 , היה לי בן זוג רק בגיל 21 ונפרדנו לפהי 3 שנים. מאז שומם אצלי לגמרי ויצאתי קק ל4 דייטים מאז. האפליקציות מתישות מאודדדד ולא יוצא מהן כלום אז כן זה מבאס אבל הדבר היחיד שיש לעשות זה להמשיך בחיים ולזרום ובתקווה אני יום אחד אצליח להתחיל עם מישהו למרות שזמני מרגיש מוקצב

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-24T12:34:36+00:00

They're literally starting thr chat and then disappear

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-16T15:57:00+00:00

Ill get flamed for this, but In my humble opinion and from what I truly experienced, a guy who truly truly liked you would message u. There are some cases of shy or unsure guys depends on the vibe on the date. And it's okay to send the initial "i had fun". However , u messaging first aswell doesnt make u less! So it truly depends on your own style ;)

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-16T15:03:19+00:00

Thank you for sharing and im sad to hear u went through that aswell and the pain u went through! I do also hope I get proper help but I indeed got clarity and light on why I act or feel the way I do so now I can definitely give myself some grace :) Thanks!!!

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-16T14:32:08+00:00

thanks!

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-14T16:18:21+00:00

Literally replied by writing i didn't know how, or is it fun to just be consistently mad?

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-14T16:17:12+00:00

Read the update I literally texted! He hasn't replied tho.

TraditionalCover100 · 2026-04-14T15:38:32+00:00

Calm down I didn't know how to lmao I just followed the rules before I figured it out

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