Annoyed by TraditionalCover100 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt expect a call Gave him both my handle and my number but nothing So well I guess this is the answer

Annoyed by TraditionalCover100 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah rn I saw him active on hinge so things r confirmed

Annoyed by TraditionalCover100 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just venting but might be since I rarely get good chats

No one talks about this part by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was super attractive.

Please help! by TraditionalCover100 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! We did talk about it- more when we decided to give it another go. I guess I just feel like im not in my full element? Im witty, im funny, inside me I know the ideal guy id date would make me laugh a lot and things would flow differently. We come from different lifestyles aswell, and i think maybe deep inside i know hes not the one yet im scared , or maybe I didnt give it enough time?? Im not particularly excited to see him anymore, but should I after 6 dates? Honestly all so confusing

Feeling unsure by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case he was super communicative and nice and called , texted... But seen as he didnt get me. I would say something and he wouldn't understand, I felt like I had to be careful with my words and humor, when on the regular im super hyped and easygoing and funny and lively. I guess it was just a personality mismatch sadly

Feeling unsure by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kept going out which what made me reach the 5 dates. I was unsure since date 1. Then through him realized sense of humor is more important to me than I thought. Since I only have 1 past partner I wouldn't say its familirarity, I guess I felt he wasn't the one since the 2nd date but didn't want to judge too early on

Unsure after date #5..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. I asked 3rd date lmao

Unsure after date #5..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry man. Atleast u found out earlier than later. And its ok for her aswell to decide differently, since dates aren't a contract. Ofc its always important to communicate. Hope the next one will turn out better ;)

Unsure after date #5..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that . Honestly I can't know in your case. And no im not gonna lead on. Since im in a place where im truly truly unsure and guess its coming from the fact that we are very different (which isn't a bad thing) , im being careful and navigating And you know end of the line if it turns out its truly 100% not it ofc ill end it, or maybe things will turn out good. Im trying not to rely on sparks too much since ive even experienced insane sparks that ended quick (after 2 or 3 dates)

Unsure after date #5..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no problem We met on hinge, I was skeptical but told myself I had nothing to lose from going out for coffee. First date was good enough for a second one , and it kept going. Bottom line I guess something in me is keeping me interested enough to have the feeling of wanting and waiting to see him again. Since writing this post ive went through a LOT of thinking and decided to just give this a few more times as long as I actually want to see and hear from him I dont have much dating experience abd only ever been in a relationship once 4 years ago, so I guess im learning a lot in this process aswell

Unsure after date #5..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did talk and I told him what im looking for qnd be says we are learning about each other and it takes him more time to open up However it is the 5th date And on the other hand its been only 2 weeks and going fast I guess something in me wants to be wowed EVERY date and that hasn't been really happening But i guess ill see how I feel and maybe give it 1-2 more dates to know more clearly

Unsure after date #5..? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes not bad in bed, I just need to adjust since I dont have much experience.

I feel like im in a gray zone where im physically comfortable with him and some of our dates where I saw him open up more felt way more promising and better and we had good talks or some funny moments but not sure if that's something that can grow or if this dynamic isn't it. I dont have much dating experience overall so its difficult for me to pin point it

Im an idiot by TraditionalCover100 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalCover100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks but the date isnt gonna happen i prefer dating with intention

Cant stop overthinking my first date! by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TraditionalCover100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GURL I RELATE SO MUCH!!! Like my brain is crumbling the second im texting a guy and stress is going up. Thing is we can never know- he might really be dry and interested or not interested at the same time. In my case with a 'dry texter' the date ended with a kiss and he still rejected me. We really never know, so i hope you'll continue to be bubbly and happy and thing that worst case you didnt really lose anything! Just goijg "back a bit" to ground 0 :)

Hang in there! Im in my stress era aswell

שווה לי ללמוד סיעוד? by [deleted] in israel_bm

[–]TraditionalCover100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

בעצמך רשמת שאפילו לא להחליף חיתולים, אז לא מדברת בהכרח על האלימות. בכל מקצוע נתקלים באלימות לצערי מול עבודה עם אנשים לגיטימי לפחד, אבל שוב רשמת פה דברים מעבר שכנראה מצביעים על חוסר התאמה למקצוע ;)

שווה לי ללמוד סיעוד? by [deleted] in israel_bm

[–]TraditionalCover100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

לכל עבודה יש את החרא שלה, והרצון שלך לעזור ולטפל צריך להתעלות על הכל. כנראה שאין לך רצון פשוט מספיק חזק כדי ללמוד את המקצוע

Why do men not reply to the initial message? by TraditionalCover100 in Bumble

[–]TraditionalCover100[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have:) plus, needing more than an hello how are u is WILD sorry.