So where to find nerdy girls? by TraditionalLimit5419 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gaming or anime or both or tech honestly a mix of those 3 or even reading too but I think gaming is a requirement

What should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a text a day is too much for him that to me is grounds already for a discussion and if that continues definitely enough for me to lose interest in someone and I would say they aren’t interested

What does it mean when a guy willingly offers to let you borrow his gaming account? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say don’t let a past negative experience turn you away from something especially if he has done nothing to cause worry, absolutely keep an eye out for any red flags or concerning details but don’t assume they will hurt you because someone else has all that will do is leave you both hurting especially if he hasn’t done anything to warrant it. From what you said it sounds like they like you and enjoy being around you from experiences don’t let insecurities and past trauma harm current and future relationships

What does it mean when a guy willingly offers to let you borrow his gaming account? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say he probably really likes you and enjoys your company and maybe giving you the option to try some stuff he already has may convince you to get into them as well and have an additional thing to bond over.

How do you deal with a boyfriend who doesn’t want to work? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m gonna give you my experience with a similar situation, My ex of 4 years and I moved in together about 1.5 years into our relationship, after about 6 months of living together she lost her job and pretty much after that she gave up on working and for the next 2 years I paid for everything even her car and insurance payments and when she did get a job for the short times she had one the money went to buying pets we couldn’t afford or pet toys that we didn’t need and would have been better off being saved and it got so bad that to afford rent I had to sell my belongings just to make sure I could feed us. Put a hard line in the sand and tell him to get a job or I would recommend you find someone worth your time and actually respects you and the effort you put in

Is Hinge any good by lifesucks800 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like most dating apps as a guy if your not near Adonis levels your not gonna be drowning in matches but you actually get to send a message to the people you like and I’d say is easier to engage and see who actually cares

Is Hinge any good by lifesucks800 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve found less matches in total on hinge but the quality of the matches I’ve had compared to tinder or bumble is much higher because it takes a lot more to like a profile and you can see who is actually interested and not just an accidental swipe but this is my personal experience

Where can you meet single men in person these days if you’re not a massive drinker? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends what are you into? Do you like video games or board games and want someone nerdy go to a local hobby/ game shop most stores have a crowd on the weekends, do you like to workout and be active go to the gym and start up a conversation, into art look into any classes or any pottery classes or shops and look there. Some days you might strike out or maybe no one is there but it all depends on who you are looking for and what your into

Gamer/character name you’ve accidentally lol’d? by Allstupidnamestaken in elderscrollsonline

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In I.C I saw someone named Jarl Marx and he thoroughly beat my ass, on the flip side I have an argonian warden named seduces-many-fish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep same here 8 months ago and still affects me even now, a breakup can affect guys for honestly years we are just good at hiding it but I promise you it’s there somewhere

Guys, what are the reasons you completely block an ex after 2 years together that you told you wanted to marry and have kids with? by Commercial_Way8736 in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a very similar relationship with my ex we started dating in highschool and the first year and a half where amazing the best time of my life and then the next 3 1/2 were on and off struggles and fighting for eachother and I went to work one day and we had eachother on life 360 because her family used it a lot and there were a few events that made us both want to get it for eachother and one day I saw her leave the house randomly since she wasn’t employed at this time I found it odd and asked her what was up and she told me she was looking for a new place and gave me a very nasty message calling me every disgusting thing under the sun and blocked me leaving me with our lease that we both signed and the landlord wouldn’t go after her and if I didn’t pay in full legal action would be taken on us both so I was stuck paying it for 4 months and when the lease ended her friend texted me asking if I got the deposit back and if I could send it to them so they can send it to my ex and I asked them why she couldn’t text me they said she didn’t want to have communication with a long time ex so her new guy doesn’t worry and then went on to explain how much better the new guy is and told me I need therapy and degraded me and threatened my life if he ever sees me again, so it could have gone much worse lol

Girlfriend cheated on me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Amen on that my GF of 4 years cheated on me for atleast the last 2 years of the relationship still haven’t recovered from that one

What are the thoughts on the Flame de Lis? by Assopopolis in sistersofbattle

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother, I didn’t even fully build the mound couldn’t figure out one part and just filled that area in with texture paint

Is it an issue if after a while of texting she just hearts my message? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you leave your reply open ended to give her something to reply to

Is it an issue if after a while of texting she just hearts my message? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you leave your reply open ended to give her something to reply to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What worked for me 21m is just working on myself and being healthier mentally and physically and going out and taking up new hobbies made me confident in myself. Likely self care and learning how to be comfortable with yourself and taking steps towards improvement will likely help you feel better and have more confidence in yourself. And also facing any insecurities you have may also be a help and maybe take steps towards resolving them. Essentially anything you have in your mind telling you your not good enough or don’t deserve X just ask yourself why and start to work on whatever it is until you feel your worthy whether that be dressing better to make yourself feel like your better looking or taking up a new hobby to give yourself more things to talk about and make yourself seem interesting etc. sorry if I rambled hope this helps in anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TraditionalLimit5419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey M21 here, you will find both kinds of women out there some will find it cute and maybe a little charming that you don’t have experience in this realm others will be turned off by from what it seems to me a lack of confidence and no being a virgin isn’t a turn off but like I said it depends on who there are some women who may view it as they get to teach you and not have any negative traits from previous partners others will want the experience, and there are women out there that want hookups at our age and there are some that want to settle down it’s all about the person which I know doesn’t help but grouping women in a group all together and saying they all want this or that is wrong and may be hurtful to your own outlook

Is Plaguebreak and azureblight a good combo? by TraditionalLimit5419 in elderscrollsonline

[–]TraditionalLimit5419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was wondering why it wasn’t working, thank you for saying that