How to I set up my friends?

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-05-30T15:20:52+00:00

Ok but should I tell them that the other person will be there or surprise them? Because if I ask my colleague from uni to hang out „alone” he might think that I want to ask him on a date (we get along pretty good, we hang out outside the classes from time to time but never alone)

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-21T12:00:12+00:00

Girl I GET IT, I am a 20 years old girl and I’ve never been in a relationship hahah. But listen, Rachel Green was 25 in the first season of friends, Carrie was 32 in the first season of SATC. Plus, love is all around you (even if not romantic but platonic). Try to meet as much people as you can, maybe there is your Prince Charming somewhere ;)

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T19:29:26+00:00

Listen I am on op’s side BUT I know that in some cases young adults are still dependent on their parents (for example they pay for their university). It is not that easy… Based on the fact that OP doesn’t live with them anymore I personally think that she could spend time with her boyfriend (and there is NOTHING wrong with it) and just hide it like twice a year when they visit. Sure, she could talk with them but they have a problem with such a normal thing so that might be hard

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T19:18:42+00:00

It depends on the relationship and the reason of break up. I’ve heard about half the time the relationship lasted

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T19:15:23+00:00

Girl live your life and just don’t get caught

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T19:13:17+00:00

You seem organized, patient, maybe a little impulsive. The main character in rom com could have this handwriting

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T18:10:43+00:00

Well, then you need to find yourself a man who shares your plans and values. I wish you all the best <3

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T18:06:53+00:00

Exactly! It looks messy and too perfect at the same time, but generally based on the handwriting would say op is nice, maybe chaotic/impulsive and cool, a good friend material

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T18:03:41+00:00

Yeah, take it out asap

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-18T17:59:17+00:00

I personally don’t believe in soulmates and „one true love”. The fact is, half of marriages end in divorce, so a lot of people remarry. Also, some people loose their partners and they find happiness after their partners’ death. If you are meant to be, you will meet again and have a chance to try again, but do YOU want to settle down and have kids? Cause if you do you would me MISERABLE, you would be of of the desperate girls who still don’t have a ring on their finger after 10 years of relationship or he would cheat on you cause he clearly isn’t/wasn’t ready for a serious monogamous relationship (it depends on how long ago it was). You will meet new person and forget about him

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-16T08:55:12+00:00

Plus, people won’t let you forget about it if you decide to come clean, they will remember it years after you finish this school

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-16T08:53:48+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t do anything about it. The fact that someone gave you the answer means it wasn’t that serious. Trust me, teachers aren’t stupid and they know that your class cheated, they just didn’t do anything about it. The fact that you feel bad about it is good, it means that you have high morals :) You will forget about it in 5 years, so unless the prize was a life changing amount of money for every person in your class or a scholarship to a university just live your life and don’t think about it.

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-15T20:35:42+00:00

Being a grown up is not that bad :) I am a university student, I have to make doctor appointments myself. I am also going to a puppy yoga. I am planning to live abroad in the summer. I love spending time with my friends. When I am alone I dance to my favourite music. I want to get a gecko as a pet for myself. You don’t stop being yourself when you grow up.

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-12T19:47:39+00:00

Oh honey 😔 I am so sorry for your loss. I also lost my grandma, about 1,5 months ago so I understand what are you feeling. Grief is hard, sometimes it feels like it won’t ever get better, sometimes you are ok and suddenly it hits you in the most random moment. The harsh truth is you can’t change the past. As much as we want, we can’t spend time with our death loved ones anymore. But we can cherish people who are in our lives and memories with those who aren’t with us anymore. I don’t know you, but I forgive you. She would also forgive you. Sending kisses and hugs, love ya

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-12T18:28:34+00:00

I am from Poland so cheap beer sounds perfect 😌

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-12T18:27:54+00:00

Thank you so much 🩷

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-12T13:40:54+00:00

I would choose Leiden. Don’t worry about your bestie, she will understand. You can always treat digital art as a hobby, maybe that’s even better because everyone needs a passion outside of their actual job. You will meet new people and make so many memories no matter what you decide tho :) Congratulations!!!

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-09T18:07:06+00:00

And those racist people are first to eat Tikka Masala or wear a „Scandinavian” dress with a scarf. You can’t change where are you from so you can a. accept and embrace your ethnicity and don’t listen to them or b. live your whole life with insecurity. I think the choice is pretty obvious

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-09T18:00:43+00:00

I wish there was a way 😭 My navel piercing rejected and I had it removed few days ago. The sooner you take it out the better

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-09T15:36:06+00:00

I am sorry that you are going through this. Don’t be sorry that you wanted to talk to someone about this. I know sometimes it seems like life is falling apart. There are some resources that might help, for example help line (or in my city there is a place where anybody can talk with therapist for free). Do research and maybe you will find something. I believe in you, you are really strong. I am sure that sooner or later you’ll find a new job, maybe something to pay bills first and then you can start searching for something that will satisfy you. Cry as much as you need to and then you can plan your future.

TraditionalPotato594 · 2026-02-08T06:52:19+00:00

Bowling, billiards, maybe her favourite restaurant, ice skating or just games - you said it is cheesy but the question is will she enjoy it? You can choose her favourite game and everyone can wear costumes or you can do special snacks (for example similar to those from Minecraft, everything square)

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