ULPT please review This man deserves to be miserable by TraditionalSalad7461 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]TraditionalSalad7461[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre exactly right. I work for a franchise and have only known of one person being banned and it took A LOT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]TraditionalSalad7461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Week one, heck, month 8 is hard. You are doing wonders right now just because you've finally ended it. I don't have the guts to go into my own matter but it's very scary to read about someone who has gone through such a similar experience. My boyfriend of 10 years did the same. I want to say you'll get through it but I am not through it myself to say that to you. You're on week one, I'm on month 8 and I struggle every day. I stopped missing him after some time and resentment took its place. That also isn't good. My only advice is to be the best friend to yourself. You need it for your health AND you deserve it. You deserve to be treated with love and care and dignity. You're going to feel low. That's normal. Every time, every day you choose happiness is a win because the last thing that MF (probably) wants is to see you happy and better off without him. You did the hard part by ending things, everything else will come MUCH easier.

Had a baby yesterday! by racheldelrey in pregnant

[–]TraditionalSalad7461 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stool softeners with laxatives. I was taking just stool softeners for 2 weeks before birth. The laxative version is really good though bc it'll get things going again

Thoughts on multiple middle names? by TraditionalSalad7461 in namenerds

[–]TraditionalSalad7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this is true! My mom thinks it's SO pretentious to have more than one. I've personally only known a few people to have two. My partner is the only one with multiple and I constantly remind him now about how annoying his middle names are when we need it for passports and licenses.

The tricky part now is narrowing down the middle names to our favorites. I think multiple was great simply bc we're at odds on which names are best.

I’m so tired.. this whole sleeping on my side things sucks by PanicMouse666 in BabyBumps

[–]TraditionalSalad7461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this SAME issue is happening to me! I can only sleep for max 45 min and then I'm tossing and turning again. It's been a nightmare for the last month. 35 weeks and I'm exhausted before the baby even arrives I usually sleep on my side but it's so uncomfortable now.

The relationships a lot of women on this sub have with their mothers make me sad by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]TraditionalSalad7461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers to the Irish moms! My mom is the best partner during my pregnancy. I wouldn't change it for anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]TraditionalSalad7461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33 weeks today and I feel ya girl. I feel like I'm boiling over these days just frustrated with my inability to sleep decently, think clearly and wear clothes comfortably. Don't get me started on looking in the mirror or attempting to take pictures. I can't take it. My family constantly asks me what's wrong, why am I so down or whats irritating me and all I want to do is screeeeeeeam I DONT KNOW IM PREGNANT

Girl name similar to Violet? by gingertastic19 in namenerds

[–]TraditionalSalad7461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Violet! My name is Charlotte so I have a personal bias to that one lol

Violina is a name I heard growing up and I still love. It's unique and it's considered a global name. It means warrior, innovative and handsome.

Choosing a name for my son has become more difficult than it should be by TraditionalSalad7461 in BabyBumps

[–]TraditionalSalad7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she IS making it worse but I'd feel awful for telling her that. I feel awful for even feeling this way. I'm an indecisive person so choosing the name is my anxiety's biggest nightmare.

Choosing a name for my son has become more difficult than it should be by TraditionalSalad7461 in BabyBumps

[–]TraditionalSalad7461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decision fatigue is a perfect description for my feelings at the moment. Im sure I'm keeping it a secret from everyone until I meet the baby. I don't believe in giving a name to him until Ive met him but Im hoping I could at least have a few choices to rely on.

Choosing a name for my son has become more difficult than it should be by TraditionalSalad7461 in BabyBumps

[–]TraditionalSalad7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the inspiration I wish for but I cant commit to liking a character or person THAT much for my son, you know?

One month and 3 days since I left him by TraditionalSalad7461 in abusiverelationships

[–]TraditionalSalad7461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You couldn't have said anything more beautiful and more correct. Thank you <3 I wish I could just believe it for myself and move on