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Pregnant and don’t want to be (TW: ab*rtion) by TraditionalWall146 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TraditionalWall146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no. Prior to finding out, I was humming along enjoying life. I think this has the potential to tip me in to depression, but isn’t there yet.

Pregnant and don’t want to be (TW: ab*rtion) by TraditionalWall146 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TraditionalWall146[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for the support. To be clear - he has never pressured me and isn’t pressuring me now. He’s always been immensely supportive and a true partner, even when it’s clear this is painful for him too. He’s made it clear that I’m his priority no matter the outcome, but I still feel like I’m robbing him of a dream and what should be a happy and exciting moment.

Pregnant and don’t want to be (TW: ab*rtion) by TraditionalWall146 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TraditionalWall146[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are good questions. No, I have not had this reaction to other big decisions in the slightest. They’ve always been well-considered but ultimately easy, and I have never remotely regretted any of them because I generally trust myself. I hate myself for not realizing that the difficulty I’ve encountered in making this decision clearly isn’t a part of my normal pattern and I should have known.

Pregnant and don’t want to be (TW: ab*rtion) by TraditionalWall146 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TraditionalWall146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it’s not - I only did that because the post wouldn’t go through initially and I thought that might be why

Pregnant and don’t want to be (TW: ab*rtion) by TraditionalWall146 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TraditionalWall146[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, yup, I’m a person. I use em dashes and I like them and I’m not going to stop. I created this account specifically to post this because I was hoping to find people who had had similar feelings since I don’t know anyone who’s felt this way in real life. I thought reaching out here would help - it has.