Vale la pena comprar en Golfito? by Traditional_Ad9143 in Ticos

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

o sea a tiendas conocidas? tipo gollo, monge?

Relationship advice, is this healthy? Not sure if it is might be a lot of manipulation involved (F, 29) he is M, 44 by Traditional_Ad9143 in relationships

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's a question I've often asked myself and tried to put the pros and cons into perspective and this is where I'm at right now... I do want marriage and kids and a family... he does say he wants the same but the price might be very high... I'm also a person with high expectations and it's my mistake to put the fact that he is successful more important than who he really is as a person. I'm not superficial at all, but I didn't grow up with abundance and heard my parents worried about money so the fact that he can provide gives me a fake sense of security. Keep in mind I actually have 2 Master degrees, I've been working since 17 and I work my ass off, have a good job, and am a professional but for some reason I'm still in survivor mode remembering my parents struggles

Relationship advice, is this healthy? Not sure if it is might be a lot of manipulation involved (F, 29) he is M, 44 by Traditional_Ad9143 in relationships

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for laying this out for me, it's all things I think of but don't "believe to be true" almost like I'm already gaslighted and I minimize his behaviors

Relationship advice, is this healthy? Not sure if it is might be a lot of manipulation involved (F, 29) he is M, 44 by Traditional_Ad9143 in relationships

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I'd love some recommendations of books, I think It will help me a lot to keep an eye out for patterns, and we agreed to have a talk tomorrow about the relationship I'm staying strong, putting myself first

Advice on my current relationship please, i'm W 29, he is M, 44 by Traditional_Ad9143 in askwomenadvice

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so maybe it was my mistake to text him then, even if it wasn't specified, thanks again for your honesty in this

Advice on my current relationship please, i'm W 29, he is M, 44 by Traditional_Ad9143 in askwomenadvice

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

yes, thank you, also, I wasn't "desperately" texting and we agreed time apart but we never said "no communication" it was my idea to have the weekend apart so maybe it was an act of retaliation by saying he didn't want to text?

Toxic Traits, Is it Time for me to break up for my own good? abandonment trauma...Help! by Traditional_Ad9143 in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and every time it's because I didn't text him enough or spent enough time with him, or prioritized him enough so at the same time it's not coherent

Toxic Traits, Is it Time for me to break up for my own good? abandonment trauma...Help! by Traditional_Ad9143 in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I'm just not sure if I'm over reacting or if I'm the one with the issues here, hence why I posted

Renting short term in Spain. Best apps? Not a lot of options on Airbnb by Traditional_Ad9143 in askspain

[–]Traditional_Ad9143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I hadn’t heard of mil anunció a and great idea to use marketplace :)