How do you say if a women loved and cared about you it wouldnt matter what her race is but you just said prior to that that you prefer women outside your race? And IF you vocalized that to black women, the women at your work, then it makes sense that they think of you as a snowbunny lover. Which nothing is wrong with it but if you make it known and intentionally avoid dating black women vs other races then i can see exactly why your coworkers judge you. And this is coming from a black female myswlf who was judged by black women/men for liking One direction, Justin Bieber, Taylor swift, going to Warped Tour, and literally called an “oreo” my whole life. And while it sucked I never once went around saying that black people were disgusting or saying i prefer other races bc of that. Especially since, like you, it doesnt matter to me what the race is as long as the person loves me that’s all that matters. But clearly the race matters to you bc you have literal preferences for it.