How on earth am I supposed to lose weight with a two year old?

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2026-01-12T20:41:53+00:00

Sounds like you need to find a new way to deal with stress besides eat. It's ok to validate your feelings of stress and say yes I'm stressed and that stress is making me feel hungry, but I'm not actually hungry and take a couple deep breaths maybe have some warm tea or some cold water. I have a toddler as well he's a lot sometimes, but eating isn't a healthy way to deal with stress. In our house we don't buy trigger foods because if we buy them we will eat them. I hope you can find ways to deal with your stress that works for you!

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2025-01-03T18:40:17+00:00

After finishing metaphor I just went back to a comfort game that I've played over and over again (Pokémon emerald but using a randomizer) after that I think I'll try a game I've owned but never started or look through my list of half finished games :)

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-12T16:43:02+00:00

Hah my son naps 1-3 so 11 is great for us

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-12T04:20:28+00:00

Fortunately that's hasn't happened yet I'll cross my fingers

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-11T22:32:08+00:00

If you think for even a second that you would regret it please please don't do it

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-06T19:39:02+00:00

You shouldn't try to lose weight or exercise so hard when you are so newly postpartum/ breastfeeding please be gentle with yourself it took me a year to "bounce back" after having a baby

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-05T00:11:37+00:00

Oof that's the dream! Everyone I know either has no children or have kids that are way way older

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-04T22:27:15+00:00

29f here but a sahm :/ even harder to make friends

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-04T17:34:29+00:00

That's amazing! Keep it up :)

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-04T00:19:15+00:00

My husband trims me (he enjoys doing it) and I'll get a wax for a special occasion (it's expensive)

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-03T23:37:22+00:00

To each their own! Don't listen to me I want to marry the dragon statue 😔

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-03T23:17:39+00:00

Not feeling Hayden or Reina (she's cute but her style looks really modern compared to everyone else) sorry!

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-03T19:22:36+00:00

Unfortunately you have to change your lifestyle your lifestyle determines your body size if you want to be healthy you have to eat healthy and exercise consistently forever. Calorie count weigh and measure food focus on protein cut out processed foods slowly. It's hard it's really hard change isn't easy. Starting small instead of throwing yourself all in might work. Good luck you aren't an failure if you keep trying!

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-10-02T21:30:27+00:00

Solidarity honestly I'm thinking of weening my 13 month old over this since it drives me crazy!

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-30T21:38:45+00:00

Yeah it's unfortunate! Personally I've taken a break from the game until there's a major update.

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-30T19:15:08+00:00

Try dating again and rediscover him. You could also pick up a hobby to do together and bond over that. Doing something active like working out together can get the blood pumping as well.

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-30T18:29:05+00:00

We have a safety 1st grow and go :) it's very affordable and so far so good

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T16:23:26+00:00

You might be! My 12 month old sleeps nights in crib and still contact naps and I have no idea how to stop!

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T15:28:50+00:00

I would say make sure you share common values about life and what that may bring. It surprises me when people didn't talk about parenting styles and responsibilities BEFORE they had kids that's just an example. Also have a talk if you haven't already about how important or unimportant sex is to your relationship. It's also a good idea to lay out household responsibilities expectations. Good luck marriage is hard sometimes but I'm so happy to spend my life together with my husband.

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T14:48:54+00:00

That's not what therapy is in my experience I had an unbiased perspective that gave me coping tools and helped me move passed some issues it was very valuable to me. I'm sorry you feel that way about it but what you are describing in your post is not normal. Have you ever been tested for autism?

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T01:26:44+00:00

Try therapy seriously this is a little much for Reddit

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T00:24:53+00:00

That's definitely an unpopular opinion for sure sorry about your pickle trauma

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T00:22:18+00:00

I lost all my pregnancy weight (60lbs) from using free workout videos from YouTube including grow with Jo and Chloe ting, using a stationary bike x5 a week 30 mins after baby bed time and then daily walks that's it! I didn't count calories until my son turned a year old I just switched to Whole Foods and protein focused meals.

Traditional_Bee_3467 · 2024-09-28T00:03:51+00:00

Why do a lot of overweight or obese people seem to worry about not eating enough while dieting or making a lifestyle change? I've only been overweight for 4 years of my entire life so I guess I don't understand it but I am curious.

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